FabSwingers.com forum: rudeness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We know not everybody will be compatible on fab and that there obviously has to be an attraction between all parties but how long honestly dose it take to say sorry not my type or something along those lines instead people just delete and ignore. to us thats the height of ignorance. Even got a couple today who have only been on a short time saying their fed up with the site try to give them abit of advice telling them it will get better all we get back is message deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes have experienced this a lot recently!

We sent about ten couples last week a friendly message introducing ourselves and message just got deleted

Would have been nice to have had a no thanks I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't take much to answer back.. but then again some ppl recieve more messages than others... A friendly no is all thats required.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I totally agree honesty is the best policy.....

What gets on my goat is when peeps string you along...flirt etc and have no intention off meeting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes have experienced this a lot recently!

We sent about ten couples last week a friendly message introducing ourselves and message just got deleted

Would have been nice to have had a no thanks I agree

This is what single guys have to put up with on a daily basis. When queationed the response is they have too many messages to reply to everyone to say no. Maybe its the same for these cpls. Its not nice, I agree. But thats just the way fab is...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its the ones that say they are giving up and the site is rubbish that drive you nuts we were only giving them some advice absolutely no need to be so rude.

I angel always reply even just to say no and dont get me wrong we did get a lot of mail until we stopped looking for single guys.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I used to get annoyed and really riled up.....now I just laugh and think nextttttt......

This site ain't worth getting stressed over....just smile and think forward...forget the twats, fakes, wannabe's etc etc the lists endless lol.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tell me about the fakes and time wasters are really getting out of hand. We really need a name and shame section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to get annoyed and really riled up.....now I just laugh and think nextttttt......

This site ain't worth getting stressed over....just smile and think forward...forget the twats, fakes, wannabe's etc etc the lists endless lol....."

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Tell me about the fakes and time wasters are really getting out of hand. We really need a name and shame section. "

Name and shame will never work.....too many childish people, fall outs, personal vendettas so would never be accurate

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well if anyone wants to send a thanks but no thanks to the 487 unread messages in my inbox....feel free.

Until then I'll stick to replying to those I'm interested in and deleting those I'm not...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah maybe.

Its hard when you have meets arranged and get sitters sorted for them to cancel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell me about the fakes and time wasters are really getting out of hand. We really need a name and shame section. "

They not worth any more of your time.... it's their loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah too true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if anyone wants to send a thanks but no thanks to the 487 unread messages in my inbox....feel free.

Until then I'll stick to replying to those I'm interested in and deleting those I'm not... "

That's cos you are a hot sexy bitch that you get so many lol

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Well we have been swinging for 9 years and only had a no show once......

Maybe we are really lucky.....but I would say I am a good judge of character and always manage to work out who is and isn't genuine.....6th sence.....

I think a lot of peeps are that keen to arrange meets they don't give things enough time to get a vibe if peeps are genuine or not.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have had great meet dont get me wrong.

But had three cancellations from people who where really keen to meet but we where not free.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If someone mails me and Im not interested....

I delete it!

Why should I reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1 word manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a profile, most are messageable,,,therefore they tend to message in the hope they may be of interest.

Delete, is a good sign you may not be,certainly.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

2 words....Move on

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"2 words....Move on

You never cease to make me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We know not everybody will be compatible on fab and that there obviously has to be an attraction between all parties but how long honestly dose it take to say sorry not my type or something along those lines instead people just delete and ignore. to us thats the height of ignorance. Even got a couple today who have only been on a short time saying their fed up with the site try to give them abit of advice telling them it will get better all we get back is message deleted. "
up to them

ant it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol well looks like we will have to go with 3 words then. "We have done" lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Lol well looks like we will have to go with 3 words then. "We have done" lol"

Well done....Complaining wont change a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 words....Move on

Hahaha!

If you say no thanks then you get the abuse, I'd rather just delete and block and not waste anyone's time. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sorry i agree it doesn't to say thanks but no thanks. That really annoys me when ppl can't even be arsed to reply to ur message after uve took time to write it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nyt nyt

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"No sorry i agree it doesn't to say thanks but no thanks. That really annoys me when ppl can't even be arsed to reply to ur message after uve took time to write it"

Dont apologise for agreeing.....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Nite Kilted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Complaining mmm maybe a bit. would say more annoyed that some people don't have manners. Fair enough we all understand single fems get probably hundreds of mail every week and they can't answer them all. But couples well maybe it's just us, maybe we should be like them and just delete if we don't like the look of you/them. Sorry we understand that people are looking for nsa sex but at the end of the day the same people do have feelings so no we will never be that ignorant

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Why let it piss you off etc.....they obviously were not the people for you.....

As for taking the time to message....it takes seconds to send a message lol .....

