FabSwingers.com forum: So far no luck on FAB

By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

We are new to this and finding it difficult to meet anyone after 4 weeks. Are there any other forums that anyone could recommend that would maybe be better for us. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 weeks is not a long time...most folks like to chat for a bit before meeting for fun..or even meet up for a social first...it takes time and patience.

If this was a single guy we would basically be saying this is not instashag!!

Get along to a social...participate in the forums..its a good way of getting chatting to everyone......but mind bring cake

good luck in whatever you find x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there, I know it's tough here, but have a bit more patience, maybe try getting yourselves to a social or to one of the club's, failing that why not put up a meet on the meet/events forum stating who,where and when you want to meet.

Hang in there and good luck.

c x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 weeks is not a long time...most folks like to chat for a bit before meeting for fun..or even meet up for a social first...it takes time and patience.

If this was a single guy we would basically be saying this is not instashag!!

Get along to a social...participate in the forums..its a good way of getting chatting to everyone......but mind bring cake

good luck in whatever you find x

Damnit I always forget to mention cake.

Repeats " must remember cake , must remember cake"

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By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

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Hi thank you so much for getting back to us. I know we need to be patient it's just we don't seem to be getting anywhere with anyone, lots of false hopes.

We are going to CJs in October to see what that's about and maybe something will happen.

Do have to ask as completely new to this, what is bring cake lol? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do have to ask as completely to this, what is bring cake lol? Xx"

lol all.newcomers to the forums have to bring cake....any kind will do ..this lot eat anything Hehe

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By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

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Ok lol, we bring cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok lol, we bring cake

Your going to fit right in.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

With all the feckin cake eating you lot do, you wont fit into anything soon

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"With all the feckin cake eating you lot do, you wont fit into anything soon

lol

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Seeing as you're only looking for women its gonna be tough. A sensible woman won't rush to meet a couple, she will need to consider her safety no matter how decent & normal you are.

Also, I'll put a wig & mascara on & pretend to be a woman for you if there is cake on the go. What can I say, I'm a slut for cake.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"With all the feckin cake eating you lot do, you wont fit into anything soon

But we do share the cake around foe - and then we burn it off with sexercise

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I would echo what's been said here already. Patience is the key. Don't rush in head first, socials are a good way to meet people, CJs will be a great experience for you both.

Join in the forum and people will get to know you a bit more, just let us know which one of you is posting lol

As for cakes, you can't beat a cream scone......

Have fun, and I hope you find what you are looking for

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Single females have the pick of the whole site....literally hundreds looking for the same as you.....the illusive single female....so I am afraid to say you might be in for a bit of a wait lol...maybe not what you want to hear but it's reality with so many hunting for the same thing.

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By *ander2018SMan
over a year ago

Angus

"Single females have the pick of the whole site....literally hundreds looking for the same as you.....the illusive single female....so I am afraid to say you might be in for a bit of a wait lol...maybe not what you want to hear but it's reality with so many hunting for the same thing."

Times like these I wish I was a girl, then fitbaw season starts and I regress.

It's also harder because its sooo easy to join and look like a genuine person. Wouldn't be first site I've used that had loads of single white (fe)males.

Sorry to put a downer, I've left cake and I'll leave now

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Times like these I wish I was a girl, then fitbaw season starts and I regress.

It's also harder because its sooo easy to join and look like a genuine person. Wouldn't be first site I've used that had loads of single white (fe)males.

Sorry to put a downer, I've left cake and I'll leave now

Of course there are lots pretending...that's the Internet for you....part n parcel of every site.....but you get used to spotting them

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By *ander2018SMan
over a year ago

Angus

"Times like these I wish I was a girl, then fitbaw season starts and I regress.

It's also harder because its sooo easy to join and look like a genuine person. Wouldn't be first site I've used that had loads of single white (fe)males.

Sorry to put a downer, I've left cake and I'll leave now

Of course there are lots pretending...that's the Internet for you....part n parcel of every site.....but you get used to spotting them"

True but even the internet has lost the little love it had, bring back 80's hair and music and 90's love and 2013 internet speeds, man that's be some place I'd wanna be lol

Nite peeps

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Times like these I wish I was a girl, then fitbaw season starts and I regress.

It's also harder because its sooo easy to join and look like a genuine person. Wouldn't be first site I've used that had loads of single white (fe)males.

