FabSwingers.com forum: HOW LONG IS TOO LONG ???

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

UVE ARRANGED TO MEET UR WAITING AT THE ARRANGED VENUE ~MEETING AT SAY 1PM NO SHOW BY 1.30PM SO HOW LONG DO U RECKON IS A REASONABLE TIME TO WAIT FOR UR MEET TO MAKE AN APPREANCE ?

OPINIONS ON THIS ONE PLZ

LUV JACS

XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult, this one. Guess it depends on how the other person is getting there. A missed train might be factored in, or traffic, but I reckon 45 mins is prob the most I'd wait. Mind you, might be better if they didn't turn up at all because I'd be raging by that time lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

lol heather the way im feeling right now ur probably right hun ....

still waiting for a message to say why he didnt turn up

luv jacs

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When will people stop doing this? Ok, so catastrophies happen and can mess up the best laid plans but it is SO annoying and such a waste of ur time. Where do good manners go to? Sorry it's happened to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hiya, we've waited an hour but they did txt and say they were running late!!!! but if no txt or fone call finish your drink and go..........lol x

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

most i've waited is 45 mins too - but was following a txt saying held up in traffic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30mins max is long enough

if they haven't phone me 2 let me no they be late then i say its a no show

I would text them (around 20mins after the agree time)

2 find out if they are coming if no answer withing th 10 mins then i shall up an leave

I have been lucky enough 2 meet a few nice people on here an always had shown on the agree time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I waited for about a week once, but I was really gagging for it....she never turned up!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

awwwww hugs bigfella id never keep u waiting that long hunni mwahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 6days but never a week lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear you have been let down Jac xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jacs you give peanut a shout baby i wont let you down and i bet im a much better f**ck than that sad no show of a man would have been ggggrrrrrrrrr

orgasms galore and much much more!!!!!

xxxx-peanut-feeling very-very-horny-for-jacs-right-now-mmmmmmmmmm-xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

ty garry hunni mwahhhhhhhhhhhhh luvs ya xxxxxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

peanut id even wait for the three hour drive for u lol mwahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jac id wait half an hour then his arse is grass an his baws r getting use for earings lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always send people a text or call them direct to let them know we are on our way - you never know their last minute nerves may have got the better of them. No reply and we delay leaving until we hear from them !

On two occasions we have been over an hour late, M4 nightmare on the first and would you believe the bloody ferry broke down on the second occasion lol.

Luckily we were able to walk under the river through a bloody long tunnel which had a smell recognised the world over !!!

We kept these people well informed, they were both very understanding and waited for our arrival, which was very nice of them.

They have both become great friends who we still chat with and see regularly. Sometimes a little patience goes a long way, but if there had been no contact we would give them an hour tops and then be on our way !

Sorry to hear that you have been messed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just thinking, is it possible to have some sort of private naming and shaming where, if this happens, the person let down posts and we contact them privately to see who let them down? Personally only interested in who would chicken out of a full meet, rather than coffee/drink one. Could be open to abuse so guess would have to be on own judgement but might make worst offenders think twice. What do others think?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

heather hun dont u worry about naming and shaming as laine said in another post us girls in the sisterhood do chat dizz one dizz them all as he'll soon find out lol xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id wait an hour max , depends if they sent me some kind of message to say they were running late i wouldnt be annoyed with them as these things ahppen as mentioned depends how they getting there etc etc , hmm naming and shaming yeah possibly but id only put ppl i know have been messing about i.e they arrange a meet knowing full well they aint going to make it , and do it on a reg basis .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

sailor in a way i onlt got my self to blame as i asked for his mobile no and he didnt give it to me but did ask for mine should have know by that somthing wasnt right no call to cancel no replys to my emails here or on msn so what does that tell u ?

little worried he's now got my mobile no tho..... but these r the risks u take eh lol

luv jacs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jacs im sorry to hear that sum1 has been foolish enough to let you down .. their loss babes as u are a fabby person. If it was me id give half an hour but i always get a number from them.. in all fairness its normally me thats running late but always down to either traffic or my work but i always tx or call the person to say im running late and ruffly how long i will be .. i dont like to let ppl down. Bigs huggs from me jacs lv joosi xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we got stood up wayyy at the begining and we waited an hour no call nothing then 4hrs!! later they came up with some bull their car got nicked??

