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"Don't see a problem with it. We always send face pics if messaging someone, and expect the same. At least you can see if there's an attraction straight away. " But your not told to do that, and guys are. That just your way of doing things | |||
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"We have face pics on our profile for all to see. We understand for different reasons people dont want pics on display. But, if people contact us its because they see us and like what they see. We would also like to see who has contacted. We think thats only fair. How can you arrange to meet someone if you dont know what they look like. The old,"pink carnation in the button hole"!! " agree with that , it only fair. But why on your first message ? X | |||
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"a still like the suprize when u meet cause you not swapped face pics, if you been chatting a while, be wot the person like that make you want to meet.....looks arent everlything " Well I might be a fussy bitch but I'm never gonna shag someone I don't find attractive.... Don't have to look like Jason Statham ( although it would be nice) but I need some attraction | |||
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"a still like the suprize when u meet cause you not swapped face pics, if you been chatting a while, be wot the person like that make you want to meet.....looks arent everlything Well I might be a fussy bitch but I'm never gonna shag someone I don't find attractive.... Don't have to look like Jason Statham ( although it would be nice) but I need some attraction " blind date on the box was a smash hit show, can hear cilla now, hang on thucks, need let u see each other first lol | |||
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"a still like the suprize when u meet cause you not swapped face pics, if you been chatting a while, be wot the person like that make you want to meet.....looks arent everlything " yeah would love to see your face if ud turn up to a meet with your sister/daughter /work colleague or worse your daughter why risk it? | |||
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"a still like the suprize when u meet cause you not swapped face pics, if you been chatting a while, be wot the person like that make you want to meet.....looks arent everlything yeah would love to see your face if ud turn up to a meet with your sister/daughter /work colleague or worse your daughter why risk it?" fair point, but surely with chatting a while, alarm bells would go off lol.....some1 from my work? Lol that be funny , do drop fab hints with some of the peeps a know around me lol | |||
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"Its a sad fact that a large amount of mixed profiles are fakes. That's why people should ask. Agreed that there needs to be attractions on both sides and the pics should be exchanged sooner rather than later and people are disappointed. If you dont like the profile, text of a profile dont contact them. " If a profile is fake, why should the pic be genuine? | |||
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" blind date on the box was a smash hit show, can hear cilla now, hang on thucks, need let u see each other first lol " But I'm not here to date | |||
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" blind date on the box was a smash hit show, can hear cilla now, hang on thucks, need let u see each other first lol But I'm not here to date " You're not?? *hangs up the tux, blows our the candles & resigns to the couch* | |||
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" blind date on the box was a smash hit show, can hear cilla now, hang on thucks, need let u see each other first lol But I'm not here to date " | |||
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"I always include face pic in 1st message, saves chatting for ages then finding out there's no attraction." You never sent me one ya bitch! | |||
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"I don't see asking for a face pic to be included in first message rude at all, it's the person's preference and if you don't like it don't message them. If someone walked up to me on the street with a bag over their head and tried to have a conversation, would I reply........hell no xx" You wd be right if not all he can see of u on the street a bag with a lip stick add on it or a kristian d'ior pants pulled to the side and all.of the same but a hidden face! Common sense say to not expect from others what u cant give | |||
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"a still like the suprize when u meet cause you not swapped face pics, if you been chatting a while, be wot the person like that make you want to meet.....looks arent everlything yeah would love to see your face if ud turn up to a meet with your sister/daughter /work colleague or worse your daughter why risk it?" Thats exactly the risck being asked from guys to take by asking for a face pic from a first contact that is most likely not going to be answered. Because a guy need to contact nearly every female on the site in order to increase his chance for a shag from 0.01% to 0.1% lol. He ends up everybody knows his Identity and he has no idea who he sent his picture to. There r ppl who found themselves in the newspapers for being identified and lost their jobs and their social lives. Is it worth it?! I dont think so. But yes for exchanging pics in a well mannered way after being agreed and both r comfortable to do so. In a first message as a rule thats for me is simple arrogance n selfish | |||
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"Don't follow rules lol Women can chat to me if they want or not, it fine both ways. So I say women can't have all their own way on here " Do women get all their own way on here? Guys can and are, be just as demanding. Personally I think some people allow Fab to rule their lives not the other way around. It's supposed to be a bit of fun but going by some threads, I wonder sometimes. | |||
