FabSwingers.com forum: cjs Halloween party

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Question's to all the lovely people who made it to the party? 1) Did anyone have any problems with the naked butler's. 2) Does anybody know the couple how was was dressed as. fem was a dark angel, male had black shirt and trousers on all help would be gratefully received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naked butlers made the night , though mr had an issue with one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Question's to all the lovely people who made it to the party? 1) Did anyone have any problems with the naked butler's. 2) Does anybody know the couple how was was dressed as. fem was a dark angel, male had black shirt and trousers on all help would be gratefully received

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thought the naked butlers were great,they mingled with the crowd and all had time to blether with the guests.oh and yes they were really brave as it got bitter cold later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one of the butlers into trouble...he was with us in the open room...ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we noticed lol and know him well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agree butlers where good until 12 when they was aloud to play don't get us wrong it was just one that couldn't take no for an answer 3 times we had to tell him no,eventually he had to be told a little more forcefully to fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree butlers where good until 12 when they was aloud to play don't get us wrong it was just one that couldn't take no for an answer 3 times we had to tell him no,eventually he had to be told a little more forcefully to fuck off. "
sometimes that's the only language people understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No trouble with the butlers. They were a good laugh, well the ones I spoke to were.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well seems like only a couple of people had a problem with the butlers lets put it down to experience and move on. Still more importantly does anybody know who the couple was only got to play with them for 5mins before all the carry on with the Butler started so didn't get their names please if known them can you let us know or pass our profile onto them really would like to finish what we started.

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Hi guys,

If it's the couple we met, they're not on site.

She had black angel wings with kinda ostrich fluffy edges, a bob hair-do and a black fluffy halo, short skirt, long legs. He almost the same height and dark haired. xx

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Forum newbie! I know what you mean about the butlers but they were young good looking guys who in fairness were being propositioned most of the night! Give them the benefit of the doubt and say they maybe didn't know the rules! But "no" isn't a hard word to understand!

That couple said the were not on FAB yet but were going to join! Have to say it looked tremendous in that open room when all you guys were playing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one problem with anyone. Erm, what rules????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We where playing in the open room and of course the rules are that you dont touch without being invited into what is going on this one butler was touching me I told him no. Then he tried again devil told him no and he then had to be told a third time. If he did that to a girl in town or something it wouldn't be on so why would he think it was ok to do it to me

Angel x

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Exactly! I know there was a bit of aggro when they were told to go back downstairs and serve drinks! In fairness it didn't ruin a great night! CJ and Michelle know how do through a party in style!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We where playing in the open room and of course the rules are that you dont touch without being invited into what is going on this one butler was touching me I told him no. Then he tried again devil told him no and he then had to be told a third time. If he did that to a girl in town or something it wouldn't be on so why would he think it was ok to do it to me

Angel x"

Ahhh...I thought you meant there was rules for the workers....not rule rules....im fully aware of them

We had about a dozen hands from males in the dungeon till a few gtf,s where said...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly we had an awesome night that was our only issue was more annoyed that we had to give up playing on the night because of him. We had a lot more we wanted to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly we had an awesome night that was our only issue was more annoyed that we had to give up playing on the night because of him. We had a lot more we wanted to do."

Think we got more than we were expecting. ...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Where you playing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly we had an awesome night that was our only issue was more annoyed that we had to give up playing on the night because of him. We had a lot more we wanted to do."

Why did you not just move rooms or go back to it once he left,

And has anyone thought that he might never have been to a swingers party before, and didn't know the rules,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly we had an awesome night that was our only issue was more annoyed that we had to give up playing on the night because of him. We had a lot more we wanted to do.

Why did you not just move rooms or go back to it once he left,

And has anyone thought that he might never have been to a swingers party before, and didn't know the rules,

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plus think of it this way,young guy+swingers club=sweet shop

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The other rooms where full and I totally understand and the sweet shop statement but at the end of the day no means no ans cjs is always strict about that. I told him no and devil had to then tell him no twice more thats wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a great night the marque was fantastic. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its sure was caroline and Michelle sure know how to throw a party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sure was caroline and Michelle sure know how to throw a party x"

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By *erverts R usCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"Its sure was caroline and Michelle sure know how to throw a party x

With a little help from their friends lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats for sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sure was caroline and Michelle sure know how to throw a party x

With a little help from their friends lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sure was caroline and Michelle sure know how to throw a party x

With a little help from their friends lol xx

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of course

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By *earhugs1Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We had a fantastic night. Marquee was amazing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the butlers were ok in general just heard one wouldnt take no for an answer

the problem we had was in the cpls room with loads of single guys

fair enough im now single again but I was in there with my female friend and my good friends blue4u

it was very off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were there guys there?

