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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it normal to be absolutely bricking it prior to your first party?

We are on the verge of attending CJ's tonight

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes - BUT don't worry, once you get there you will wonder why you were

I've never been to CJs but I've NEVER heard a bad word and I have met some of the people who will probably be there tonight and they are a lovely bunch. Have fun and happy new year

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

dont worry at all....im sure you guys will be fine and you will absolutely love it...there is always some measure of nerve's to be expected before parties but theyre generally always fun and well worth going too....hope you have a great time tonight...as im sure you guys most definitely will xxxxxx

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

5 mins after you get there you will probably wonder what you were worrying about.

The first time I went, I went on my own. Have gone since both on my own and with someone, actually prefer going on my own and doing my own thing lol..

Really there's nothing to be worried about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks guys... we have always had nerves when were/do going/go to meets but can't remember them being as bad as this... maybe the drink though is numbing the memory!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5 mins after you get there you will probably wonder what you were worrying about.

The first time I went, I went on my own. Have gone since both on my own and with someone, actually prefer going on my own and doing my own thing lol..

Really there's nothing to be worried about."

great - say hi when you see us!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Aint a party its a buisness

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Aint a party its a buisness "
the business of pleasure hmmm

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Hope you enjoy and have fun sophie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you enjoy and have fun sophie"

Thanks Sabrina... not going yourself then?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Aint a party its a buisness "

Yeah, its a business...

And its holding a New Year Party!

Sophie, dont drink too much, you want to enjoy the night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the hunt(for tonites cjs) as my friend had to cancel...am gutted...boohooooooo

no need to be nervous...friendly crowd and all well maintained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aint a party its a buisness

Yeah, its a business...

And its holding a New Year Party!

Sophie,drink loads, you want to enjoy paddy! "

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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Sophie,drink loads, you want to enjoy paddy!

"

She would need to be pissed to enjoy that!

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

We go to Cj's quite a lot, and I still get nervous getting ready, putting on the make up etc, even though we know a few folk lol. All part of the anticipation and it eases within minutes of getting in the front door. Enjoy, Love N Lust, The Blues xxx

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land


"Hope you enjoy and have fun sophie

Thanks Sabrina... not going yourself then?"

O ive jever been either but making that a new years resolution to go cjs

Let me know what it like and im sure you will lots of fun tonight

HNY xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Sophie,drink loads, you want to enjoy paddy!

She would need to be pissed to enjoy that! "

lol that's you off Paddy's 2014 Christmas list!

Make sure and say hi tonight even if we are pissed as farts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"... but making that a new years resolution to go cjs..."

once you buy a fucking machine you will never leave the house!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are only natural when you go to a party where you are meeting people for the first time.as miss B says though after 5 mins and people start saying hi you will wonder why you were.....friendly atmosphere and just a great house party where you can relax and enjoy yourself. Say hi if you see us......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"... Say hi if you see us......"

will do but don't hesitate if you see us first!

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow (for now)


"Is it normal to be absolutely bricking it prior to your first party?

We are on the verge of attending CJ's tonight"

It's like a house party with optional extras.

I missed the Christmas one and can't make tonight.

Take a deep breath, step through the door and enjoy!

Remember 1 thing.

It's your choice to play and who you play with. Don't think because your at a swingers club you "have" to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sophie,drink loads, you want to enjoy paddy!

She would need to be pissed to enjoy that!

lol that's you off Paddy's 2014 Christmas list!

Make sure and say hi tonight even if we are pissed as farts!"

I put poo in an xmas card for her for 2013..since then shes just been nasty to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Say hi if you see us......

will do but don't hesitate if you see us first!"

Pm us with a wee pic so we can say hi...

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

You will have a great time at cjs party, nerves are a good thing, love the butterfly tummy and don't want to loose it, don't get it going to cjs now, that's just my other house lol x but still get nervous going anywhere new. Xxxx

Have a great night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there were no butterflies you wouldn't be human. Dont get bladdered and you should be fine....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"... Say hi if you see us......

will do but don't hesitate if you see us first!

Pm us with a wee pic so we can say hi... "

If I can spot people just by looking at their tits....so can you!!

Stop cheating

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land


"... but making that a new years resolution to go cjs...

once you buy a fucking machine you will never leave the house!"

Lol I could just kerp yours warm for you when you at cjs sophie hehe

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Hope you have a Brilliant time.

Easier said than done but try not to worry, you'll relax as soon as you get there and start chatting to people.

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By *wingersgardenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Have fun ... wish I was going tonight too. Maybe see you next time.

Butterflies are all part of the excitement ... not so much fun without them.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Say hi if you see us......

will do but don't hesitate if you see us first!

Pm us with a wee pic so we can say hi...

If I can spot people just by looking at their tits....so can you!!

Stop cheating "

Why miss foe I'm a gentleman I look at faces when I say hello then there tits the rest of the conversation...lol

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By *iffdevilMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm off for my first time tonight to,really looking forward to it xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, you could'n make a better choice with CJ's. Carol is a lovely person and a carring host. You'll be fine once you'll meet. Have fun. I wish I could join you tonight.

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona


"We go to Cj's quite a lot, and I still get nervous getting ready, putting on the make up etc, even though we know a few folk lol. All part of the anticipation and it eases within minutes of getting in the front door. Enjoy, Love N Lust, The Blues xxx "

You both look smart stylish to me, yet to see a hair out of place

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Did you have a grest night sophie?

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow (for now)

From your update, it looks like you had a good time, a very very good time!

Nerves gone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you have a grest night sophie?"

Great night from 11pm till 9 am when we crawled home!

Thanks to all the lovely people who made our first experience of parties memorable!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Nerves gone?"

They had gone by 11:05pm!

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Lol glad hear you enjoyed sophie I hope I can get to cjs this yesr and perhaps say hi in person xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had the confidence to go to a club

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