FabSwingers.com forum: call your self a swinger ???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here a yr now and still not sure I would call my self a swinger although had some amazing meets, some strange , but mostly positive and thoroughly enjoying my time here, just wondered at which point you can call yourself a swinger? Do u need to be a couple ? Visit clubs, when did you feel like this was the way for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyones interpretation of a swinger I feel is different. For some its about closer friendships with benefits, for some its about attraction sexual chemistry . Many see it as having multiple sexual partners with no strings attached . Some only want to have sex and not keep in touch or develop friendships . Then there's the social side of swinging and the community ie in these forums social events and clubs . Does any of the above singularly make us swingers or does it require many or all of them. If you believe yourself to be a swinger if you're getting what you want from the lifestyle and site then thats all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say i'm definitely not a swinger, just as well or id be gagging !!!

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over a year ago

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By *ector BrocklebankMan
over a year ago

a wee place south of Glasgow

Does it matter?

Think it's well established that swinging is different things to different people, and different people use this site in different ways..

It's all about fun and nsa, but having said that, numerous people have come on here looking for the usual, but have found something else, and something they weren't actually looking for!

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

I don't know if I'm a swinger, as I prefer the seesaw.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Everyones interpretation of a swinger I feel is different. For some its about closer friendships with benefits, for some its about attraction sexual chemistry . Many see it as having multiple sexual partners with no strings attached . Some only want to have sex and not keep in touch or develop friendships . Then there's the social side of swinging and the community ie in these forums social events and clubs . Does any of the above singularly make us swingers or does it require many or all of them. If you believe yourself to be a swinger if you're getting what you want from the lifestyle and site then thats all that matters.

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Totally agree shelly what suits one may not suit another each to their own as long as they are happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A swinger no. A hedonist would be a closer "label" for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say im a swinger yeah - met couples, single females, been to socials, been to a few clubs enjoyed every single minute of it, only ever met nice people and never had my time waisted or not had a fun meet.

Love the socialising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Nice post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only claim to be swingers if having "multiple dance partners" and having your dancing skills verified counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when it comes to people labels dont apply. The fact that the site is so named, may make us feel that we should consider ourselves swingers but really, as has been said many times by others, we are all here for our own purposes and with our own expectations and agendas. I may use this site but FAB does not define me. I have been lucky....wonderful people have come my way. My life has been enormously enriched by having them as part of it. Do my friendships fit the fab mould? I would say not....but while there may be site rules and guidelines there is no user manual. We can all interpret fab in our own way....and therein lies the fun.....finding like minded individuals who speak our language....and enjoying the ride. (Wouldnt be me without a pun...would it?...).

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By *ector BrocklebankMan
over a year ago

a wee place south of Glasgow

"I think when it comes to people labels dont apply. The fact that the site is so named, may make us feel that we should consider ourselves swingers but really, as has been said many times by others, we are all here for our own purposes and with our own expectations and agendas. I may use this site but FAB does not define me. I have been lucky....wonderful people have come my way. My life has been enormously enriched by having them as part of it. Do my friendships fit the fab mould? I would say not....but while there may be site rules and guidelines there is no user manual. We can all interpret fab in our own way....and therein lies the fun.....finding like minded individuals who speak our language....and enjoying the ride. (Wouldnt be me without a pun...would it?...).

Well said, including the pun!

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