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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol Yes lol lol " Highly doubt any female on here would ever say yes to tht | |||
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"Some guys think they are THAT good that every woman wants them no matter what. Unfortunately, they are somewhat misguided and don't realise it's not instashag. Best advice? Block the idiots and find the nice ones " Wise words furry | |||
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"Some guys think they are THAT good that every woman wants them no matter what. Unfortunately, they are somewhat misguided and don't realise it's not instashag. Best advice? Block the idiots and find the nice ones " I do block, but it just baffles me that they actually think females will agree to a meet in the first msg havin not even seen a pic | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol Yes lol lol Highly doubt any female on here would ever say yes to tht " I dont think any female wd say to that but in the other hand I got females and cpls sending me a request to meet like NOW! lol . So I think its natural that when u get really horny it can get unexpectedly desperate for any person male or female. I've never sent a request like that but I do sympathise with fellow male fabbers who find it extremly difficult to meet here even the gorgious guys do. So cheers to every single male from me | |||
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"Guess it depends ...did he mean right now this very second or would you fancy meeting at some point in the future. I know ...Im giving the benefit of the doubt but maybe he was just clarifying if you meet at all as lots don't?" Well "hey fancy a meet" suggests toe they mean now | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol Yes lol lol Highly doubt any female on here would ever say yes to tht I dont think any female wd say to that but in the other hand I got females and cpls sending me a request to meet like NOW! lol . So I think its natural that when u get really horny it can get unexpectedly desperate for any person male or female. I've never sent a request like that but I do sympathise with fellow male fabbers who find it extremly difficult to meet here even the gorgious guys do. So cheers to every single male from me " And having no pic and sending msgs like that is gona help them get a meet...... | |||
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"have asked myself before but had loads of the sunday roast left ........................oppps you ment meet not meat " Lol sorry, I was too old when I was introduced to the English language. As long as the message gets tranitted thats the main thing | |||
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"Some guys think they are THAT good that every woman wants them no matter what. Unfortunately, they are somewhat misguided and don't realise it's not instashag. Best advice? Block the idiots and find the nice ones " Block for asking to meet. You empty the place | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol Yes lol lol Highly doubt any female on here would ever say yes to tht I dont think any female wd say to that but in the other hand I got females and cpls sending me a request to meet like NOW! lol . So I think its natural that when u get really horny it can get unexpectedly desperate for any person male or female. I've never sent a request like that but I do sympathise with fellow male fabbers who find it extremly difficult to meet here even the gorgious guys do. So cheers to every single male from me And having no pic and sending msgs like that is gona help them get a meet......" Depends what kinda pic you are expecting. Just as most female and cpls care to make their identity private and only share face pic with ppl they have felt comfortable enough with to do so and there is at least an intention for potential meeting, I dont get it why females n cpl expect guys to send a face pic in a first message?!!" Its not a fair thing to expect from someone what u dont want for yourself. just my opinion | |||
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"have asked myself before but had loads of the sunday roast left ........................oppps you ment meet not meat " Oooooooo what was it? | |||
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"Think having spoke to a few single guys lately that there are couples who choose to ask to meet in that manner too, as in my wife and I want you to join us . So can you be there in the next hour type scenario .... So dont think its just them that do this though there are plenty do. .. Best you stick to how you choose to meet and if that style works for you then that's the thing to remember " | |||
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"Some guys think they are THAT good that every woman wants them no matter what. Unfortunately, they are somewhat misguided and don't realise it's not instashag. Best advice? Block the idiots and find the nice ones I do block, but it just baffles me that they actually think females will agree to a meet in the first msg havin not even seen a pic " Some do meet straight away as others have said but most don't and you are obviously one of them. | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol Yes lol lol Highly doubt any female on here would ever say yes to tht I dont think any female wd say to that but in the other hand I got females and cpls sending me a request to meet like NOW! lol . So I think its natural that when u get really horny it can get unexpectedly desperate for any person male or female. I've never sent a request like that but I do sympathise with fellow male fabbers who find it extremly difficult to meet here even the gorgious guys do. So cheers to every single male from me And having no pic and sending msgs like that is gona help them get a meet...... Depends what kinda pic you are expecting. Just as most female and cpls care to make their identity private and only share face pic with ppl they have felt comfortable enough with to do so and there is at least an intention for potential meeting, I dont get it why females n cpl expect guys to send a face pic in a first message?!!" Its not a fair thing to expect from someone what u dont want for yourself. just my opinion " Agreed. But i have a pic | |||
