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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Is it the time to forgive and forget, had a few disagreements this year but it doesn't mean that I don't like someone because they don't have the same opinion as me , so I would just like to say , it's been an eventful year, it's been a conflicting year but it's as usual been a fab year, next year won't be any different, if I upset you, let it go, if I oftentimes you I apologise in advance if I disagree with you, get set for another round of arguments, but please never take it personally, xxxxxxxxx it's just fab life xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Is it the time to forgive and forget, had a few disagreements this year but it doesn't mean that I don't like someone because they don't have the same opinion as me , so I would just like to say , it's been an eventful year, it's been a conflicting year but it's as usual been a fab year, next year won't be any different, if I upset you, let it go, if I oftentimes you I apologise in advance if I disagree with you, get set for another round of arguments, but please never take it personally, xxxxxxxxx it's just fab life xxxx"
Very well said and think at some point we have all done it xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it the time to forgive and forget, had a few disagreements this year but it doesn't mean that I don't like someone because they don't have the same opinion as me , so I would just like to say , it's been an eventful year, it's been a conflicting year but it's as usual been a fab year, next year won't be any different, if I upset you, let it go, if I oftentimes you I apologise in advance if I disagree with you, get set for another round of arguments, but please never take it personally, xxxxxxxxx it's just fab life xxxxVery well said and think at some point we have all done it xxxx"
Yes well said but some people never let go with the passed on here.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Is it the time to forgive and forget, had a few disagreements this year but it doesn't mean that I don't like someone because they don't have the same opinion as me , so I would just like to say , it's been an eventful year, it's been a conflicting year but it's as usual been a fab year, next year won't be any different, if I upset you, let it go, if I oftentimes you I apologise in advance if I disagree with you, get set for another round of arguments, but please never take it personally, xxxxxxxxx it's just fab life xxxxVery well said and think at some point we have all done it xxxxYes well said but some people never let go with the passed on here. "
so damn true but then its those who cant let go of the past who are sad people with nothing else in their lifes its all they have to cling onto .

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Have found out that it's sometimes to late to say sorry, so for the last seven years have found it easier to say, if you give me grief if you give me shit, if you give me sorrow, I will always respect your view because you have the right to your views xxxxxx

I believe that everyone at the end of the day believes they are right, and I for most of the year will argue that my point is right , but today is my day to say for once......... You are right xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% of people I have had fall outs with or who have hurt and offended me I will in time forgive , however there is a small 5% that I have given chances and they have repeated their behaviors or have done some things that are horrible and nasty ,that I have vowed I will never break breath with again. It takes a lot in order not to get my forgiveness . Silly disagreements I am definitely of the opinion that I will forgive and forget as I dont like carrying about anger and bad feelings around with me and if I can fix things with the majority of people I will . So here's to less bickering and hostility throughout life be it on fab or in reality in the new year

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"95% of people I have had fall outs with or who have hurt and offended me I will in time forgive , however there is a small 5% that I have given chances and they have repeated their behaviors or have done some things that are horrible and nasty ,that I have vowed I will never break breath with again. It takes a lot in order not to get my forgiveness . Silly disagreements I am definitely of the opinion that I will forgive and forget as I dont like carrying about anger and bad feelings around with me and if I can fix things with the majority of people I will . So here's to less bickering and hostility throughout life be it on fab or in reality in the new year

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Niecly put shelly and all so true there is only so much forgiving you can give before saying enough enough xxx

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By *ib n HelCouple
over a year ago

tayside

Aye n if they don't accept your apology or take offence to what your saying let them know you know a big fellow that has f/arms!!!!!!

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Lol, we always saving you for the real arseholes, they don't know we got friends in high places xxxxxx

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Shelly, be the best person that your friends know you can be, send your worst enemy a new year good luck message, start a new year as you mean to go on, not as they mean to go on xxxxx we the bigger person xxxx

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Be the bigger person lol xxxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

prefer to keep things real pretend ive forgiven pretend that folks shitty behaviour will be forgotten for them to do the same over and over again nope not me once my minds made up its final no reprieves no second third so on so fourth chances sometimes the best way forwards isnt turn the other cheek only gets slapped twice as hard

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Sorry you feel like that, but I've had the same problem, I still forgive because we never know what problems the other person has had in there life, xxxxx it's to easy to judge xxxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Sorry you feel like that, but I've had the same problem, I still forgive because we never know what problems the other person has had in there life, xxxxx it's to easy to judge xxxx"
each persons given right to make decisions i can forgive lots of things rhough some folk are past redemption proof is always in the actions

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

God forgives our sins x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

so let god forgive i will stay true and smite the unjust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im talking general. Not just fab. Havent had any fall outs on fab

Lifes too short to not let by gones be by gones

Ive learned that Holding a grudge only makes you unhappy in the long run

I try to find peace in my heart so I like to forgive and try to forget //

I know I have been given plenty second chances in my time so its only fair to try and make peace with people of they have wronged you

Well on second thoughts

Some people just dont deserve to be forgiven or forgotten and dont deserve a second chance cos history repeats itself

Fool me once. Shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

I think it depends on who and what

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

If god can forgive , then we all can, at the time of his sons birth, let us not forget the true meaning of Christmas, JOY TO ALL xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at this time of year

You just have to ask yourself

WWJD?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If god can forgive , then we all can, at the time of his sons birth, let us not forget the true meaning of Christmas, JOY TO ALL xxxxx"

Remind me to piss you off aroind November time next year

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

If your fooled twice then don't go there again, there is nothing to forgive but your own sins, if you go there again it's because you want to, nobody to blame but yourself, at the end off each year forgive yourself as much as you forgive each other xxxx

Shit I'm turning into some kind of lay preacher xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things cant be forgiven tho I would much rather forget.....

