FabSwingers.com forum: Planning first trip to CJ's....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey folks, planning to take a dander to CJ's one afternoon. Since that is the best time for me the optional events I saw were greedy girl, ganging or barakke party. Now, I'm fairly new to this scene but keen to get involved, what would you's recommend?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Personally, I would recommend that as a first timer, you look on it as a social and a way of getting to know the hostesses and guests.

Every party night/day is different from the last or next.

Go with no expectations, except to make new friends and anything else that "may" happen is a bonus.

ENJOY x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally, I would recommend that as a first timer, you look on it as a social and a way of getting to know the hostesses and guests.

Every party night/day is different from the last or next.

Go with no expectations, except to make new friends and anything else that "may" happen is a bonus.

ENJOY x"

Thanks _muma

I am definitely looking forward to it, single guy at the moment so hopefully everything will go smoothly and I'll just 'slide' into place once I arrive..normally a little bit shy but once I get chatting its gone in no time. Do you go yourself often?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Personally, I would recommend that as a first timer, you look on it as a social and a way of getting to know the hostesses and guests.

Every party night/day is different from the last or next.

Go with no expectations, except to make new friends and anything else that "may" happen is a bonus.

ENJOY x

Thanks _muma

Not as often as I would like to unfortunately.

Both Caroline (CJ) and Michelle (CJ's partner and co-hostess) are 2 of the loveliest people you could ever meet (wasn't paid to say that). They will show you around and explain everything to you. All you have to be is yourself.

A mid-week party is quieter than the Fri/Sat GG/GB/FFA's/themed party nights, so you are easing yourself in in a good way.

No need to be shy, majority of guests are a good friendly bunch (3%), the other 97% are sex-mad depraved idjits, but don't let that put you off. I myself am in the 3% inclusion zone...

Remember that you you have to register your interest first as single guy places are limited.

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By *nna_tonyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

For a first timer, maybe a GGGB night would be a bit full on, the fun for all nights are great. No pressure and people tend to be very friendly, in our experience anyway.

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By *nna_tonyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Ooops I just saw you said afternoons are best, so scrub that suggestion, lol.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Ooops I just saw you said afternoons are best, so scrub that suggestion, lol."

Agree with you AT, as a Couple FFA's are good intro, but was thinking of the Op as a single male x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Personally, I would recommend that as a first timer, you look on it as a social and a way of getting to know the hostesses and guests.

Every party night/day is different from the last or next.

Go with no expectations, except to make new friends and anything else that "may" happen is a bonus.

ENJOY x

Thanks _muma

Not as often as I would like to unfortunately.

A mid-week party is quieter than the Fri/Sat GG/GB/FFA's/themed party nights, so you are easing yourself in in a good way.

No need to be shy, majority of guests are a good friendly bunch (3%), the other 97% are sex-mad depraved idjits, but don't let that put you off. I myself am in the 3% inclusion zone...

Remember that you you have to register your interest first as single guy places are limited.

Not been but heard so many great things about CJs that I'm sure you'll fit right in and have a good time.

Just for the record Fmuma - you are definitely in the 97%!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers everyone

I emailed CJ's and got a list of details, just waiting to see what afternoons are available for the greedy girls event. Hoping to stick around the forums a bit, so may see some familiar faces when I finally get the chance to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I went to CJ's it was a Friday night GG night. I'd been to a couple clubs in London before but was still a bit nervous walking in on my own, not knowin what or who to expect... but as has been already said, both Caroline and Michelle along with everyone else made me feel totally welcome and at ease. I actually enjoyed the chat/social time almost as much as the fun I had - honest! Go in without any crazy expectations and I promise you'll have a great night!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well definitely sounds like it'l be an afternoon well spent

. Hopefully I can get along to some of the Saturday events once my schedule clears up a bit..Anyone here been to the afternoons?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I have been to a couple of the afternoon events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to afternoon gggb party and really like them. You'll be fine there. I can't get to cj's before the Halloween party and I'm missing it!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got in touch and there's a gggb on the 9th of October

I think I'll be making my debut that afternoon

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

we went to cjs for first time last sat had great night will deffo be going back

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