FabSwingers.com forum: need more younger on site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi i think there is a lack on younger people on this site and would love it if there were more younger people on it, as alot of the more mature people on here dont like the youngsters which not saying anything bad about it as i love having fun with mature people just wish more younger people would come to the site.

anyone agree ?

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

you can't make people join a site .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah i know that but what i ment was wouldnt it be good if more younger people did join the site tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm dont knwo , i think there is a good mix of folk young old extrovert shy perverted and prudes just got to have a look about and you soon notice everyone of all types lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah i suppose your right i have noticed lately there are more younger ones on here than i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with you there is a lack of younger people on hear, not many young people get into the swinging scene at a young age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think people have to be fully grew up to be a swinger hun, most young minds think differnt, will i know i did and my friend did, i could never swing and not take things personal in my early 20s, am not saying everyone is like me, but i think in your 20s alot of girls and not all, are looking for the happy ending, but hey when they come to there 30s, you will find out swinging is the happy ehding lol

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

"i think people have to be fully grew up to be a swinger hun, most young minds think differnt, will i know i did and my friend did, i could never swing and not take things personal in my early 20s, am not saying everyone is like me, but i think in your 20s alot of girls and not all, are looking for the happy ending, but hey when they come to there 30s, you will find out swinging is the happy ehding lol

got to agree with you on that one as younger folk are still finding their feet sexually where as us older ones have done that and got the Tshirt so now we are haveing fun of a diffrent sort . and alot of the older ones dont want to play with some one that is the ae of their kidds - but keep looking and you will find a few folk that you will get on with

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

we been at this for years and trust me the young ones numbers are increasing all the time, they seem not to have the hang ups and stigma that the older gen had and are very liberal about all of this (good on em i say)

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

"we been at this for years and trust me the young ones numbers are increasing all the time, they seem not to have the hang ups and stigma that the older gen had and are very liberal about all of this (good on em i say)"

more young ones or are we all just getting older lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are young but feel old...lol

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

more young ones or are we all just getting older lol"

lol mb thats it were all getting older lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'll take the young uns on - I'm nice that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we are young but feel old...lol"

I am old but feel the younger (am a perv lol)

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i think a lot of younger people would love to swing,and probably will.its a growing sport.but feeling secure, and trusting, in your relationship,is essential in swinging.sometimes that takes time.we can still act like we are in our 20s.unfortunately we cant look it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were on another site that booted all the over 35's off as they said it was for younger folk and that if you were over 35 you were a pervert

but you cant force people to join any site unless they want to

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"we were on another site that booted all the over 35's off as they said it was for younger folk and that if you were over 35 you were a pervert

but you cant force people to join any site unless they want to"

OOh, does that mean I am officially a pervert then? woohoo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep the young ones out unless they pass an english test to prove they can and will type and spell properly, i hate text speak on the internet there is no need for it.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"keep the young ones out unless they pass an english test to prove they can and will type and spell properly, i hate text speak on the internet there is no need for it.

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know what u mean .its just a lot of random letters.young peoples code.although you are probably better of not understanding whats being said.they talk shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's only a few number of people that can write proper

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wel we dnt knw wot u r on aboot m8ty owr english is gd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wel we dnt knw wot u r on aboot m8ty owr english is gd lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Wel we dnt knw wot u r on aboot m8ty owr english is gd lol"
i almost hear what your saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehe mwah lo

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By *arryandlilCouple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

old and young i perv them all i am not ageist, but have been called a boobist befor now lol

larry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it's good to see people aren't ageist lol

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

from a mature man's point a view... when you're say 18/20 your fantasy is to have sex with an older woman and then when you're say 50 you want the young dolly bird on your arm... the other side is young girls want the sugar daddy type and the older lady wants a young stud!

will just say not true in our case, we just find meets a whole lot more fun with folks you relate to as regards things like values, music and conversation.

how can we be expected to not give advice to the younger ones???

We old uns could teach you youngsters a thing or two about having a good time but do we really want to be teachers is the question? perhaps fab admin will set up a say under 35 site??? what you reckon?

XX have fun whatever your age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the thread is bit self indulgent, "needs more young folk" suggested by? An older person? nope a young one, cool, like to suggest just need more genuine people, reliable, non-timewasters,that might just up the enjoyment level for all who are eager to have fun on here, my 2p worth is all,

T xx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"perhaps fab admin will set up a say under 35 site??? what you reckon?"

Don't see the need for a separate site for under 35s, what if you are just on the age limit? Which site would you join? And a 34 year old might want to meet someone older and vice-versa!