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"Some guys think they are THAT good that every woman wants them no matter what. Unfortunately, they are somewhat misguided and don't realise it's not instashag. Best advice? Block the idiots and find the nice ones I do block, but it just baffles me that they actually think females will agree to a meet in the first msg havin not even seen a pic Some do meet straight away as others have said but most don't and you are obviously one of them. " Coz a dont need to have hundreds of guys with pics askin to meet..so why would i want or need to agree a meet with some random i have no idea what they look like, just coz they asked | |||
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"Iv meet a woman with no face picture. She was lovely. We meet had a social and are still friends to this day. Some times in life you take a chance. If you don't want to meet just say NO " Your a male, you probably dont have hundreds of women with pics each week messaging you, lotta women do, hence my full point you have all these ones with pics why would we have to resort to agreeing to a "fancy a meet" msg from someone with no pic.......and i do say no thats not what i asked And my point wasnt just about no pic, it was a no pic along with a "fancy a meet" msg, everyone knows guys need to put more effort in on here to stand out/get a meet, how do any think that approach will actually work | |||
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"I find the type of "fancy a meet" and similar r very crude and making the person that receives it feel nothing more but just a piece of meat (this time I spelt right lol). But still. The person who sent it would know they have 0.1% chance they get a yes as a reply. So I dont think you'll offend them much by saying no if u dont want to. But if u fancy exploring more u can still communicate to find out more about the guy and ask for a face pic. I would send u one :P " They dont even get a no they get a delete.. And thats the thing i actually dont think they know they are highly unlikely to get a yes, i think they actually think their approach is gona work | |||
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"Don't worry about my messages. If you dont like their messages don't answer them. That job done. Women moan about guys here all the time. Bet you's would be moaning if you's got no messages. So you can't have the best of two worlds here " | |||
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"Don't worry about my messages. If you dont like their messages don't answer them. That job done. Women moan about guys here all the time. Bet you's would be moaning if you's got no messages. So you can't have the best of two worlds here " Couldnt care less about your messages you dont get..and i will moan if i feel like moanin | |||
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"Lol since its a moaning thread here goes. What would make of a first message as "face pic" after not receiving any for a week? Lol or "cock pic" no hi no hello nothing just as crude and unconsiderate like that. Or here is another one "u say u have an exotic cock... Elaborate" I was just making a joke in my profile ffs lol" Honestly dont understand any of that | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol " It may not be about desperation. It might just be someone playing the numbers game. Ask enough ladies, albeit clumsily, for a meet and eventually one of them will say yes. | |||
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"Lol since its a moaning thread here goes. What would make of a first message as "face pic" after not receiving any for a week? Lol or "cock pic" no hi no hello nothing just as crude and unconsiderate like that. Or here is another one "u say u have an exotic cock... Elaborate" I was just making a joke in my profile ffs lol Honestly dont understand any of that " I would explain it again in a different language if you can communicate with more than one | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol It may not be about desperation. It might just be someone playing the numbers game. Ask enough ladies, albeit clumsily, for a meet and eventually one of them will say yes." Suppose, if they are lucky | |||
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"Personally a first message from me is usually something along the lines of hi you stood out i'd like to get to know you a bit better. bit like how it works if i were to meet you in a pub. I wouldn't ask for a meet if a first message. you may look good but i like there to be some connection. Girls can be as selective as they like as they get millions of messages. maybe he just thought you were easy and hadn't read your profile." Well they thought wrong didnt they, am hardly the worst lookin on the site not to be as choosy as i like | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there ." Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards. | |||
