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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well once again I(Mrs) have been stood up again, sitting at home waiting and waiting and waiting,

How long should u wait before you say fuck itq

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any more than 10 mins without letting me know they were running late..... they'd be binned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At this rate might say fuck it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is full of fake profiles,picture hunters,and the worst of all the dreaded TIMEWASTER.

I'm fed up of getting ready and you girls now how long it takes only to be left standing. Frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*hug*

Being stood up is horrible. I'll send you a cake

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"*hug*

Being stood up is horrible. I'll send you a cake"

Can I just have a cake anyway... even though I haven't had a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*hug*

Being stood up is horrible. I'll send you a cake"
not one of mine I hope

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I have to say, I've been very lucky and not experienced this myself, but if there had been no text to say he was on his way or running late and he wasn't here within 20 minutes of his expected time, I would say fuck it. If it's happening a lot to you though, maybe it's time to look at your selection criteria? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say, I've been very lucky and not experienced this myself, but if there had been no text to say he was on his way or running late and he wasn't here within 20 minutes of his expected time, I would say fuck it. If it's happening a lot to you though, maybe it's time to look at your selection criteria? Just a thought. "

And what do u suggest my selection criteria should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how it feels to be stood up and messed around on meets. It's really no fun at all. ((Hugs)) for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*hug*

Being stood up is horrible. I'll send you a cake

Can I just have a cake anyway... even though I haven't had a no show "

Bring the cake I''ll get the booze,,,,,, girly night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*hug*

Being stood up is horrible. I'll send you a cake

Can I just have a cake anyway... even though I haven't had a no show "

Come & get one. Unless you're going to stand me up too! & no dirty, not one of yours. Those bad boys are for me only

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I have to say, I've been very lucky and not experienced this myself, but if there had been no text to say he was on his way or running late and he wasn't here within 20 minutes of his expected time, I would say fuck it. If it's happening a lot to you though, maybe it's time to look at your selection criteria? Just a thought. "
I have to agree here ..do you meet socially with your meets before playtime?

If not then id start doing so that way you get a feel for that person and have a fairly good idea if they are going to turn up for a meet or not

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I have to say, I've been very lucky and not experienced this myself, but if there had been no text to say he was on his way or running late and he wasn't here within 20 minutes of his expected time, I would say fuck it. If it's happening a lot to you though, maybe it's time to look at your selection criteria? Just a thought.

And what do u suggest my selection criteria should be"

As I don't know what your criteria is, I can't make a suggestion, but, if you are being stood up a lot, there is obviously an issue somewhere. I'm only thinking back to other threads with other Fabsters who have experienced similar difficulties and that was one suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say, I've been very lucky and not experienced this myself, but if there had been no text to say he was on his way or running late and he wasn't here within 20 minutes of his expected time, I would say fuck it. If it's happening a lot to you though, maybe it's time to look at your selection criteria? Just a thought.

And what do u suggest my selection criteria should be

As I don't know what your criteria is, I can't make a suggestion, but, if you are being stood up a lot, there is obviously an issue somewhere. I'm only thinking back to other threads with other Fabsters who have experienced similar difficulties and that was one suggestion."

That's maybe where am going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats not great hun, very annoying.

Think Miss D has a point though. Would rather get stood up for a coffee than when I've made an effort to get ready and looking forward to a play meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just get a bit off cake cause after reading post I have got very hungry all of a sudden & that way I won't feel left out

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Thats not great hun, very annoying.

Think Miss D has a point though. Would rather get stood up for a coffee than when I've made an effort to get ready and looking forward to a play meet "

Good point Roxy.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Any more than 10 mins without letting me know they were running late..... they'd be binned "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pish poor!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thats not great hun, very annoying.

Think Miss D has a point though. Would rather get stood up for a coffee than when I've made an effort to get ready and looking forward to a play meet "
The thing is mts dit your sitting at home would be much worse if you were standing out in the cold waiting for him...and remember you can report a no show to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the need to timewaste.... I am new to this but is it not a bit mental organising a meet only to not turn up...

I would part someone's plums if I got dressed and they never turned up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats not great hun, very annoying.

Think Miss D has a point though. Would rather get stood up for a coffee than when I've made an effort to get ready and looking forward to a play meet The thing is mts dit your sitting at home would be much worse if you were standing out in the cold waiting for him...and remember you can report a no show to admin."

But Jacs, while standing the cold you could be perving any potential hotties to fill the vacant position

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Why would you be standing in the cold?

Arrange to meet them INSIDE somewhere!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

in your case mrs dlt i would be more pissed off that he now knows your address than the fact he didn't show. but also the block button would be a good place to start.

i had a spell of this too but ironically it wasn't from the newbies without verifications but those who had been on the site for more than a year and had been verified by people i know.

just be more selective when arranging meets in future, chat a bit more first and like suggested meet for a drink or cuppa somewhere first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have cake.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was he/she genuine

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