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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair to say I've had far more "sexual success" via more mainstream outlets in the last year than I have on fab... However when meeting someone from a dating site and they ask you "what did you do last night?" Can you really reply "oh I met a good friend and watched a guy fuck her!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair to say I've had far more "sexual success" via more mainstream outlets in the last year than I have on fab... However when meeting someone from a dating site and they ask you "what did you do last night?" Can you really reply "oh I met a good friend and watched a guy fuck her!" "
why not?might want a shot next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the best outlet for any single guy looking for a ride, is to get out at the weekend and get their arse to a club, plenty of woman choking for it lol far better plan of action than to moan about not getting meets from on here, which to be fair i do sometimes myself, oops

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a very good point my friend. Many of us probably think it's more economically favourable on here than clubbing! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how much of the 'sexual success' through dating methods is down to the fact that the obvious implication is that more is on offer than just sex, I dunno, like, erm, dating?!

I cant imagine that while having a good time, you saying you really want to shag them, maybe even on a couple of occasions if they're good before you move on, (assuming your looking for something on those lines) would improve the success rate, if I was to speculate.

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona


"I wonder how much of the 'sexual success' through dating methods is down to the fact that the obvious implication is that more is on offer than just sex, I dunno, like, erm, dating?!

I cant imagine that while having a good time, you saying you really want to shag them, maybe even on a couple of occasions if they're good before you move on, (assuming your looking for something on those lines) would improve the success rate, if I was to speculate. "

Good speculation

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I wonder how much of the 'sexual success' through dating methods is down to the fact that the obvious implication is that more is on offer than just sex, I dunno, like, erm, dating?!

I cant imagine that while having a good time, you saying you really want to shag them, maybe even on a couple of occasions if they're good before you move on, (assuming your looking for something on those lines) would improve the success rate, if I was to speculate. "

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the point I'm trying to make is that although this site would appear to be like minded adults seeking the same liberating activity in fact there is often more obstacles, morals, rules and reasons not to meet. Perhaps because people want yo be totally sure.

These days mainstream online dating has became a bit more chilled and relaxed with people engaging in flirty banter, meeting and not being afraid of then deciding to "let's go fuck" so to speak.

I just find that a bit ironic having dabbled in both for a long time in the elusive search of the ideal partner!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the point I'm trying to make is that although this site would appear to be like minded adults seeking the same liberating activity in fact there is often more obstacles, morals, rules and reasons not to meet. Perhaps because people want yo be totally sure.

These days mainstream online dating has became a bit more chilled and relaxed with people engaging in flirty banter, meeting and not being afraid of then deciding to "let's go fuck" so to speak.

I just find that a bit ironic having dabbled in both for a long time in the elusive search of the ideal partner!! "

Well I did say I was speculating! I was thinking that here, people can be more direct, and already know what they want (and if your it or not). It IS tougher for single guys here as they are the vast majority it seems, where as it's more of an even keel on dating sites, and there people are more open to more possible outcomes of meeting and what it *may lead to.. but as long as your up front about what your offering, before you jump bones so everyone knows where they stand, my point is moot, and no harm is being done. Good luck finding what your after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am giving the conventional dating game a miss for the next few months or so. I know if I just want my " Nat King" I can achieve that easy enough on there.

On this site you are pretty much.more upfont about things and know that something slightly different from convention is likely if you secure the meet.

Either process can be hard going but spadework is definitely required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, to the most part, this site, dont do exactly what it says on the tin.

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