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"Personally a first message from me is usually something along the lines of hi you stood out i'd like to get to know you a bit better. bit like how it works if i were to meet you in a pub. I wouldn't ask for a meet if a first message. you may look good but i like there to be some connection. Girls can be as selective as they like as they get millions of messages. maybe he just thought you were easy and hadn't read your profile. Well they thought wrong didnt they, am hardly the worst lookin on the site not to be as choosy as i like " You look very nice for the pic. But i like looks and personality. Plus not that desperate to send a fancy a shag message. | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards." yeah we all have standards but many don't on here and as far as they are conserned any holes a goal lol | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards.yeah we all have standards but many don't on here and as far as they are conserned any holes a goal lol" Its quality over quantity for me. | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards." So the meet today on your profile give that time work out their standards them ? | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards.yeah we all have standards but many don't on here and as far as they are conserned any holes a goal lol Its quality over quantity for me." yeah likewise | |||
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"Some guys think they are THAT good that every woman wants them no matter what. Unfortunately, they are somewhat misguided and don't realise it's not instashag. Best advice? Block the idiots and find the nice ones " | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards.yeah we all have standards but many don't on here and as far as they are conserned any holes a goal lol Its quality over quantity for me.yeah likewise " Good to know some have standards on here. | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards.So the meet today on your profile give that time work out their standards them ? " if its a girl i have spoken to then thats fine. Gets you noticed a bit more. | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards.So the meet today on your profile give that time work out their standards them ? if its a girl i have spoken to then thats fine. Gets you noticed a bit more." | |||
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"There are women on here would meet like that not many granted but they are out there . Probably not the kind of girl i'd be looking for. I like my women to have standards.So the meet today on your profile give that time work out their standards them ? if its a girl i have spoken to then thats fine. Gets you noticed a bit more." Go for it mate. That what it all about. Good luck with your meet | |||
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"Personally a first message from me is usually something along the lines of hi you stood out i'd like to get to know you a bit better. bit like how it works if i were to meet you in a pub. I wouldn't ask for a meet if a first message. you may look good but i like there to be some connection. Girls can be as selective as they like as they get millions of messages. maybe he just thought you were easy and hadn't read your profile." Think 'millions' is taking it a bit far lol.. | |||
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"Don't worry about my messages. If you dont like their messages don't answer them. That job done. Women moan about guys here all the time. Bet you's would be moaning if you's got no messages. So you can't have the best of two worlds here " | |||
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"Here r the expectations from a first message: Need to read the profile before contacting. Need to be creative and original when there is no information in the profile that would inspire you to be creative and even if you squeeze your brain n come out with a good intro there is 1% chance that it would get a reply. Moving to the next profile same thing u will have to do this a full time job to fullfill the expectations n increase ur chances .... for a shag that might end up desapointing lol. need to send a face!! U end up every female fake n non fake knowing your identity for nothing. Its easy to put the blame on single guys and press delete n block. But I bet u girls have missed on great meets and lovely guys because of these illogic standards n arrogance based on the market's rule in demand n offers for a shag . Am not moaning here as I am not short of meeting but am fed up seeing everybody moaning about guys and guys not standing up for themeselves for the fear of making their chances even worse. " Our bodies = our rules Simple Wether guys like it or not, i dont have sex outa pity | |||
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"No..... I start with having a pic and expect the same Simple " | |||
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"I always found its better to be the hunted than the hunter on this site. Always stood me in good stead " likewise altho if i see someone i like id go for it | |||
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"I always found its better to be the hunted than the hunter on this site. Always stood me in good stead likewise altho if i see someone i like id go for it " I see loads of girls who appeal to me i just don't have the time the want nor the inclination to start bull shitting them with messages. If they want to fuck you they will find you soon enough. | |||
