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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Do we think that there should be a "badmouth,name and shame" section of the site to allow some of the disgruntled fabbers to air their discontentment with other dastardly users? or should such negative opinions be censored? x

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

This subject has been done time and time again. Washing dirty linen in public eg badmouthing is against Fab rules. Naming and shaming is open to abuse and can cause all sorts of damage. If anyone has a problem with a user, then report, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to a certain extent but mods would be on the case like flies to horseshit.

Is is best not just to ignore, block and move along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it get to me enough to want to name and shame really

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

In before thread vanishes

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Do we think that there should be a "badmouth,name and shame" section of the site to allow some of the disgruntled fabbers to air their discontentment with other dastardly users? or should such negative opinions be censored? x"
Oh I think there already is one on fab it's called gossip ..just not done in public but behind peoples backs but stupidly some are not so clever to cover their tracks and it always gets back to the one being badmouther anyway lol.

But as has already been said it is open to abuse so no its not a good idea at all.

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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"This subject has been done time and time again. Washing dirty linen in public eg badmouthing is against Fab rules. Naming and shaming is open to abuse and can cause all sorts of damage. If anyone has a problem with a user, then report, block and move on. "
having never personally come across a post relating to it I thought I'd put it out there to see if I can make sense of it all and also to benefit the other folks like myself who might be asking themselves the same question,also I'm well aware of the fact that it isn't permitted on here hence why I'm posing the question of wether it should be or not,whereas open discussion is subject to abuse not discussing certain issues might not necessarily be the lesser of two weovils

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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Yes to a certain extent but mods would be on the case like flies to horseshit.

Is is best not just to ignore, block and move along? "

is ignorance bliss? Can one really move on from certain unpleasant experience's?so many grey area's eh lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them what you think n take your punishment......

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"This subject has been done time and time again. Washing dirty linen in public eg badmouthing is against Fab rules. Naming and shaming is open to abuse and can cause all sorts of damage. If anyone has a problem with a user, then report, block and move on. having never personally come across a post relating to it I thought I'd put it out there to see if I can make sense of it all and also to benefit the other folks like myself who might be asking themselves the same question,also I'm well aware of the fact that it isn't permitted on here hence why I'm posing the question of wether it should be or not,whereas open discussion is subject to abuse not discussing certain issues might not necessarily be the lesser of two weovils "

Just do a search under "Name and Shame" there are loads of them and will all say pretty much the same.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Yes to a certain extent but mods would be on the case like flies to horseshit.

Is is best not just to ignore, block and move along? is ignorance bliss? Can one really move on from certain unpleasant experience's?so many grey area's eh lol x"

What is it they say? There are always three sides to every story, your side, their side and the truth.

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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Don't let it get to me enough to want to name and shame really "
lies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we think that there should be a "badmouth,name and shame" section of the site to allow some of the disgruntled fabbers to air their discontentment with other dastardly users? or should such negative opinions be censored? x"

Wars have started for less, lol. For example, i could tell everyone that you have been repeatedly messaging me asking for a meet, and when i say no becausdm i'm straight, you give me dogs abuse!!

You haven't really, but see how easy it is to abuse that sort of thing if allowed.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Do we think that there should be a "badmouth,name and shame" section of the site to allow some of the disgruntled fabbers to air their discontentment with other dastardly users? or should such negative opinions be censored? xOh I think there already is one on fab it's called gossip ..just not done in public but behind peoples backs but stupidly some are not so clever to cover their tracks and it always gets back to the one being badmouther anyway lol.

But as has already been said it is open to abuse so no its not a good idea at all."

t yup arms and legs added exactly why it cant happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let it get to me enough to want to name and shame really lies x"

Ohhhh, I think you need to enlighten me on this one Ninja

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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Just tell them what you think n take your punishment...... "
hmm I like to punish,call me the punisher x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I cant see why this would be necessary, if someone hacks you off ignore them , if someone s_ands you up never arrange to meet them again, if someone sends you a nasty message block them! ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant see why this would be necessary, if someone hacks you off ignore them , if someone s_ands you up never arrange to meet them again, if someone sends you a nasty message block them! ...

xx"

Exactly...I'll sometimes have a rant to a friend, but not important enough to make public

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Word of mouth can be as good

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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

aye not to mention that message you sent me the other day asking me to farts in your face for £100 after eating 5 cans of beans that you also offered to supply, so when are we doing it then? And can I have the £100 in untraceable fivers or wired to my offshore bank accoubt in the bahamas's
"Do we think that there should be a "badmouth,name and shame" section of the site to allow some of the disgruntled fabbers to air their discontentment with other dastardly users? or should such negative opinions be censored? x

Wars have started for less, lol. For example, i could tell everyone that you have been repeatedly messaging me asking for a meet, and when i say no becausdm i'm straight, you give me dogs abuse!!

You haven't really, but see how easy it is to abuse that sort of thing if allowed."

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By *akedninja OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I cant see why this would be necessary, if someone hacks you off ignore them , if someone s_ands you up never arrange to meet them again, if someone sends you a nasty message block them! ...

xx"

what if you pay a non refundable/non transferable £20k for a luxury VIP cruise around the world for you and your proposed meet and they don't turn up? Would it still be ok to brush it under the carpet and move on like nothing has happened? Theoretrically speaking as I don't have £20k to spend on a fancy cruise for me and a stranger and I'm not a big fan of boats,perhaps there should be an option to take out fab insurance against any such loss of money or something lol

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