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"a still like the suprize when u meet cause you not swapped face pics, if you been chatting a while, be wot the person like that make you want to meet.....looks arent everlything yeah would love to see your face if ud turn up to a meet with your sister/daughter /work colleague or worse your daughter why risk it? Thats exactly the risck being asked from guys to take by asking for a face pic from a first contact that is most likely not going to be answered. Because a guy need to contact nearly every female on the site in order to increase his chance for a shag from 0.01% to 0.1% lol. He ends up everybody knows his Identity and he has no idea who he sent his picture to. There r ppl who found themselves in the newspapers for being identified and lost their jobs and their social lives. Is it worth it?! I dont think so. But yes for exchanging pics in a well mannered way after being agreed and both r comfortable to do so. In a first message as a rule thats for me is simple arrogance n selfish " Ok can I see a face pic please lol | |||
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"Lol u have seen more than that in flesh :D " I know but just a wee reminder does no harm lol | |||
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"Lol u have seen more than that in flesh :D I know but just a wee reminder does no harm lol " No probs, Just cause I trust you | |||
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"Lol u have seen more than that in flesh :D I know but just a wee reminder does no harm lol No probs, Just cause I trust you " Awwwww | |||
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"just draw a picture of a face on your dick and send them that lol" Lol any more ideas haha | |||
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"Don't see a problem with it. We always send face pics if messaging someone, and expect the same. At least you can see if there's an attraction straight away. But your not told to do that, and guys are. That just your way of doing things " Guys can do it to if they want. There's nothing stopping them. So I don't see why people complain about it. | |||
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"Don't see a problem with it. We always send face pics if messaging someone, and expect the same. At least you can see if there's an attraction straight away. But your not told to do that, and guys are. That just your way of doing things Guys can do it to if they want. There's nothing stopping them. So I don't see why people complain about it." Really Just because someone is rude, selfish and inconsiderate doesn't mean that you have to be the same | |||
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"Moaning about it is pointless. If you're overly sensitive then you may be in for a shock on here." Haha, I might be sometimes but wore the Tshirt. been here over a year and seen all colours of weirdos. So this is not a shock for me and not moaning. Just like to speak the truth as it is instead of the common hypocrite attitude I see on here all the time for the sake of a shagg. I have a happy sex life and not trying to push my luck by a post. I know this might upset a lot of females n cpls out there even those who might change their intention of meeting me because of this, but I dont care as long as I speak my mimd | |||
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"Moaning about it is pointless. If you're overly sensitive then you may be in for a shock on here. Haha, I might be sometimes but wore the Tshirt. been here over a year and seen all colours of weirdos. So this is not a shock for me and not moaning. Just like to speak the truth as it is instead of the common hypocrite attitude I see on here all the time for the sake of a shagg. I have a happy sex life and not trying to push my luck by a post. I know this might upset a lot of females n cpls out there even those who might change their intention of meeting me because of this, but I dont care as long as I speak my mimd " Id still met ya regardless of this post | |||
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"I don't see asking for a face pic to be included in first message rude at all, it's the person's preference and if you don't like it don't message them. If someone walked up to me on the street with a bag over their head and tried to have a conversation, would I reply........hell no xx You wd be right if not all he can see of u on the street a bag with a lip stick add on it or a kristian d'ior pants pulled to the side and all.of the same but a hidden face! Common sense say to not expect from others what u cant give" Touche........but I'm not the one complaining, I'm simply giving a fair to mid answer of your opening statement!! I'll show my face to who I choose to and feel an attraction to. If you don't want to show a face pic to those "who demand" then don't mail them....see it as my, our loss not your's, seriously dude, chilled xx | |||
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"Btw my pants are not pulled to the side.....it's just my big booty and they are Avon not d'ior " thats coz you r keeping that one private :p come on bring it out | |||
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"I have plenty face pics on private and I always showed them to those who at least have the decency to reply to a first message and start a conversation. But sending my face pic to everyone I say Hi to its not something that you would ever do even if u know Brad pitt is on fab. So dont expect it from others if u dont accept it to yourself. SIMPLES. am chilled and am not complaining. Am happy with my share of fun am getting " If you think a conversation starts with a "hi" message......face pic or not, it's not someone I'd be interested in personally, wee bit banter, humour get's the sender a long way in my likes x | |||
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"Don't like pretty boys such as brad Pitt.....I've got a saying I say in my head which is either by messages or face to face....."stimulate and fuck my mind or your getting no where near my body" " What's the square root of 145362 ,you get stimulating now lol lol | |||