Sorry to put a downer, I've left cake and I'll leave now

CAKE???? WHERE???

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

In ma belleh batches!! *wipes crumbs from mouth*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe....and this is simply our opinion....having watersports as the first of your likes is a bit full on...

I know you are probably being honest....but it would deter us from reaching out to you or replying to a message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like whats been said, socials. I'll nees to get along to one. Not been to cjs for ages either

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By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Hi guys, thank you so much for the advice everything helps. In relation to the water sports, we are not into that, it must have just been a mistake when we were setting up the profile, but thanks for pointing that out, could explain a lot. Next challenge is socials lol xxx

P.S we will bring cake I haven't forgot lol xxx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Hi guys, thank you so much for the advice everything helps. In relation to the water sports, we are not into that, it must have just been a mistake when we were setting up the profile, but thanks for pointing that out, could explain a lot. Next challenge is socials lol xxx

P.S we will bring cake I haven't forgot lol xxx"

Ahhhhh that's what I like to hear - newbies who've paid attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.S we will bring cake I haven't forgot lol xxx"
Its cool, u2 look great, yet up front enough to tell us, your kinda hesitant like most people,, thats understandable (kinda),lol, forum crunching will add to the confusion,,, my wee tip,,

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Hi thank you so much for getting back to us. I know we need to be patient it's just we don't seem to be getting anywhere with anyone, lots of false hopes.

Afraid you will have to join the queue of the numerous other couples only looking for bi fems

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By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Friendly foe, thanks for you comments, all comments are always looked at and I appreciate your opinion. We have only one thing to reply to that, maybe there is a queue but I believe personality and attitude plays a big part in where you are in the queue, I'm hoping we don't have long to wait xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you guys find what you are looking for

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Friendly foe, thanks for you comments, all comments are always looked at and I appreciate your opinion. We have only one thing to reply to that, maybe there is a queue but I believe personality and attitude plays a big part in where you are in the queue, I'm hoping we don't have long to wait xxx"

Positivity is never a bad thing

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You have only been here 4 weeks....

As well as attitude and personality, you need patience!

I hope you dont have to wait long for what you are looking for, just dont be disheartened when it doesnt happen as quick as you had hoped....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the fab folk of fab say..Get cake....lots of cake.. Preferably chocolate cake..

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By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Thanks guys, I need to improve my baking skills as well as the obvious lack of experience in the other thing. We are trying to just get to know people and we have spoken to some very nice people, present company included. We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

" We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx"

Its not....

Most of them just like drinking coffee and eating cake

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

" We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx

Its not....

Most of them just like drinking coffee and eating cake

It's a forum thing lol.....good things come to patient people......trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be where im going wrong, didnt know about the cake !!!!

i thought it was biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pfft...amateur..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's some chocolate fudge cake enjoy lol

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By *aintmikeMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"We are new to this and finding it difficult to meet anyone after 4 weeks. Are there any other forums that anyone could recommend that would maybe be better for us. Thanks x "

The best advice i can give is come along to cjs and meet people face to face and try the old fashioned way ,,by talking and flirting,,

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By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Thank you for all the great advice, hopefully one day we can meet you all at a social or club to say hi, and as you say, "don't forget the cake", luv S xxx

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By *ouplejs1 OP Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Forgot to say in the last message, CJ'S is booked for the 12th October. You will recognise us, we will be the quivering newcomers in the corner lol, S xxx

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

"Forgot to say in the last message, CJ'S is booked for the 12th October. You will recognise us, we will be the quivering newcomers in the corner lol, S xxx"

We thought we would be the same on our first visit to cjs last week ....don't worry they all make you feel very welcome and after ten minutes you will wonder why did you get yourself worked up

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Put more pics on your profile.

it May not help in your quest,but it'll make me a lot happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put more pics on your profile.

it May not help in your quest,but it'll make me a lot happier.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

" We will take all the advice on board and especially the cake thing, still can't get that out of my head that it's a secret code word about sex lol xxx

Its not....

Most of them just like drinking coffee and eating cake

Stop waffling shite ya muppet. Everyone knows Ratshit has you on Tramadol and Gin!!!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Stop waffling shite ya muppet. Everyone knows Ratshit has you on Tramadol and Gin!!!!!

And iv told you before.....

Only works with RUM!!! But do you listen?? NO...do you fuck!

Useless bloody nurse

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