FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback gangbang

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry but is it just me or do you think that they must be nuts and nieve...

Playing russian rolette with there health can say every guy is clean and no prove crazy really really crazy

Just wanted to hear other peoples thoughts

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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Never. I would always use protection. I also tend to avoid people who advertise bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't go bareback if you paid me all the money in the world and all the tea in china.

But it takes all sorts to make the world carry on turning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never. I would always use protection. I also tend to avoid people who advertise bareback. "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER NEVER NEVER !!!! I would not consider anyone advertising BB !!!!\

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By *iFemaleStr8MaleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Its just silly! In a perfect world, yes, I would love it, but this isn't a perfect world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

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By *cotsbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

"Its just silly! In a perfect world, yes, I would love it, but this isn't a perfect world.

Hit the nail on the head (ouch!). Sounds great in fantasy land. In reality? HELL NO!!

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By *asyfranWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

NEVER NEVER EVER NEVER EVER do bareback.

Yeah, right.

Apart from the new partner who seems ok, or the one night stand, or the fuckbuddy on the second meet (they seem ok too) ? This is how the majority think.

It's all about risk and how it is managed.

I love bareback - but insist on all my partners having recent tests, and me also. Foolproof? No, far from it. But having bareback sex with a new partner, both recently tested and clear, is actually LOWER risk than random sex with a stranger who has no idea of their status.

There is a recent study that proves just this thesis - people who test regularly and are very sexually aware are by far the lowest risk group out there.

yes, the naysayers will argue that you can catch something and pass it on between tests etc... But perhaps my point is that you identify a new partner - both test - and then have sex with each other... repeat before moving onto new partners.

There is really no excuse with the prevalence of home testing kits etc.

Instead of adamantly arguing that you never ever ever do bareback, would never do it, its silly, its a huge risk, its a "death sentence".... people should really educate themselves more about the actual risks involved and stop preaching from their ill informed high horses.

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By *iFemaleStr8MaleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have to be honest both myself and my man have been guilty of not using condoms, not often but occasionally, but it makes waiting for test results to come back far to scary, we have vowed never to do it again with out condoms.

We do have 2 or 3 good friends that we trust, but even with them we always use condoms now. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point"

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? x"
never gave a bj never gonna so must be safe pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this is a discussion that will go on until the end off time so i guess it's your life and if u want to take the risks well you will , but please av a thought for the people who don't want to take that risk and lets bring back the Ads they had for the Aids campaign they had in the 80's i say

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? x"
Acording to the experts Dee the risk is actually lower than that of penetrative sex but involves risk .

But did you also know it's possible to get throat and mouth cancer from oral sex?

I watched a documentary on it a few years ago scary stuff .

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? xAcording to the experts Dee the risk is actually lower than that of penetrative sex but involves risk .

But did you also know it's possible to get throat and mouth cancer from oral sex?

I watched a documentary on it a few years ago scary stuff ."

It's also possible to get throat and/ or mouth cancer from smoking but that doesn't seem to stop people

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Should also mention that you can also get an STD from giving a woman oral guys, although the risks are lower than a woman giving a man oral but the risk is still there.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? xAcording to the experts Dee the risk is actually lower than that of penetrative sex but involves risk .

But did you also know it's possible to get throat and mouth cancer from oral sex?

I watched a documentary on it a few years ago scary stuff .

It's also possible to get throat and/ or mouth cancer from smoking but that doesn't seem to stop people

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im sure everyone is aware of that _nny but the topic is about bareback sex not smoking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only bareback..

I wouldnt meet anyone i knew that attended a gangbang full stop

Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy behaviour in my opinion, safe sex always and even with regular partners on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its the fact that its a gangbang was more to my point.

One on one is a risk but you could get lucky and catch something lol but in a gangbang with 5 or 6 or more guys then the chances are extremly high just my thoughts

Lol blocked her and deleted the mail to bad you cant report for this behaviour lol its there life

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? xAcording to the experts Dee the risk is actually lower than that of penetrative sex but involves risk .

But did you also know it's possible to get throat and mouth cancer from oral sex?

I watched a documentary on it a few years ago scary stuff .

It's also possible to get throat and/ or mouth cancer from smoking but that doesn't seem to stop people

im sure everyone is aware of that _nny but the topic is about bareback sex not smoking."

A health warning never goes amiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not only bareback..

I wouldnt meet anyone i knew that attended a gangbang full stop

Auds

Hard enough to find one person to meet at times never mind enough for a gangbang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true!!

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Another bareback thread

Why oh why cant people use the bloody search function instead of spamming the forums with yet another 'look at me im a sensible male, meet me please' thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he didnt wanna know what everyone had for their tea tonight?

the size of the forums topics are bound to be duplicated

I for 1 found it interesting

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Maybe he didnt wanna know what everyone had for their tea tonight?

the size of the forums topics are bound to be duplicated

I for 1 found it interesting

x"
damn n there i was gonna tell you about my comfi duck with roast veg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he didnt wanna know what everyone had for their tea tonight?

the size of the forums topics are bound to be duplicated

I for 1 found it interesting

i 4 2 find it very interesting and better than some off the dribble spammed on the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shag marry or avoid oh wait thats already been in the forum about a million times lol

Some people just never happy

Take it you ve never watched the same programme or film twice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag marry avoid.. Wasn't that a tv show ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shag marry avoid.. Wasn't that a tv show ?"

