FabSwingers.com forum: Referring People on Fab

By *muma OP Woman
over a year ago

Livingston

I need a bit of help here guys.

I have over the last couple of months received some messages from people saying that my name was given to them by another member.

Now I have no problem in the fact that if somebody that I have met happens to mention to someone else that they have me me, blah blah blah.

My problem here is these so called "referrals" are fom a female that does not know me from adam, and I am starting to feel as if I am being pimped out, when in fact I am more than capable of choosing and arranging my own meets.

Now the female is question is no longer on site but is obviously still in contact with people, so the $64m question is - what to do next, apart fromthe obvious delete and block of said "referrals"?

Please help peeps, as this is really getting to me.

Thanks, Wendy xx

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Change your name, they won't be able to find you

It does seem odd though that you are being referred from someone you don't even know.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a difficult one, especially as ur a single woman on here, I always think u have to be that bit more cautious. If you know who she is but aren't in contact with her anymore u could always just ask one of those who got the referral to mention to her that u feel a bit uncomfortable with her doing this. Is it possible she doesn't realise that u feel that way and she isn't trying to cause u problems? She maybe wrongly thinks she's doing u a favour

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it's a woman and not some sad single bloke you've turned down in the past?

It's a sad fact that there ARE slimeballs and groomers around and no amount of website Moderating can stop it.

I'd agree with a profile name change. Those who know you will soon recognise your new profile and your stalker will be left high and dry

Referring People on Fab - Sensitive Subject