funny thing was next day they got verified on the site for a meet that night? mmm not clever then to make matters worse they keep pesterin us for another meet?..sorry guys only do that to us once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think for us half hr is plenty, and if the make a bull shit excuse, they aint worth it anyway,

and jac's there mugs for not showin up. nxt time give us a shout and will fill in for them.

xXx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

ty joosi janda and glasgow

i always belive in giving ppl the benefit of doubt and give two chances but a no show merits nothing other than

get lost n dont contact me again responce lol xxxxxx

luv jacs

xxxx

ps~glasgow memo taken lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jac

over a year on site...

no verifications ....

chats on msn .....

takes your number and disna give his....

I am no Stephen Hawkins...... but

= married cheating msn pic collector wanker lol

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

gary you have a great way with words babe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wit all day for you Jacs...

Rabbit581 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with todays technology surely its not to difficult to call or text or e-mail if a contact is late or just not turning up yes folks even I can be nice lol as for length of wait that would be entirley up to the person waiting be it male or female shit does happen at the last minit normally to me lol keep your chin up jacs xxxxxxxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

awwww Rabbit hunni mail when n where then hun pmsl ......

mr44 i live hun just a little annoyed to say the least xxxxx

luv jacs

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What these guys don't realise is that we have no need to name and shame... word travels fast among the sisterhood....diss one and you diss us all... a missed meet with one is a missed opportunity to meet any of us.

Be warned guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

US FEMS DONT NEED 2 NAME AN SHAME..WE JUST GET THE BONCO DRUMS OUT AN ITS ALL ABOUT SO GUYS PITY HELP U IF U LET US DOWNNNN LOL xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a bampot Jacs

His loss babe

Kazz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd prob wait say.....30 secs, i like punctuality in a person lol.....when we arranged our very first meet spoke to cpl on the fone (well the bloke from the cpl) at 6ish....were meeting them at 8.30......9.30 txt to say his mrs had come down suddently with the flu!!!!! lmao guess what he could still come and was sitting outside in his car...funny that eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ffs do they really think we are that stupid.

We had that once too, just as we were about to leave just checked emails and there wa sone wife has been called into work but I can still meet, yeah yeah

Kazz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you invite him in for a shag trace?

hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'd prob wait say.....30 secs, i like punctuality in a person lol.....when we arranged our very first meet spoke to cpl on the fone (well the bloke from the cpl) at 6ish....were meeting them at 8.30......9.30 txt to say his mrs had come down suddently with the flu!!!!! lmao guess what he could still come and was sitting outside in his car...funny that eh"

honest she did have the flu .... then i took the stopper out , let out the air , folded her up , and popped her back in her 'blow up doll 'box.... oops also gave her a wipe wi damp flannel .... cool her doon from her high temp lol

ffs , yu couples are so cynical.... and suspicious.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi Jac's

His loss babe god I hater timewasters xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always try n let omeone kno if i am runing late...is only polite..is their time as well as mine.

As for me...would not wait more than 30 mins unless i'd had a call/text from them...but then i am a miserable old git..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of the job I do I often get held up so my timekeeping is awful! But I ALWAYS text or ring the person to say I'm running late. I wouldn't wait any longer than about 15 minutes personally and definitely wouldn't arrange to meet without having their number first.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no longer than 15 - 20 mins. If he called and said would be a bit longer..then perhaps id wait..up to a max of 30 mins or so.

After that..no danger!

Respect and manners cost nothing. Fail in that..pay the price....

cos ill be off drowning my sorrows with a cream egg!! lol

Vol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no longer than 15 - 20 mins. If he called and said would be a bit longer..then perhaps id wait..up to a max of 30 mins or so.

After that..no danger!

Respect and manners cost nothing. Fail in that..pay the price....

cos ill be off drowning my sorrows with a cream egg!! lol

Vol

xx"

Can i have a lick.

of your cream egg lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if no show 10 mins after meeting time i would prob get to nervous to hang about and leave.

God im a chicken

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