No that's married life

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By *eorgeblue72Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I am giving up sex

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I wouldnt meet a guy who openly attends gangbangs....safe sex or not!

To the men and women who enjoy them....Good luck, have fun and keep safe

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"NEVER NEVER EVER NEVER EVER do bareback.

Yeah, right.

Apart from the new partner who seems ok, or the one night stand, or the fuckbuddy on the second meet (they seem ok too) ? This is how the majority think.

It's all about risk and how it is managed.

There is a recent study that proves just this thesis - people who test regularly and are very sexually aware are by far the lowest risk group out there.

There is really no excuse with the prevalence of home testing kits etc.

Agree with the last statement. Which is why we'd never get involved with people who do bareback. It's an educated decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a strange hypocrisy about STDs that your think our community would manage to get past. Why are they still looked upon with such disdain, contempt and disgust? They're no different to any other disease. Why is one form of herpes socially acceptable and one isn't? If a person has a random throat bug why is that okay, but NSU would make you a pariah?

(No, I don't have any, just curious about the attitude)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not only bareback..

I wouldnt meet anyone i knew that attended a gangbang full stop

Auds

But you've done mmf? That's a one man difference.

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By *O LEE FUKMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I don't see much difference from gang bangs to private parties or clubs etc with people wandering from room to room having fun.

Anyone that says they wouldn't meet a guy who attends a gang bang yet happy to meet guys in clubs or private parties care to elaborate on the difference ?

As a side note "swingers" and i use the term loosely whilst in a high risk group in general are more responsible as a whole than the thousands of people who fill waiting rooms at gum clinics every monday morning following a weekend on the lash and pull and thats both sexes.

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"Should also mention that you can also get an STD from giving a woman oral guys, although the risks are lower than a woman giving a man oral but the risk is still there."

Yip this is true too....we are all doomed btw !!! Lol xx

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"Shag marry avoid.. Wasn't that a tv show ?

No that's married life"

Pmsl

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? xAcording to the experts Dee the risk is actually lower than that of penetrative sex but involves risk .

But did you also know it's possible to get throat and mouth cancer from oral sex?

I watched a documentary on it a few years ago scary stuff ."

I just threw out a leaflet today that stated it was just as risky ....especially for certain types of STD and woman/men can both catch STDs from oral sex ....it's all a risky business....makes you wonder why we still do it huh??!!! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not only bareback..

I wouldnt meet anyone i knew that attended a gangbang full stop

Auds

But you've done mmf? That's a one man difference.

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Yip

1 man...not 3,5:8.

Just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never know someone's sexual history so expect the unexpected and play safe if that puts your mind at rest.......if all else falls, wear crocs, as they are defo 100% safe sex wearer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We never know someone's sexual history so expect the unexpected and play safe if that puts your mind at rest.......if all else falls, wear crocs, as they are defo 100% safe sex wearer

What you mean the beach shoes cross?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? xAcording to the experts Dee the risk is actually lower than that of penetrative sex but involves risk .

But did you also know it's possible to get throat and mouth cancer from oral sex?

I watched a documentary on it a few years ago scary stuff .

It's also possible to get throat and/ or mouth cancer from smoking but that doesn't seem to stop people

im sure everyone is aware of that _nny but the topic is about bareback sex not smoking."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We never know someone's sexual history so expect the unexpected and play safe if that puts your mind at rest.......if all else falls, wear crocs, as they are defo 100% safe sex wearer

What you mean the beach shoes cross?"

The Croc shoes with the holes at the front lol x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"do u ever notice how many Bj's are done without condom , worth a thought i say

Very valid point

Yeh they say the risk is just as high ....and are we all using protection doing those ??? xAcording to the experts Dee the risk is actually lower than that of penetrative sex but involves risk .

But did you also know it's possible to get throat and mouth cancer from oral sex?

I watched a documentary on it a few years ago scary stuff .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not only bareback..

I wouldnt meet anyone i knew that attended a gangbang full stop

Auds

But you've done mmf? That's a one man difference.

Yip

1 man...not 3,5:8.

Just my preference

Actually, mmf is technically a gang bang...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

They are adult...

It is their choice....

Let them get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are adult...

It is their choice....

Let them get on with it

Why bother starting a post about something you do not enjoy & do not approve of?

Lord knows that there are heaps of things that others on this site enjoy that I find frankly barf inducing.

I am quite happy to let them crack on with feeling it necessary to post my disapproval.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I believe more about the sexual practises of the people who declare they are actively seeking bareback, than I do the people who say they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a while back on one of the regular bareback discussions & pointed out that over the years I have had the privilege of being involved in many group situations.

On very many of these occasions I have observed guys playing with their uncovered cocks & then moments later fingering some women's pussy.

Safe sex in a swinging situation is frankly an illusion.

Its simply where people personally feel they wish to draw a line. So I find it intensely irritating to be on the receiving end of a patronising lecture on safe sex from another swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Lol blocked her and deleted the mail to bad you cant report for this behaviour lol its there life"

We ALWAYS use condoms, no negotiating but I don't see that just because someones life choices are different to yours and ours, that you should have any power to report them. Not sure a LOL is appropriate either, can't imagine you were chuckling away to yourself as you wrote that!

What should give you the power to say yay or nay? The only choice you should have is to decide for yourself if you want to meet them or not and if you do, make sure you strap it up first. LOL!

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