FabSwingers.com forum: abusive messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it very hard to believe that when complaints go in to admin that nothing is done. I have had a seriously nasty message from a certain male on this site this morning cos I didn't want to meet him. Why is it when they call u names and swear at u they don't get kicked off site. Even when I am a genuine paying site member and he isnt.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

They are probably looking into it, I imagine they get many complaints a day so takes a bit of time to trawl through.

BTW we are genuine site members but dont pay!!!

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By *exyducksCouple
over a year ago

west coast

even at that nothing seems to get done

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are probably looking into it, I imagine they get many complaints a day so takes a bit of time to trawl through.

BTW we are genuine site members but dont pay!!!"

I can imagine there are genuine members that don't pay. Its the abusive messages I dislike

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"even at that nothing seems to get done

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I dont imagine anyone likes abusive messages but you have done the correct thing by reporting ... next step block and move on x

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sorry to hear of your misfortune, some mothers do have'm,just block the bugger and move on

upwards and onwards, as with everything man made it never works to perfection

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont imagine anyone likes abusive messages but you have done the correct thing by reporting ... next step block and move on x"

did it all straight away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear of your misfortune, some mothers do have'm,just block the bugger and move on

upwards and onwards, as with everything man made it never works to perfection

xxx"

true

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By *omma49Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

reported abuse, umpteen times, nothing was ever done to those concerned

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Admin don't tell you if they have sent warnings or given bans etc so you don't know what has or hasn't been done......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I wont let it lie till they do something

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well he should br banned for what he sent me

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Well I am sure admin will look into messages sent and received and deal accordingly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I am sure admin will look into messages sent and received and deal accordingly

I do hope so. I cant even relay on here what he sent as it was so rude. But thank u

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

We have been called all sorts too when saying no thanks etc, I just report them and let it to over my head......

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cant believe some of the people on here...would we want to have sex with abusive pricks...I mean really...I have had some very strange messages from some woman as well..

I would neve abuse anyone here...just not talking to them is my way of dealing with it. I would completely expect the Admin to sort them out if reported.

Shame seally can spoil the site for some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cant believe some of the people on here...would we want to have sex with abusive pricks...I mean really...I have had some very strange messages from some woman as well..

I would neve abuse anyone here...just not talking to them is my way of dealing with it. I would completely expect the Admin to sort them out if reported.

Shame seally can spoil the site for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very difficult to ban someone of a free site like this.

They could have a new profile up within minutes......at no cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block report and grow some thicker skin

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Naming and shaming on your status update is against site rules.

Starting threads throwing dummy out pram is also against site rules given that the alleged accused is named on your profile.

Your username may draw unwanted attention.

Report and let admin deal with it.

*takes mod hat off and throws in drawer*

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Naming and shaming on your status update is against site rules.

Starting threads throwing dummy out pram is also against site rules given that the alleged accused is named on your profile.

Your username may draw unwanted attention.

Report and let admin deal with it.

*takes mod hat off and throws in drawer*

Good advice and oh so sensible lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Naming and shaming on your status update is against site rules.

Starting threads throwing dummy out pram is also against site rules given that the alleged accused is named on your profile.

Your username may draw unwanted attention.

Report and let admin deal with it.

*takes mod hat off and throws in drawer*

Good advice and oh so sensible lol "

Ruggers been training me and i give her an apple every day

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Naming and shaming on your status update is against site rules.

Starting threads throwing dummy out pram is also against site rules given that the alleged accused is named on your profile.

Your username may draw unwanted attention.

Report and let admin deal with it.

*takes mod hat off and throws in drawer*

Good advice and oh so sensible lol

Ruggers been training me and i give her an apple every day

That means you need to be a good lad then

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Naming and shaming on your status update is against site rules.

Starting threads throwing dummy out pram is also against site rules given that the alleged accused is named on your profile.

Your username may draw unwanted attention.

Report and let admin deal with it.

*takes mod hat off and throws in drawer*

Good advice and oh so sensible lol

Ruggers been training me and i give her an apple every day

That means you need to be a good lad then

Noted !

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Naming and shaming on your status update is against site rules.

Starting threads throwing dummy out pram is also against site rules given that the alleged accused is named on your profile.

Your username may draw unwanted attention.

Report and let admin deal with it.

*takes mod hat off and throws in drawer*

Good advice and oh so sensible lol

Ruggers been training me and i give her an apple every day

That means you need to be a good lad then

Noted !

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Err...I didn't get no apples Pimp !!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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