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"Don't like pretty boys such as brad Pitt.....I've got a saying I say in my head which is either by messages or face to face....."stimulate and fuck my mind or your getting no where near my body" What's the square root of 145362 ,you get stimulating now lol lol" aprox 381.25 | |||
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"Don't like pretty boys such as brad Pitt.....I've got a saying I say in my head which is either by messages or face to face....."stimulate and fuck my mind or your getting no where near my body" What's the square root of 145362 ,you get stimulating now lol lol" I said stimulate not bore me | |||
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"I never open a conversation with a complete stranger on here with a face pic. I have them on my friends list and if I receive a positive reply to my opening message then face pics are swapped out of common decency. What does irk me sometimes is the ghosts on here with no pics whatsoever who demand NO PICS, NO REPLY AND WILL BE BLOCKED/ DELETED. These people I do tend to ignore, some of us have political, media, forces, emergency services jobs and don't post our faces until 100% sure. However, we do have some form of pic as an intro " | |||
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"Don't like pretty boys such as brad Pitt.....I've got a saying I say in my head which is either by messages or face to face....."stimulate and fuck my mind or your getting no where near my body" " Ok although you have deviated from the subject but if u meet someone in the pub n his opening conversation was with a conventional Hi how are you. that makes him straight away a borring person then n u says go away who is next? lol. Also. There is something women tend to forget because of the massive imballance on demand. A good opening comes spontaniously when u face an inspiring profile. Most women's profiles here are a bag of rant and rude rules. All thats on offer is funny's pics and arrogance and yet the expectations are soo high. I dont see what would inspire u. Even the funniest guys of us dont have the time to make an effort in first message with every female he contacts as his message will most likely be ignored for not having a face pic attached or simply coz she 500 emails on her box and he will have to move quick to the next profile. An intelligent woman try to understand the othe side's perspective not behave as a total blonde who is on top because 100's are lining up to get a shag from her. That doesnt make her in any way supperior or beautiful or imtelligent. | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. " Who cares about what it says on someones profile Play by your owm rules buddy not anyone elses. Do what u wanna do when ya wanna do it and if they dont message back cos ya havent sent a pic then thats their problem Some folk dont even send a pic back anyway if they dont fancy u So they know what u look like but u havent a clue what they look like | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. " Put it on your profile then you know they aren't scared off in the first place. | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. Put it on your profile then you know they aren't scared off in the first place." I do actually need a smart person to manage my profile for me. Wd u be interested to volenteer? | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. Put it on your profile then you know they aren't scared off in the first place. I do actually need a smart person to manage my profile for me. Wd u be interested to volenteer? " call Maureen she'll help and she's cheaper | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. Put it on your profile then you know they aren't scared off in the first place. I do actually need a smart person to manage my profile for me. Wd u be interested to volenteer? call Maureen she'll help and she's cheaper " lol she'll make it too professional looking and am coutry man | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. Put it on your profile then you know they aren't scared off in the first place. I do actually need a smart person to manage my profile for me. Wd u be interested to volenteer? call Maureen she'll help and she's cheaper lol she'll make it too professional looking and am coutry man " Yeah you wouldn't want that | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. Put it on your profile then you know they aren't scared off in the first place. I do actually need a smart person to manage my profile for me. Wd u be interested to volenteer? call Maureen she'll help and she's cheaper lol she'll make it too professional looking and am coutry man Yeah you wouldn't want that " It would be a shock for those who meets meets if I do. Imagine expecting a professional guy with a nice suit and I turn up after cleaning the stable with my dirty boots. so better keep it real | |||
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"I have noticed lately on many Women n cpl's Rules like: I U CONTACT WITH NO FACE PIC THEN NO REPLY/BLOCKED. and similar. So do you think this is an OK rule and is it becoming more like the common standards here applied for guys just because guys have very little choice. Am not ranting honest I have been lucky enough on fab but I'd like to see some common sense spooken out and what you guys think about this. Put it on your profile then you know they aren't scared off in the first place. I do actually need a smart person to manage my profile for me. Wd u be interested to volenteer? call Maureen she'll help and she's cheaper lol she'll make it too professional looking and am coutry man Yeah you wouldn't want that It would be a shock for those who meets meets if I do. Imagine expecting a professional guy with a nice suit and I turn up after cleaning the stable with my dirty boots. so better keep it real " Nothing quite like a good muck out.. | |||
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