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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ok, I need tips on how on earth I'm going to stand in front of classes for 3 hours 2day & teach when I really really don't want to be here. I just wanna hide.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Can you pull a sicky ? migrane or i have an easy way to fake being sick !

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I could, but I am in dire need of the money. I'm not on a contract so if I don't turn up I don't get paid.

Apologies to all btw for being such rank company atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just imagine little voodoo dolls with pins in or the shower scene from psycho starring anyone who upsets you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just imagine the difference of having a full tum at tea time.....or a very empty one

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Put fab to the side brush yourself down everyone has curved balls lobbed at then but you always bounce back stronger.

Sometimes the less said the better as you only confuse fuck out yourself.

Solitude and direction is what you need reading between the lines.

Good luck

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Put fab to the side brush yourself down everyone has curved balls lobbed at then but you always bounce back stronger.

Sometimes the less said the better as you only confuse fuck out yourself.

Solitude and direction is what you need reading between the lines.

Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake. And lots of them!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Put fab to the side brush yourself down everyone has curved balls lobbed at then but you always bounce back stronger.

Sometimes the less said the better as you only confuse fuck out yourself.

Solitude and direction is what you need reading between the lines.

Good luck "

What PP said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....

It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....

We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....

Hence the man up...

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Well PP and anothersissy have different ways of saying the same thing here and I agree with both no matter how brutal they may seem.

It will get better and right now you just need to earn a crust

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....

It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....

We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....

Hence the man up..."

Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience.

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....

It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....

We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....

Hence the man up...

Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience."

We manic depressives call ourselves bipolar these days It's less emotionally loaded and manic depressive is generally overly stigmatised in society. But I like the sentiment behind what you wrote, find a reason to smile and be positive, even laughing once a day can make all the difference. You'll get through it, and you'll have days you are raring to go pal. Keep the chin up and don't let the bastards grind you down.

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well for what it's worth I just tried to close off my mind to anything other than what I had to teach. So that's me through the first hurdle of dealing with people & teaching. Now I can go hide ha. Well, after taking one more group of students for labwork.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to people who understand you. People will always give you advice and some of it will be helpful some won't. Take the bits you find of use and disregard the stuff you don't think will work for you. Everyone is different. Some hide some talk its down to what works for the individual but you will get throw it there's no right or wrong way to do it. Take small steps and do what feels right for you. Good Luck

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience.

We manic depressives call ourselves bipolar these days It's less emotionally loaded and manic depressive is generally overly stigmatised in society. But I like the sentiment behind what you wrote, find a reason to smile and be positive, even laughing once a day can make all the difference. You'll get through it, and you'll have days you are raring to go pal. Keep the chin up and don't let the bastards grind you down. "

Thanks for keeping me right. Sometimes hard to keep up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for keeping me right. Sometimes hard to keep up!"

Not a problem

Glad to hear you got through the day _uitar_antihero

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im with Sissy on this one

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

No one, and I mean no one who has not suffered from depression should be advising anyone who has, or is suffering. It is not a simple case of feeling down, or a bit miserable. Until you have been there, you know nothing about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....

It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....

We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....

Hence the man up...

Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience."

I agree what I said wasn't the best choice of words, we all have different experiences.... And we are all very different people. When everyone thought I was "going through a phase" or "just attention seeking" man up would've been a soft answer I was given.....

I am truly sorry the OP is depressed but in reality no one is going to fix the issues for him, he needs to do it for himself....

Depression is a real illness, there is no stigma in it in my eyes, I battle demons on a daily basis..... How we deal with it is what defines us, I was genuinely trying to make the OP see that we fix these things by being strong inside....on that note I am taking the only good advice my father gave me which was " when you find yourself in a hole....stop digging"

Peace out

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Is the OP suffering from depression?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"This is going to sound brutal, it isn't meant to but man up.....

It isn't where we stand at times of comfort that defines us as human beings....it is where we stand when things are piling up that shows us what we can be....

We can all say this was how we dealt with theses situations in my life, that won't help you.....

Hence the man up...

Maybe the term "man up" isn't quite what he needs to hear right now. That's like telling a manic depressive to pull their socks up. Yes we all go through shit and yes we all deal with it one way or another, but sometimes, being able to talk to others is the one aid we need. Positive words such as those from PP are much more helpful that "man up" - at least that's my experience.

I agree what I said wasn't the best choice of words, we all have different experiences.... And we are all very different people. When everyone thought I was "going through a phase" or "just attention seeking" man up would've been a soft answer I was given.....

I am truly sorry the OP is depressed but in reality no one is going to fix the issues for him, he needs to do it for himself....

Depression is a real illness, there is no stigma in it in my eyes, I battle demons on a daily basis..... How we deal with it is what defines us, I was genuinely trying to make the OP see that we fix these things by being strong inside....on that note I am taking the only good advice my father gave me which was " when you find yourself in a hole....stop digging"

Peace out "

Sometimes what is said in our heads doesn't translate well into the type written word which is a huge problem on here sometimes. I think it is safe to say that we all hope the OP finds what is needed to get through this difficult time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll need to bring a note from your parents...

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