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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here a wee while and trying to get in to things but finding it difficult to get different ideas and when if we ever do a meet what's the best way to start we are both quite shy and wouldn't know what is sexy to others we have not had many sexual partners between us we have had a few people messaging us being pushy about things and being rude and shallow

Thanks for listening all info would be appreciated

A and P

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

just be natural dont focus on sex puts lots of folk off when all they get is can hubby fuck you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just be natural dont focus on sex puts lots of folk off when all they get is can hubby fuck you "

We don't send much messages if we do we never write anything like that but we do get people asking if they can just be with P we're trying it as a couple to see what's it's like for the both of us to enjoy not just one A.P

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"just be natural dont focus on sex puts lots of folk off when all they get is can hubby fuck you

We don't send much messages if we do we never write anything like that but we do get people asking if they can just be with P we're trying it as a couple to see what's it's like for the both of us to enjoy not just one A.P"
yup exactly you have come across the types already no suprise stick to what you want and make sure anyone you msg fits that criteria

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks we were just looking for some tips from nice people that are experienced and genuine like we said we new to the whole thing

A.P

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Welcome to the forums

Just try to relax and chat to folk but don't ever settle for something your not comfortable with, there are lots of lovely people around and I'm sure you will find them, maybe try a social if they are your thing as it's a good way to get to know folk without any pressure

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a wee while and trying to get in to things but finding it difficult to get different ideas and when if we ever do a meet what's the best way to start we are both quite shy and wouldn't know what is sexy to others we have not had many sexual partners between us we have had a few people messaging us being pushy about things and being rude and shallow

Thanks for listening all info would be appreciated

A and P"

Hi ,there are lots of rude and shallow people on here but there are some lovely ones also .

Just be true to yourselves and one another. Be clear about what you want and remember you always are the people in control. You can say no at any time and Not have to feel bad or concerned about it. Take your time and things will happen naturally for you. Good luck and have plenty fun ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you both we seem to get some nasty people so your best doing a social 1st to see what the other people or person is like we're just that way that don't want to end up with someone pushy that would just take it to far and not stop when we wanted to

A dose worry about his wait but he's fine to me it's kinda put him back a bit with people being rude and that if we're chatting in the rooms with the cam on

P

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

As long as you are BOTH happy with the people, BOTH know what you want and don't want and what your boundaries are then that's a start.

Maybe have a safe word in case you want to stop.

Relax, just let it happen.

Maybe meet socially for a drink on neutral ground first then if you're both happy take it somewhere private.

But above all, enjoy and have fun. If you've chatted to people before hand it will give everyone a good sense of what each other likes and wants from the meet

Good luck, have fun and welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a wee while and trying to get in to things but finding it difficult to get different ideas and when if we ever do a meet what's the best way to start we are both quite shy and wouldn't know what is sexy to others we have not had many sexual partners between us we have had a few people messaging us being pushy about things and being rude and shallow

Thanks for listening all info would be appreciated

A and P"
You are not doing yourselves any favours by demanding face pics with every message you receive otherwise they get blocked.If you had face pics on your profile then you are quite right,but you havent.Put face pics on if you want face pics back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you are BOTH happy with the people, BOTH know what you want and don't want and what your boundaries are then that's a start.

Maybe have a safe word in case you want to stop.

Relax, just let it happen.

Maybe meet socially for a drink on neutral ground first then if you're both happy take it somewhere private.

But above all, enjoy and have fun. If you've chatted to people before hand it will give everyone a good sense of what each other likes and wants from the meet

Good luck, have fun and welcome to the forums "

this is good advice.

Nobody needs to force you into anything. Meet for a drink with a couple first and see if you click x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been on here a wee while and trying to get in to things but finding it difficult to get different ideas and when if we ever do a meet what's the best way to start we are both quite shy and wouldn't know what is sexy to others we have not had many sexual partners between us we have had a few people messaging us being pushy about things and being rude and shallow

Thanks for listening all info would be appreciated

A and PYou are not doing yourselves any favours by demanding face pics with every message you receive otherwise they get blocked.If you had face pics on your profile then you are quite right,but you havent.Put face pics on if you want face pics back."

We do have face pictures on our profile on the friends bit it's because we have all ready found out a few single guy's using couple profiles trying there luck tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pic of you A might be nice too- just so we know there's a guy there too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the help hopefully we will get new photos up soon and get the hang of it

A.P

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