Never noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where you playing? "

Lots..lol

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

Instead of posting this on here WHY if any of you who have commented about the butlers go right to cj herself and sort it with her rather than doing it here in public , I was there all night and if one of the butlers didn't take No for a ans then you should have gone right to Caroline who would have sorted this issue out rather than posting it here and making the party look bad as people that don't go there and might want to this kind of post can be off putting for them .

Just my 2p s worth and sorry if I offend anyone but Caroline is a good friend.

Brennie xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Caroline had more than enough on her hands than to deal with one silly male hubby was just asking. We had an awesome time and always do when we go.

And at the end of the day the butlers didnt know the situation but I was just meaning no means no in a swinging lifestyle the same as outwith.

Not trying to make it sound as if the party wasnt good it was excellant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The party was amazing!!!

Oh and the fun!!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

are most folks on here on commission ?? its a buisness venture not meaning to sound harsh but see it for what it is. for me a party is a group of folk getting together perhaps even sharing the cost but not about one set making a profit margin

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

IMO this prob should have been dealt with on the night itself rather than dragged up 4/5 days later. As Bren said in an earlier post it also gives new people bad impressions about these kind of events as, if you as "experienced" swingers felt you had to stop from playing how intimidated would it make newbies feel!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Nothing wrong with people discussing a night out they all attended....party or not....

Everyone knows it is a business for CJ..

CJ & Michelle went out their way to make it a great night, combining halloween with CJs birthday..

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"IMO this prob should have been dealt with on the night itself rather than dragged up 4/5 days later. As Bren said in an earlier post it also gives new people bad impressions about these kind of events as, if you as "experienced" swingers felt you had to stop from playing how intimidated would it make newbies feel! "

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Nothing wrong with people discussing a night out they all attended....party or not....

Everyone knows it is a business for CJ..

CJ & Michelle went out their way to make it a great night, combining halloween with CJs birthday..

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was mearly in refrence to the amount of posts "the party" reared its head and yup im positive they made it a fantastic night as they always do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People pay all the time to get in to clubs or Halloween partys its was a fantastic night money has nothing to do with anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to pay the costs as they go to a lot of effort to make the nights there what they are ... Special occasions like Halloween Xmas valentines day etc is always gonna have more people and less chance for Caroline to see to everyone individually but she doesnt tolerate any nonsense I actually heard her instruct the door guys to get rid of single guys who were in the couple's room and shouldn't have been.

Was a great night and they done a brilliant job to make sure everyone had a good night. I know I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always happy to pay the costs as they go to a lot of effort to make the nights there what they are ... Special occasions like Halloween Xmas valentines day etc is always gonna have more people and less chance for Caroline to see to everyone individually but she doesnt tolerate any nonsense I actually heard her instruct the door guys to get rid of single guys who were in the couple's room and shouldn't have been.

Was a great night and they done a brilliant job to make sure everyone had a good night. I know I did

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i agree with foe and shelley on this one,both mrs dlt and i hada wonderful night and met folk we had only spoken to online before and we are more than happy to pay for the use of the facilities provided especially given the time and effort out in to organising these events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a great night even with a problem occuring that sent me (dirty) into im going to kill him mode , it /he was dealt with quickly and I enjoyed the rest of the evening , best nipping things in the bud as they occur than bringing them up when its to late to deal with .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To all the people who think we should have went straight to Caroline. So you wanted us to possibly spoil what was a fantastic night want us to cause undue stress to our lovely hostess when we could deal with the problem ourselves if that's the case then we are sorry for that, next time we will know better and if we have a problem with anybody we will say to her right away. What was the other issue some people had oh that's right it could put new people off. again we are sorry we forgot we can only say good things about our experiences and forget the negative so they walk in thinking that Everbody that goes to events like this are angels and would never do anything like that. Trust us newbies 99.9% of the time you will have no problems at all. At the end of the day 1 individual will not put us off nor should it put anybody else off. we are already looking forward to our next visit and highly recommend cjs to everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sure was caroline and Michelle sure know how to throw a party x

With a little help from their friends lol xx

Here here

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"To all the people who think we should have went straight to Caroline."
I don't think you should have, it was, after all, her birthday party, BUT, there were the regular staff, easily identified by their clothing, even if you don't know them personally. I believe there were also a number of additional helper available that night, identified by their "CJs" badges. The staff are normally on top of things and people who can't behave sensibly will be asked to leave, but being a busier night, I'm sure they'd have been happy to have had any problems brought to their attention.