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"I always found its better to be the hunted than the hunter on this site. Always stood me in good stead likewise altho if i see someone i like id go for it I see loads of girls who appeal to me i just don't have the time the want nor the inclination to start bull shitting them with messages. If they want to fuck you they will find you soon enough. " so true | |||
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"I can see it from all ends. You do get the men who are just arrogant wee twats that think every woman on here is desperate. I'm not desperate, I enjoy fun & with someone you can know a little about without wanting a relationship etc. But again you do get decent genuine guys too but I find by the time I've cleared out the idiots & taken the abuse because I decide your not my type then the decent guys get the dry & cba answers because your whole mood has changed. I don't expect face pictures straight away as I don't give mine out straight away until you see if your going to get on or if its a move on situation. And also I don't expect to wait for the guys to come to me, if I like a profile & its content I'll message the guy/couple. " Nice Post | |||
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" ...And also I don't expect to wait for the guys to come to me, if I like a profile & its content I'll message the guy/couple. " | |||
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"I can see it from all ends. You do get the men who are just arrogant wee twats that think every woman on here is desperate. I'm not desperate, I enjoy fun & with someone you can know a little about without wanting a relationship etc. But again you do get decent genuine guys too but I find by the time I've cleared out the idiots & taken the abuse because I decide your not my type then the decent guys get the dry & cba answers because your whole mood has changed. I don't expect face pictures straight away as I don't give mine out straight away until you see if your going to get on or if its a move on situation. And also I don't expect to wait for the guys to come to me, if I like a profile & its content I'll message the guy/couple. Nice Post " Thanks | |||
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"Rare r the females who dont have a problem making the first step and if they want to how would they find you in the midle of a million hiding behind a profile that will only show a virtual vague idea about you. In my experience in most cases you have to trigger something to get their attention " | |||
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"jinty im now your no.1 fan !!!!" I'm only over the brig too so you don't even need to click loud!!!!!!! | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol " There's one guy in a couple frequently puts up the status when he's looking to meet "who's gonna suck my cock" and many other choice statuses. Surprisingly after some time he moans that no one wants to meet........I wonder why | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol There's one guy in a couple frequently puts up the status when he's looking to meet "who's gonna suck my cock" and many other choice statuses. Surprisingly after some time he moans that no one wants to meet........I wonder why " are you sure its the guy ? maybe she likes gettin her cock sucked | |||
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"Some guys think they are THAT good that every woman wants them no matter what. Unfortunately, they are somewhat misguided and don't realise it's not instashag. Best advice? Block the idiots and find the nice ones Wise words furry " Think my profile says it all!!!! Lol | |||
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"Wether guys like it or not, i dont have sex outa pity " Damn. There goes my chances with you. lol. | |||
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"Wether guys like it or not, i dont have sex outa pity Damn. There goes my chances with you. lol." & mine! | |||
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"Wether guys like it or not, i dont have sex outa pity Damn. There goes my chances with you. lol. & mine!" lol are u guys lining up now. If u make a big quew she might do it by pitty haha. I cant join the quew as I dont stand a chance after upsetting her earlier :P | |||
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"......think anyone is that desperate to say yes to a "fancy a meet" message?? Especially when they have no pic.. Surely no one is that desperate why do guys seem to think they are?? Anyone? Lol There's one guy in a couple frequently puts up the status when he's looking to meet "who's gonna suck my cock" and many other choice statuses. Surprisingly after some time he moans that no one wants to meet........I wonder why are you sure its the guy ? maybe she likes gettin her cock sucked " lol good point | |||
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"Wether guys like it or not, i dont have sex outa pity Damn. There goes my chances with you. lol. & mine! lol are u guys lining up now. If u make a big quew she might do it by pitty haha. I cant join the quew as I dont stand a chance after upsetting her earlier :P" well just to buck the trend, i'll say she doesnt stand a chance with me pmsl | |||
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"Wether guys like it or not, i dont have sex outa pity Damn. There goes my chances with you. lol. & mine! lol are u guys lining up now. If u make a big quew she might do it by pitty haha. I cant join the quew as I dont stand a chance after upsetting her earlier :P well just to buck the trend, i'll say she doesnt stand a chance with me pmsl " Gutted | |||
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