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"So wha aboutt those that do it with the consent of there partner.... " Well if they are doing it with the partners consent then it's not cheating . The point I was trying to make is the way it was worded sound to me like whoo hoo look at me I'm married and cheating on my partner ..maybe others on here who have been cheated on will understand what I mean | |||
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"Your as bad and as nawty as married guys funny enough Although married guys on here should be Burnt at the stake after bein beheaded, drawn And quartered!! Keep up the nawtness " You first, then?  | |||
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"So itz cheating even if your partner knew about it and okayed it...." I guess many would see it like that but I wouldn't see it like if one partner or the other is giving consent and know all about meets then no it's not cheating | |||
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"So itz cheating even if your partner knew about it and okayed it...." No but if that was ever to come up for us we would won't confirmation from the partner before anything happened. | |||
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"If they are being open and honest about it then its down the the person whether they want to enter into that scenario. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors or for what reasons people are indeed cheating, being cheated on or on here without their partners .. but I try never to tar folk with the same brush.. and I'm sure there a lot more do it and aren't honest about it than the ones who have "im attached or married" on their profiles " In total agreement on your _iew Shelley! | |||
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"Cheating is cheating whether it be male or female. Definitely the one thing we won't even entertain. My opinion(devil) Everboby should block anybody they find on the site that's cheating on their partners but that's my opinion. "geez peace!! | |||
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"Cheating is cheating whether it be male or female. Definitely the one thing we won't even entertain. My opinion(devil) Everboby should block anybody they find on the site that's cheating on their partners but that's my opinion. geez peace!!"geez peace so am I to assume that your one of those people who condone cheating on their partners and intern are quite happy to see possibly a family torn apart. Well sorry but having been through that when I was younger and having to watch my 2 younger sisters being torn between parents never mind all the shit I had to deal with being the eldest. I just hope you never have to go through it. | |||
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"Cheating is one thing being so flippant about in a forum is quite another " | |||
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"You get the impression that if this was a guy posting, then the abuse would be pages long already "Not in the Scottish Forum... We are all very nice here!!!  | |||
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"male or female. Doesnt make any differnce to me. They are treated exactly the same if they are cheating on someone. Cant stand any of the liars and make that perfectly clear to them " | |||
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"If they are being open and honest about it then its down the the person whether they want to enter into that scenario. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors or for what reasons people are indeed cheating, being cheated on or on here without their partners .. but I try never to tar folk with the same brush.. and I'm sure there a lot more do it and aren't honest about it than the ones who have "im attached or married" on their profiles " +1 | |||
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"Each to their own its a swing site therefore I'm sure society would judge us regardless . As a single female all I ask for is honesty then I make an informed choice.. So being on either side of the fence we're damned if we do and damned if we don't ... " | |||
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"Cheating is cheating whether it be male or female. Definitely the one thing we won't even entertain. My opinion(devil) Everboby should block anybody they find on the site that's cheating on their partners but that's my opinion. geez peace!!geez peace so am I to assume that your one of those people who condone cheating on their partners and intern are quite happy to see possibly a family torn apart. Well sorry but having been through that when I was younger and having to watch my 2 younger sisters being torn between parents never mind all the shit I had to deal with being the eldest. I just hope you never have to go through it."No not at all that's my point stop assuming you know people | |||
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"Cheating is just wicked I don't care about behind closed doors shut the doors and speak or end it without making someone you once cared about look like a fool C xx"ehhhhh?????  | |||
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"I think most have missed the point in what the op posted and to me that looked like its ok to boast about cheating on your partner/husband/wife . As I said if people want to cheat on here that's upto them but it should not be made a joke of and I think it was in bad taste as im sure there have been a few people on the site who have been cheated on and know what pain that brings . I just wonder if the op would think if her partner cheated on her would she still think is was naughty of him? ...I think not he'd probably be branded the biggest B*****d that walked the earth." | |||
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"I think most have missed the point in what the op posted and to me that looked like its ok to boast about cheating on your partner/husband/wife . As I said if people want to cheat on here that's upto them but it should not be made a joke of and I think it was in bad taste as im sure there have been a few people on the site who have been cheated on and know what pain that brings . I just wonder if the op would think if her partner cheated on her would she still think is was naughty of him? ...I think not he'd probably be branded the biggest B*****d that walked the earth." . Couldn't have said it better Jacs | |||