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

Oh, and, it goes without saying, but, it WAS a great party!! The marquee was spectacular!

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

All the carry on passed us by. We had a fab night in the marquee and upstairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a forum. ..things get discussed from cake to toys to bams to meets to parties to pants to drink to socials....well you get my point.

Some are good and some are bad and some are boring and few are funny.

No one is criticising the party, they are only discussing their own experiences and asking others of theirs, which is why these forums exist. People deal with situations differently so there is no right or wrong way to deal with a situation. I mentioned several hands copping a feel of flames ass n we told them bad boys off as it seemed right at the time, but on another night we may have asked for more hands.

With so many people with in an area you will always get negativity as we are all different. Its life, no one is doing any bad mouthing or giving a false impression of a place to anyone. If people go to swingers events then im sure, that like us they wont be niave and think its all rainbows n candy canes n freinds for life. Situations will annoy you and forums are a good place to discuss.

Only saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sure was caroline and Michelle sure know how to throw a party x

With a little help from their friends lol xx

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By *inkyCJWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I would just like to add and say a big thanks to everyone who attended the party and apologise if the butlers caused any problems for anyone. Once I was made aware of what was going on they were asked to leave. Hope to see you all again soon. CJ xx

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

"I would just like to add and say a big thanks to everyone who attended the party and apologise if the butlers caused any problems for anyone. Once I was made aware of what was going on they were asked to leave. Hope to see you all again soon. CJ xx"

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See u soon hunni

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We will definitely be back a fabulous party with great hosts xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We loved every minute of it and the butlers. Lol...had a great night. You and your wee team done an outstanding job.

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona

The dancers caught my eye

Glad you had a good party, i even got to dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We loved every minute of it and the butlers. Lol...had a great night. You and your wee team done an outstanding job. "

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

We loved every minute of it and the butlers. Lol...had a great night. You and your wee team done an outstanding job. "

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Haven't been to CJ's but I wouldn't say that reading posts like this would put people off going. Small issues cropping up very occasionally is only to be expected. I've read the occasional review for clubs down south and it's more concerning when you read them and see the same people posting again and again how wonderful the place is with any other opinions met with howls of derision.

CJ's does sound like a fun place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a great friendly place. Lovely hosts. Chat, play whatever.....there is no pressure. We went to the party and it was fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't been to CJ's but I wouldn't say that reading posts like this would put people off going. Small issues cropping up very occasionally is only to be expected. I've read the occasional review for clubs down south and it's more concerning when you read them and see the same people posting again and again how wonderful the place is with any other opinions met with howls of derision.

CJ's does sound like a fun place."

Small silly things do crop up now and then, depending on your character will determine how to deal with things....we just brush it off n continue to have a ball.....

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm assuming the original reply was a mistake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm assuming the original reply was a mistake?"

Kind of. Misread it. Realised my reply was a lot of shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were at party. It was our first time there and we had a ball. Everyone very friendly we had some good fun in open room upstairs and wilma had fun with a couple of the butlers too. We are going again on Saturday so if you are there please say hi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were at party. It was our first time there and we had a ball. Everyone very friendly we had some good fun in open room upstairs and wilma had fun with a couple of the butlers too. We are going again on Saturday so if you are there please say hi x"

We will be there. again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a great friendly place. Lovely hosts. Chat, play whatever.....there is no pressure. We went to the party and it was fantastic.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I'm assuming the original reply was a mistake?

Kind of. Misread it. Realised my reply was a lot of shite. "

Hehe, we all do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter where you go there will always be someone who won't take no for an answer. For example, I have in the past say perhaps 6 years ago, had a guy try to finger my bum, and I told him 3 times no. Each time he apologised and later tried again. This wasn't at a party, was at a play meet. You deal with it, as I did. I told him if he tried again I would bite his dick. He lost his erection, and my bumhole remained intact. Jobs a good un. I didn't fancy fucking him anyway.

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