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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A common post on here is (mainly) single guys asking for help on their profiles and getting meets.

Now the human brain is wired to respond to cries for help.....unless you are a sociopath or psychopath...and god knows there are probably a few on here......both male and female...

So in the main these people get constructive advice...

However there is no short cut. These folks have to put in the work.

This site is no different to real life. Its as hard....or probably harder....to meet on here than it is to pull in a pub or club.

I think a lot of guys come on here, throw up a very brief text speak single paragraph profile, capture their c*cks from various angles using their phone, upload them.....fire off winks, friends requests and one liners by the dozen.....then sit back and expect things to happen.

And when they don't they come onto the forum asking Why am I no getting meets...

And by the way is there anything LESS appealing than a flacid cock and a couple of hairy balls forced out of the zip space in a pair of jeans then photographed from above.

Do these folks look at the pic and go "Ya beauty. That's the business. This will have the burds beating doon ma door"

Am I being harsh.....What do the rest think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes your being harsh!

Why belittle single guys when couples tvs single fems have all been known to post a similar post ?

There is not a thing wrong with asking for help I forr one was brought up to ask for help if it was needed .Single guys get to much shit on here and brought down by to many ,

Give them a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as for less appealing loads of single guys have decent pics even if it is a hairy cock what about the couples who only advertise the female pics are their partners really munters hiding behind the female on the hope of using her to get laid

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By *ulfeMan
over a year ago

city

When we joined

We got about 100 messages from single guys within a hour

After reading the first dozen or so we blocked every single guy on the site.

Out of the dozen or so that we read we were offered the chance to have Matt tied up and forced to watch Bee being pleasured any way the single guy choose, Bee would be raped, Bee would be tied and abused spat on etc etc, Bee would be taken into a seperate room where I would forced to hear her screams for help.

I don't think I need to continue with any more for you to get the point.

Being an ex single guy and a sex addict most if not all (expects backlash) single guys who think they are good looking are after 1 thing - an empty ball sack and they will as I did in my past do anything to get that.

If it means biding time bring nice on a forum or in private messages then they will, once the moment of the deed occurs then true colors show and most single guys are single for a reason.......

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

Oh dear. One is either a sociopath or a psychopath! Or a Cycle Path!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Yes your being harsh!

Why belittle single guys when couples tvs single fems have all been known to post a similar post ?

There is not a thing wrong with asking for help I forr one was brought up to ask for help if it was needed .Single guys get to much shit on here and brought down by to many ,

Give them a break "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not got any problem at all with folks that ask for help with their profile, be they single, a couple or a little green man from uranus. But, a lot of the folks that ask for advice don't even take heed of any given. So, i've stopped giving any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A common post on here is (mainly) single guys asking for help on their profiles and getting meets.

Now the human brain is wired to respond to cries for help.....unless you are a sociopath or psychopath...and god knows there are probably a few on here......both male and female...

So in the main these people get constructive advice...

However there is no short cut. These folks have to put in the work.

This site is no different to real life. Its as hard....or probably harder....to meet on here than it is to pull in a pub or club.

I think a lot of guys come on here, throw up a very brief text speak single paragraph profile, capture their c*cks from various angles using their phone, upload them.....fire off winks, friends requests and one liners by the dozen.....then sit back and expect things to happen.

And when they don't they come onto the forum asking Why am I no getting meets...

And by the way is there anything LESS appealing than a flacid cock and a couple of hairy balls forced out of the zip space in a pair of jeans then photographed from above.

Do these folks look at the pic and go "Ya beauty. That's the business. This will have the burds beating doon ma door"

Am I being harsh.....What do the rest think...

"

nothing harsh about it and I don't see the single guys being singled out because thats all the forums have been full with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem pretty harsh and a bit 'ranty'.

We've been on the site for about five months now and haven't had any hassle from single guys hanging their flaccid dong out of their jeans. We didn't have them blocked at first but they seemed to respect the fact that we wanted couples. Even had some nice messages saying how hot J's pics were and wishing us good luck.

I wonder sometimes why certain people get grief and het up about certain sections of this site and others don't though. Down to profile or who they're looking for perhaps? Just a thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting.. but even single guys get hassled by single guys, so I can definitely see the problem. But as said above, it takes perseverance, and being polite, even though polite messages still get deleted 80+% of the time, it's still worth the effort.

Must admit though, most of my meets have came from the chatrooms or socials initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything less apealing than a flacid cock..,.

?"

Yup,females with photos of their huge pussies spread so wide i can see their cervix for one,females with photos of breasts that hang down to their knees is another,femaes with photos of several different meets all bareback but with safe sex on their profile, Do i need to go on?

single guys get hammered on this site and yes some deserve it, but by god if some of those single guys started saying what they really thought of SOME of the females on this site in forum posts there would be uproar!

Guess i have done just that, but i stand by my post and will shrug my shoulders and carry on making dinner.

Mike

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A common post on here is (mainly) single guys asking for help on their profiles and getting meets.

Now the human brain is wired to respond to cries for help.....unless you are a sociopath or psychopath...and god knows there are probably a few on here......both male and female...

So in the main these people get constructive advice...

However there is no short cut. These folks have to put in the work.

This site is no different to real life. Its as hard....or probably harder....to meet on here than it is to pull in a pub or club.

I think a lot of guys come on here, throw up a very brief text speak single paragraph profile, capture their c*cks from various angles using their phone, upload them.....fire off winks, friends requests and one liners by the dozen.....then sit back and expect things to happen.

And when they don't they come onto the forum asking Why am I no getting meets...

And by the way is there anything LESS appealing than a flacid cock and a couple of hairy balls forced out of the zip space in a pair of jeans then photographed from above.

