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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When people are just rude even when your polite and nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother...

letting it get to you? brush it off and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No excuse for people being rude and nasty though just cause someone said hello

(and didnt send a cock pic and didnt say fancy a f**k.....only politely said hello)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if all you said was hello what kind of response do you expect? If you walk past someone in the street & say a polite "hello" cos you made eye contact, do you expect a long chat to ensue?

Messages, I feel should look for some common ground, complimentary & also selective. Write 5 good messages to 5 people you like instead of sending "hello" to all & sundry. & I'm saying this as a guy who had a single guy profile for knocking on 2 years.

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it Thursday already

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Seems anyday is rant day around here

To the op as has been said just take it as I'm not interested in speaking to you don't take offence by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems anyday is rant day around here

To the op as has been said just take it as I'm not interested in speaking to you don't take offence by it "

Miss D shows interest by sitting on your knee :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there will always be people on here that are rude and nasty. BUT, there are hundreds of amazing people on here that far outweigh the negative.

Keep smiling in the knowledge you will meet the nice ones in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trials and tribulations of the world of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes reply to those 'simple' messages or if someone asks a question that takes my interest. However, half the time they then take it as a way to send messages every day with hopes of meeting when I've made it perfectly clear they're not my type.

I try and be nice but if they keep nagging or send abuse because I've wasted their time just by replying to a question they'll get a boot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like nice polite chatty guys are ignored on here. Well thats been my experience so far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people are just rude even when your polite and nice"

Because they are female and able to choose which message they wish to reply to. And i'm guessing they would rather reply to an interesting message rather than just a generic 'hi, hows you' one.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

What did you want them to say ..."hello" back? Then what you send another to say "hows you". People would rather not waste your time and their own and engage in conversation when they have no intention of meeting.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Seems like nice polite chatty guys are ignored on here. Well thats been my experience so far lol "

Keep the faith, those talking are not shagging

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

yeah antihero but only know if they are intrested if i get a rise out of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like nice polite chatty guys are ignored on here. Well thats been my experience so far lol

Keep the faith, those talking are not shagging "

Cheers man im trying so many lovelies youd think one was blind eh i mean interested lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like nice polite chatty guys are ignored on here. Well thats been my experience so far lol

Keep the faith, those talking are not shagging

Cheers man im trying so many lovelies youd think one was blind eh i mean interested lol"

Message me when I've no got my contacts in... You never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like nice polite chatty guys are ignored on here. Well thats been my experience so far lol

Keep the faith, those talking are not shagging

Cheers man im trying so many lovelies youd think one was blind eh i mean interested lol

Message me when I've no got my contacts in... You never know "

I can provide a brown paper bag service for ma ugly heed

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By *amesieboyMan
over a year ago

St Andrews

Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams "

Language Jamesie or that bum will get a skelp!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams "
so if they send you abuse u must of send them it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams so if they send you abuse u must of send them it"
How do u come to that conclusion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/09/13 15:50:14]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams so if they send you abuse u must of send them itHow do u come to that conclusion ? "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams so if they send you abuse u must of send them itHow do u come to that conclusion ? "
No need for the rolling eyes it was a simple question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams so if they send you abuse u must of send them itHow do u come to that conclusion ? No need for the rolling eyes it was a simple question"
no need 2 be abusive 2 other members its why the above was block because of it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think u need to look up the meaning of the word abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams so if they send you abuse u must of send them itHow do u come to that conclusion ? No need for the rolling eyes it was a simple questionno need 2 be abusive 2 other members its why the above was block because of it"

I think there is some confusion going on here, Kilted is assuming the man he quoted had given abuse out to get abuse back in mails ( which could obviously be totally wrong ) and the last sentance above that Kilted typed was trying to explain what he meant and not saying anyone has abused him in mail.

( I think anyway )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of it seems to be a generation thing, I've had a couple of younger girls make the effort to reply albeit with foul mouthed abuse then block you before you can reply. Foul mouthed little fuckin' madams so if they send you abuse u must of send them itHow do u come to that conclusion ? No need for the rolling eyes it was a simple questionno need 2 be abusive 2 other members its why the above was block because of it

I think there is some confusion going on here, Kilted is assuming the man he quoted had given abuse out to get abuse back in mails ( which could obviously be totally wrong ) and the last sentance above that Kilted typed was trying to explain what he meant and not saying anyone has abused him in mail.

( I think anyway ) "
exactly but for some jump the gun

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

You quoted what I said kilted then said the above post was abusive and blocked ...the post above you was me

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

The last person he quoted rugby was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i must be doing something wrong !!! in 5 years i've been here i've never once received an abusive mail (well 1 but that was more to do with a silly wee lassie trying to stir things between me an an ex so dizzny count lol ) but then i very very rarely send unsoliceted mail i usually only mail ppl i have spoken to in chat or on odd occasion if i notice someone has looked at my profile a few times i'll drop a mail an say hi ...as i always say you get what out what u put in

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"The last person he quoted rugby was me "

I think it is just a bit of confusion and the way some things are typed.

The man has confirmed he wasn't saying you had abused him so thats good enough

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"The last person he quoted rugby was me

I think it is just a bit of confusion and the way some things are typed.

The man has confirmed he wasn't saying you had abused him so thats good enough "
That's fine well maybe that should have been set clear in the first place when I first set the question to him instead of the stupid rolling eyes then no misunderstanding would have occurred .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Confusion over now so maybe time to drop it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Confusion over now so maybe time to drop it "
yes I was simply replying to your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fight fight fight fight fight fight lol just pulling ur leg

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

in all honesty there is a simple solution .................but why bother sharing it

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