Some people like younger, some like older so each to their own and it is easy to set your age limits just now, although some might not read the profile to see what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my late teens early 20's if anyone had suggested swingin to me i would have beat them to death whislt screamin sick twisted pervet!! i wasnt as secure or aware as i am now and would never have been able to deal with it!

over 30 and its a whole different story and different mind!!

not being into younger personally , it makes no odds to me if they are here or not xx

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

"perhaps fab admin will set up a say under 35 site??? what you reckon?

Don't see the need for a separate site for under 35s, what if you are just on the age limit? Which site would you join? And a 34 year old might want to meet someone older and vice-versa!

Some people like younger, some like older so each to their own and it is easy to set your age limits just now, although some might not read the profile to see what they are

Was not suggesting there should be any age limit for any site, but as a point... as we had the same as to sexuality... and vola a gay/bi guy site was produced... just me being flipent

we agree the site is great the way it is and members can filter age searches for those not of their choosing!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"perhaps fab admin will set up a say under 35 site??? what you reckon?

Don't see the need for a separate site for under 35s, what if you are just on the age limit? Which site would you join? And a 34 year old might want to meet someone older and vice-versa!

Some people like younger, some like older so each to their own and it is easy to set your age limits just now, although some might not read the profile to see what they are

Was not suggesting there should be any age limit for any site, but as a point... as we had the same as to sexuality... and vola a gay/bi guy site was produced... just me being flipent

we agree the site is great the way it is and members can filter age searches for those not of their choosing!"

Setting up a site as 'under 35' is setting an age limit

I just don't get why people always want everyone pigeon-holed and can't just let everyone be themselves and have fun!

If a profile isn't to your liking (not meaning you personally), be that age, sexuality, looks, likes/dislikes, etc, etc, then move onto one that you do like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi i think there is a lack on younger people on this site and would love it if there were more younger people on it, as alot of the more mature people on here dont like the youngsters which not saying anything bad about it as i love having fun with mature people just wish more younger people would come to the site.

anyone agree ?"

I'd be inclined to disagree with you about there not being a lot of younger peeps here, judging by the amount of mail that makes it into my mailbox from them. And I don't mean younger..ish than me lol cos there's lots of them, I mean 18-25 yr olds male and female. Lots out there just keep looking. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how young is young and r u on about girls or guys???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Young....I'm Young.......oh hell....I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an "older" member of this site I find there is a relatively good mix on here.

However the younger and I mean under 40 which is the vast majority of you tend to look for people under 45.

This 45 age limit seems t obe a common age barrier that nobody under 40 seems to want to cross.

Us oldies on here over that age barrier have a helluva lot of life left in us yet and as stated before can teach you younger ones a thing or two, I for one am not afraid to take on a younger inexperienced person to help them.

I just feel the older you are on here the more excluded you become and to be honest, the past couple of days I've noticed more and more under 40'sjoining the site who are ageist to those over 45.

My tuppence worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll take the young uns on - I'm nice that way

lucky me lol xx

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By *eppoch1970Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was told I was an "old head on young shoulders" at 17-18. & sexually I had been active for a few years even by then(& the year I turned 21 they changed the age of consent down to 18 so I had always been illegal PMSL). Personally, out in the real world I do not mix with people under 30, my baby sister will be 30 this November and it has always felt like a different generation. I was an 80s boy & though we didn't have the internet and before telephone "chat-lines" there were places to go for Rampant "casual" sex where you didn't even know the name of the human you were interacting with, or you went to the pubs/clubs. Sexual experience and awareness of ones own sexuality is different for each individual. Some of us were the "wild child" even before Emma Rigley came along, and others get married or deny themselves their sexuality until a good bit later. It is lovely to see someone "explore" themselves & try new things and to take someone "from crayons to aftershave/perfume" to misquote the song "To Sir With Love".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have found that most people our own age either arrange to meet up then always cancel at the last minute, or will wink, mabye send one email, ask to be friends then once given access to private pics...we never hear from them again. This is aimed at girls and couples as we dont accept friend requests from guys. We know we arent really ugly lol, so its not the pics that prevent being replied to.

is it then that the younger the apparent swinger, the higher possibility of them being a complete timewaster?

which also throws up the question of if you are like us, genuine swingers in your mid twenties then you will only be able to swing with people much older?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PnG you hit it right on the head there.

Younger people on here appear to be the brunt of the so called timewasters.

They engage chat but when you answer they do not come back to keep the chat flowing. Then if you do arrange a meeting 9 out of 10 are no shows.

I got the feeling these people were on here as a piss take to the entire community.

I have stated in another thread elsewhere that I feel people on here are starting to treat the site as a FREE fuck site and not an interactive chat site for Swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats for sure. we would just wish people would realise that we, and many like us need to arrange a babysitter etc. which in hand means that we dont get too many nights out over the year, and to then be left stranded is harsh.

We have had a high increase of mainly girls contact us, swap a few emails, get onto the friends list then just stop all communications, we have pretty much had it

picture collectors galore

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