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"I think most have missed the point in what the op posted and to me that looked like its ok to boast about cheating on your partner/husband/wife . As I said if people want to cheat on here that's upto them but it should not be made a joke of and I think it was in bad taste as im sure there have been a few people on the site who have been cheated on and know what pain that brings . I just wonder if the op would think if her partner cheated on her would she still think is was naughty of him? ...I think not he'd probably be branded the biggest B*****d that walked the earth." | |||
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"Cheatings cheating if you can cheat on a partner what else are you capable off makes no diffrence if male or female" I agree with kola. A cheat is a liar and i detest liars. Been cheated on many times. Only ever did it once myself and that was enough. But then high morals are why i am probably alone and cynical now. I can detect bull shit at ten paces! | |||
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"So many people so many opinions! ...If you know the person is married you and you alone have the option to say yes or no it really is as simple as that. To be perfectly honest I couldnt care less who has been cheated on and hurt who has been the other woman/man in a relationship, all I care about is my relationship. I dont feel the need to pass judgement on others as has been said before NOBODY other than the people involved know what goes on behind closed doors nor should they. " | |||
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"So many people so many opinions! ...If you know the person is married you and you alone have the option to say yes or no it really is as simple as that. To be perfectly honest I couldnt care less who has been cheated on and hurt who has been the other woman/man in a relationship, all I care about is my relationship. I dont feel the need to pass judgement on others as has been said before NOBODY other than the people involved know what goes on behind closed doors nor should they. " Totally agree. We are all individual entities with individual beliefs and moral standards. People do what they do is their business and nobody else's. If an individual chooses to have extra curricular fun on a site like this that is their business and not yours. If you inadvertently meet, play and they are found out, it has nothing to do with you. Just simply walk away, the consequence they face is their problem and theirs alone. Many people on here are playing away whether with or without their partners consent or knowledge, that I'm afraid people is the nature of the beast, the human race is not perfect, people have through the ages had many sexual partners at the one time and will continue to do so until we are extinct. Live and let live, life is difficult enough and too damn short to worry about other peoples morals and feelings. | |||
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"So many people so many opinions! ...If you know the person is married you and you alone have the option to say yes or no it really is as simple as that. To be perfectly honest I couldnt care less who has been cheated on and hurt who has been the other woman/man in a relationship, all I care about is my relationship. I dont feel the need to pass judgement on others as has been said before NOBODY other than the people involved know what goes on behind closed doors nor should they. Totally agree. We are all individual entities with individual beliefs and moral standards. People do what they do is their business and nobody else's. If an individual chooses to have extra curricular fun on a site like this that is their business and not yours. If you inadvertently meet, play and they are found out, it has nothing to do with you. Just simply walk away, the consequence they face is their problem and theirs alone. Many people on here are playing away whether with or without their partners consent or knowledge, that I'm afraid people is the nature of the beast, the human race is not perfect, people have through the ages had many sexual partners at the one time and will continue to do so until we are extinct. Live and let live, life is difficult enough and too damn short to worry about other peoples morals and feelings." | |||
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin "why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you...... it is that easy. | |||
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy."EXACTLY | |||
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin "Some will meet you some won't Hun. The comments on here are only peoples opinions try not to take them so personally lol. | |||
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"Love the high and mighty on here am married so just drive a stake through the heart all i can say hope your never in the position of being married or having a partner who your world completly revolves around and is you world but because of a cruel twist of fate are unable to have a sex life with that person and to mention sex to them causes so much sorrow and pain because they cant and feel guilty because they feel you are being denied But not having sex at home does make you look else where and to tell them your looking to play away from would not help the situation. I just hope the moral high ground are never in this situation that many of us are, vilify and condem us but do not judge our morals. "I have no issue with married people playing away from home. As has been said several times on this thread, everyone has their reasons for doing so. What I don't like or want is a married man lying to me about his situation so I can't make an informed decision. I have been lied to about someone's status and as a direct result had my fingers burnt. Forewarned is definitely forearmed. So no judgements from me on whether you are married or not, but definitely judgements on liars. | |||
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"That's the points I was trying to make about this post I have no issues at all about married or attached people who use this site but that's how this post came across to me too "my opinion is just that also mine. if others decide those actions are fine thats fine by me but dont expect me to pat someone who cheats on the back and say its ok dosnt matter about the pain lying and cheating causes | |||