Do these folks look at the pic and go "Ya beauty. That's the business. This will have the burds beating doon ma door"

Am I being harsh.....What do the rest think...

"

No thats true

And the last bit hilarious

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"A common post on here is (mainly) single guys asking for help on their profiles and getting meets.

Now the human brain is wired to respond to cries for help.....unless you are a sociopath or psychopath...and god knows there are probably a few on here......both male and female...

So in the main these people get constructive advice...

However there is no short cut. These folks have to put in the work.

This site is no different to real life. Its as hard....or probably harder....to meet on here than it is to pull in a pub or club.

I think a lot of guys come on here, throw up a very brief text speak single paragraph profile, capture their c*cks from various angles using their phone, upload them.....fire off winks, friends requests and one liners by the dozen.....then sit back and expect things to happen.

And when they don't they come onto the forum asking Why am I no getting meets...

And by the way is there anything LESS appealing than a flacid cock and a couple of hairy balls forced out of the zip space in a pair of jeans then photographed from above.

Do these folks look at the pic and go "Ya beauty. That's the business. This will have the burds beating doon ma door"

Am I being harsh.....What do the rest think...

nothing harsh about it and I don't see the single guys being singled out because thats all the forums have been full with!"
really my guess is a good 70% or more is cheating hubbys as most single guy profiles end up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But in the same token do single single women or the female part of a couple take a photo of their tits or pussies and say "ya beauty,thats the buisness that will have the guys/couples beating down my door"

See what im saying here i hope.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But in the same token do single single women or the female part of a couple take a photo of their tits or pussies and say "ya beauty,thats the buisness that will have the guys/couples beating down my door"

See what im saying here i hope.

Mike

"

I do see mikes point. We've both sat together and browsed through the public images on a few occassions and most of they times I get the boak.

but then again there's no women complaining in the forums about "why can't I get a meet...look at my profile".

Ach keep it classy or just jump in a jute bag....you'd still look sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id guess women done fret about lack of meets as there are about 40 million folks to choose from whereas guys have about 12!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


""Anything less apealing than a flacid cock..,.

?"

Yup,females with photos of their huge pussies spread so wide i can see their cervix for one,females with photos of breasts that hang down to their knees is another,femaes with photos of several different meets all bareback but with safe sex on their profile, Do i need to go on?

single guys get hammered on this site and yes some deserve it, but by god if some of those single guys started saying what they really thought of SOME of the females on this site in forum posts there would be uproar!

Guess i have done just that, but i stand by my post and will shrug my shoulders and carry on making dinner.

Mike"

I do agree with what you have said, however,I have neither of those either in real life or tucked away on my profile!

I just wish people would read profiles or at least have a profile of their own so I can do my own searching.

It's very difficult for single women to go looking, when most single male profile have 'Here for fun' as their only profile text or words of the same ilk. I just think, well no shit Sherlock!

Oh and a cock pic for their avatar.....don't get me started

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"But in the same token do single single women or the female part of a couple take a photo of their tits or pussies and say "ya beauty,thats the buisness that will have the guys/couples beating down my door"

See what im saying here i hope.

Mike

"

Speaking as a couple....

YES...they do! Or rather HE does! But then he gets a slap about the head and warned that under NO circumstance has said pic to be on!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes your being harsh!

Why belittle single guys when couples tvs single fems have all been known to post a similar post ?

There is not a thing wrong with asking for help I forr one was brought up to ask for help if it was needed .Single guys get to much shit on here and brought down by to many ,

Give them a break "

Couldn't agree more.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Some people just have to accept that they will never get a meet......

I believe some join thinking its guaranteed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A common post on here is (mainly) single guys asking for help on their profiles and getting meets.

Now the human brain is wired to respond to cries for help.....unless you are a sociopath or psychopath...and god knows there are probably a few on here......both male and female...

So in the main these people get constructive advice...

However there is no short cut. These folks have to put in the work.

This site is no different to real life. Its as hard....or probably harder....to meet on here than it is to pull in a pub or club.

I think a lot of guys come on here, throw up a very brief text speak single paragraph profile, capture their c*cks from various angles using their phone, upload them.....fire off winks, friends requests and one liners by the dozen.....then sit back and expect things to happen.

And when they don't they come onto the forum asking Why am I no getting meets...

And by the way is there anything LESS appealing than a flacid cock and a couple of hairy balls forced out of the zip space in a pair of jeans then photographed from above.

Do these folks look at the pic and go "Ya beauty. That's the business. This will have the burds beating doon ma door"

Am I being harsh.....What do the rest think...

"

ha ha like it. I always read profiles and try and Tailor my message accordingly, this isn't always successful but for me at least people can view me n make their own mind up. I do put more than the obligatory Hi how you doing in my messages as I say not always successful but at least I try. agree with above.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I just take most of these 'How is my profile etc' posts to be a sort of way of getting people to look at their profile as much as anything else.

Also remember reading a thread on one of the other forums where people were giving advice to someone and I really disagreed with it, as did a few others. Basically the original profile made the person sound like some sort of sociopath (which he very well could have been) and people were telling him all the parts to change or remove to make him sound better. It ended up with his profile sounding completely different and probably giving a totally false impression of him.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I just take most of these 'How is my profile etc' posts to be a sort of way of getting people to look at their profile as much as anything else.

Also remember reading a thread on one of the other forums where people were giving advice to someone and I really disagreed with it, as did a few others. Basically the original profile made the person sound like some sort of sociopath (which he very well could have been) and people were telling him all the parts to change or remove to make him sound better. It ended up with his profile sounding completely different and probably giving a totally false impression of him."

Exactly!

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