Waste of energy

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Im talking general. Not just fab. Havent had any fall outs on fab

Lifes too short to not let by gones be by gones

Ive learned that Holding a grudge only makes you unhappy in the long run

I try to find peace in my heart so I like to forgive and try to forget //

I know I have been given plenty second chances in my time so its only fair to try and make peace with people of they have wronged you

Well on second thoughts

Some people just dont deserve to be forgiven or forgotten and dont deserve a second chance cos history repeats itself

Fool me once. Shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

I think it depends on who and what

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i do forgive dependant on the persons actual sorrow but as you say on second thoughts some dont deserve to a certain extent with my black and white nature i dont expect forgivness and thats fine and wouldnt apologys for most things i have learnt in my time to act decently how i expect to be treated ergo when im wronged especially repeatedly i wont forgive or forget

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Some things cant be forgiven tho I would much rather forget.....

Waste of energy"

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Have been treated like shit in my life, had years of misery, but my nature is to say, throw it at me, I can take it I will stand tall and forgive, forget and move on, yes there are times in my life I have punched I have scratched I have screamed, but I have learned. A wry smile always wins xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be man or woman enough to forgive. Or become nasty and twisted by holding on to your hate iv always said if iv got a problem then I will come to your face with it and I forgive any one here who's done me wrong. The there a lot of forgives going on lol lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"You can be man or woman enough to forgive. Or become nasty and twisted by holding on to your hate iv always said if iv got a problem then I will come to your face with it and I forgive any one here who's done me wrong. The there a lot of forgives going on lol lol

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really ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face is here come take a look

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"My face is here come take a look "
lol lol

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Bigger person forgives first xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't always forgive . Somethings affect us too badly to move on easily from . So these people I just steer clear of and more pity than anything else. Then there's that thing called karma

There is of course exceptions to everything in life. We can't always life by the rules set out for ourselves or there would be no sadness hurt or pain in life , therefore we wouldn't know happiness joy and pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live that should be not life Grrr

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Karma bullshit, imscottish, say it as it is, it's bullshit, it's crap, it's pure and utter shite, I'm not having any crap on my post like ' " I'm your bro"

I'm down there, or you digging me man, this is Scottish forum, give me good Scottish dialect xxx

Ya baw bags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Karma bullshit, imscottish, say it as it is, it's bullshit, it's crap, it's pure and utter shite, I'm not having any crap on my post like ' " I'm your bro"

I'm down there, or you digging me man, this is Scottish forum, give me good Scottish dialect xxx

Ya baw bags"

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Preaching Jesus all night has left me drained, it's time for straight talk,,,,, get a fooking life, I've you don't klick move on, don't bad mouth, cause your best , might be somebody's best xxxx

Such is life, don't be a bitch xxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Preaching Jesus all night has left me drained, it's time for straight talk,,,,, get a fooking life, I've you don't klick move on, don't bad mouth, cause your best , might be somebody's best xxxx

Such is life, don't be a bitch xxx"
pmsl was that your best may be anothers worst

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Pusses off lol, meant our best might. Be somebody's worse xxddxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My face is here come take a look lol lol "
Did I say some thing funny must have miss that ?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"My face is here come take a look lol lol Did I say some thing funny must have miss that ?"
i didnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My face is here come take a look lol lol Did I say some thing funny must have miss that ?i didnt

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Maybe I won't miss it one day soon

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

heres hoping no need for chat like before stand up for your words n al that jazz eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chat from me last time or next time

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Merry Christmas and happy new year xxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"No chat from me last time or next time

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chat frim me beforehand though eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PM me and we sort lunch out as I said before. I come to you for lunch

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes kola, just change chat if. It's not going your way, but hay how, have peace in your life xxxx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"PM me and we sort lunch out as I said before. I come to you for lunch "
think ive seen enough of your msgs eh dont you think ??lol lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Yes kola, just change chat if. It's not going your way, but hay how, have peace in your life xxxx"
going swimingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you miss a lunch. But if you change your mind I always up for it

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

As always,have peace and happiness xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As always,have peace and happiness xxxx"
Always here sent you a wink so you don't feel left out lol lol xxxxxxx

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Sent wink , have a peaceful joyful happy new year, and also, have a fab swinging time xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sent wink , have a peaceful joyful happy new year, and also, have a fab swinging time xxxxxx"
You to my little ray of sun shine on this dark might xxxx

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By *lba couple1 OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Always the shining light in the dark xxxx , hubby says I've got to stop putting lights up there like I'm sticky Vicky in Ben I dorm xxxxxxxx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Whilst I like the OPs sentiments, I too believe there is only so much you really need to put up with. Once you reach that point it becomes really hard work and people go past the point of forgiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always forgive. ..its deep in my nature and I can't change and hope I never will. So I go into the new year with no bitterness or anger towards those who have tried to hurt me and an assurance to those who think they may have let me down that 2014 heralds a new start and only positive loving thoughts and good times. In the end only those closest to me know the "real" me...and that person is deeper, stronger, more emotional and much wiser than those on the perifery of my life perceive. So again, the ageing hippy in me wishes us all love, peace and contentment in our souls as the new year approaches. Let's make it a good one.....love is all you need.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im a stubborn cow....

I forgive noone

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"........that 2014 heralds a new start and only positive loving thoughts and good times. . Let's make it a good one.....love is all you need.

Amen sister!

Personally, wishing family and friends health, happiness and contentment. And for those in special need, inner peace!

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