Anyway let it all go over yer head lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks we have done. Just a little rant lol x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"but at the end of the day the same people do have feelings so no we will never be that ignorant"

Im sure you wont be surprised to find there are people on here with no feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well guy's thanks for your responses some agree some don't. First time using the forum think I could get to like this

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"First time using the forum think I could get to like this

Just dont complain and you be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Well guy's thanks for your responses some agree some don't. First time using the forum think I could get to like this

Ranting is only permitted on a Thursday, Monday's are for general moaning. Did you bring cake? It's in the rules, you know.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Stuff your cake!!!

Lesbo monday....You better be ready for me biatch!!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im going to start blocking ever fecker that brings cake!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we have been swinging for 9 years and only had a no show once......

Maybe we are really lucky.....but I would say I am a good judge of character and always manage to work out who is and isn't genuine.....6th sence.....

I think a lot of peeps are that keen to arrange meets they don't give things enough time to get a vibe if peeps are genuine or not....."

Well said .

Buboo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would rather bring the vodka but I suppose cake and vodka can go together lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hassle"
maybe learn to spell correctly;

you might get a response.

not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail

why would they send you 1

they be here for ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hasslemaybe learn to spell correctly;

you might get a response.

not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail

why would they send you 1

they be here for ever"
i can spell properly but i was typing on the move. Sorry for offending your eyes. Yes females get a lot of mail yes but i also get a lot from the gay community and i take my time to reply saying sorry but im not gay. Its not very hard

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hasslemaybe learn to spell correctly;

you might get a response.

not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail

why would they send you 1

they be here for ever i can spell properly but i was typing on the move. Sorry for offending your eyes. Yes females get a lot of mail yes but i also get a lot from the gay community and i take my time to reply saying sorry but im not gay. Its not very hard"

Sorry but why should I reply to mail that just says " when you available" or " meet now" etc I'd rather spend my time replying to folk that id be interested in meeting...... But feel free to reply to my 86 unread messages then back again when you get the abuse or " why not" messages

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Ive had the same bother. It only tajes a qyick reply to say sorry not interested. I mail everyone back unless theyre giving ne hasslemaybe learn to spell correctly;

you might get a response.

not being cheeky but when a lot of females get mail

why would they send you 1

"
so "when you available" pmsl

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"so "when you available" pmsl"

Just pop round at 2 I've half hour inbetween the "wanna shag?" And the " I'm gonna destroy your ass" meets

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just wondering if you take the time to reply to every piece if junk mail you receive at home ? I very much doubt it .

So it's no diffrent on here most people with common sence would know a no reply simply means thanks but no thanks .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"so "when you available" pmsl

Just pop round at 2 I've half hour inbetween the "wanna shag?" And the " I'm gonna destroy your ass" meets

"
no probs strawberry condoms again ???

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"so "when you available" pmsl

Just pop round at 2 I've half hour inbetween the "wanna shag?" And the " I'm gonna destroy your ass" meets

no probs strawberry condoms again ???

Unless you've got the cherry ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl very quick and witty cutiie. That made me laugh. And i even put a spellin mistake for the grammar teacher. Haha

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"so "when you available" pmsl

Just pop round at 2 I've half hour inbetween the "wanna shag?" And the " I'm gonna destroy your ass" meets

no probs strawberry condoms again ???

Unless you've got the cherry ones

"
always git a cherry for you you know that

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Pmsl very quick and witty cutiie. That made me laugh. And i even put a spellin mistake for the grammar teacher. Haha

Oh I try

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"so "when you available" pmsl

Just pop round at 2 I've half hour inbetween the "wanna shag?" And the " I'm gonna destroy your ass" meets

no probs strawberry condoms again ???

Unless you've got the cherry ones

always git a cherry for you you know that

You lost your cherry a long time ago hotstuff

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"so "when you available" pmsl

Just pop round at 2 I've half hour inbetween the "wanna shag?" And the " I'm gonna destroy your ass" meets

no probs strawberry condoms again ???

Unless you've got the cherry ones

always git a cherry for you you know that

You lost your cherry a long time ago hotstuff

pmsl if only remember im angeluc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm is this not what happens to single guys when they mail and they aren't wanted/liked? Don't they just get deleted. And I'm sure I've read or heard it somewhere that to take the deletion of a mail as a polite 'no thanks'.

Same rule should be applied across the board... If someone deletes your mail without reply take it as a polite no thanks, dust yourself down and shout 'next'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a crackin idea !!

Just nobody message anyone ever?

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's not good for my ego when every message I send with a decent amount of detail and a recent face photo gets deleted without a reply.

It's not like I'm sending a one liner and a photo of my nether regions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to everyone....if we dont then its a case of, we read it and will leave it to reply later....then bloody forget. ..lol

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