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy." | |||
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"That's the points I was trying to make about this post I have no issues at all about married or attached people who use this site but that's how this post came across to me too "thanks wasnt singling anyone out | |||
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"One question from me - where has the OP gone? " Good question ?? Seems to have disappeared | |||
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"I have been in the unfotunate position of being in two sexless marriages. The first went 3 years without, her choice, no idea why, before I left, havng had enough of that, and her constantly shifting moods. The second, my current, is because of an incurable, and barely treatable, medical condition. The difference is, We both love each other, and she knows I have needs. She does not want to know what I do, or who with, or for me to bring it home, even when she is not there. We understand and respect each others' positions, I do not wave my presence here in her face, and, if I ever meet anyone from here, it will be done very discreetly. To all those on the moral high ground, either of those situations could happen to you. Reflect on that before you judge. " I was put in the first position with my ex partner. Last 5 years of us being together, I was celibate. Stayed because I cared too much, but then realised I needed more than just being a friend. Turned out all he really wanted was someone to look after him!!!! | |||
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"Any other married girls playing from home.. are we bad or naughty... "Its not cheating as much as deceiving your partner into thinking you are sexually satisfied with him alone. Sex is a need, like food. You don`t have to eat only with your partner. A fish supper on, your own, when your out, isnt cheating. Neither is the occasional sexy `snack` xx | |||
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"Love the high and mighty on here am married so just drive a stake through the heart all i can say hope your never in the position of being married or having a partner who your world completly revolves around and is you world but because of a cruel twist of fate are unable to have a sex life with that person and to mention sex to them causes so much sorrow and pain because they cant and feel guilty because they feel you are being denied But not having sex at home does make you look else where and to tell them your looking to play away from would not help the situation. I just hope the moral high ground are never in this situation that many of us are, vilify and condem us but do not judge our morals.
I have no issue with married people playing away from home. As has been said several times on this thread, everyone has their reasons for doing so. What I don't like or want is a married man lying to me about his situation so I can't make an informed decision. I have been lied to about someone's status and as a direct result had my fingers burnt. Forewarned is definitely forearmed. So no judgements from me on whether you are married or not, but definitely judgements on liars." | |||
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"A A fish supper on, your own, when your out, isnt cheating. " Having a single sausage is though..... | |||
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"A A fish supper on, your own, when your out, isnt cheating. Having a single sausage is though..... "Don't forget those who want a black pudding... | |||
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy."ok cool don't want to win as such just want to be left alone to get on and not be bloody judged every two days by peeps who don't know me or my situation | |||
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"Babe if your wernt being judged for that then it would be something else,it's the nature of this site don't let it get to you xxx" | |||
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"male or female. Doesnt make any differnce to me. They are treated exactly the same if they are cheating on someone. Cant stand any of the liars and make that perfectly clear to them " | |||
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"Some will say bein up front on here about bein married is not enough tho, cos basically your still cheating your partner, so you cannywin
why do you want to win... just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you......
it is that easy.ok cool don't want to win as such just want to be left alone to get on and not be bloody judged every two days by peeps who don't know me or my situation "I think you are lovely and great fun on the forum. Don't let others get to you. xxx | |||
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"Think the OP was a guy, 'her' pics appeared in a massive gallery posted up abroad a couple of years ago.... ...so I'm told "I noticed. How quickly it disappeared | |||
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"ok cool don't want to win as such just want to be left alone to get on and not be bloody judged every two days by peeps who don't know me or my situation "Why let them get to you? You dont want to meet people that are that judgemental anyways | |||
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"Any other married girls playing from home.. are we bad or naughty... "We are not here to judge. If you are playing away from home then thats your business. As far as we are concerned we are all swingers and (mostly) on Fab for the same things. | |||
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"A A fish supper on, your own, when your out, isnt cheating. Having a single sausage is though..... "Particularly if its split and pasted, Anyway, the fishy smell is better. | |||
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"Any other married girls playing from home.. are we bad or naughty... "No - a fabulous target rich environment | |||
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"You get the impression that if this was a guy posting, then the abuse would be pages long already " | |||
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"how the fuck did they find it " god knows | |||
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"wow... what a difference 48 weeks makes "pmsl so true | |||
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