FabSwingers.com forum: Single males and socials

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been wanting to go to a social for a few months now but i was wanting to know......

1.Are single males allowed to go to socials?

2.How are they looked upon if they are allowed to go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone is welcome to a social, they are open to everyone on fab!!!

as a newbie to a social its a bit nerve racking, but chat to folk, introduce ur self to people etc.... no one sits there goig ooohh no dont look its another single male !! have fun and enjoy....

ps u do know u have to put ur name down for a social??? as said its no invites only its put ur name down and first come first served but all couples singles etc welcome x x

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

like fifelass says all are welcome and maybe if you get friendly with a few people before hand you can come with them as a crowd.

but am sure you'll be made welcome by all you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no need for my input here, fife and mad covered it i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attending my first social on friday

And looks likley i will be going masel , to top it off i will be sober as i have to drive and be home fighting fit for the next day .

Treating it all in a kinda will get out of it what i put into it attitude

So will let ye know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"attending my first social on friday

And looks likley i will be going masel , to top it off i will be sober as i have to drive and be home fighting fit for the next day .

Treating it all in a kinda will get out of it what i put into it attitude

So will let ye know how it goes

It'll be fine Duo, ye hang around the bar with all the other guys, while the women dance their socks off. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been ages since had chance to get along to one of the socials, but got to say as a single guy going to social is one of best things i ever did, you get to meet lots of fab new people have a good laugh and maybe even find a few playmates. Its a great chance just to see and be seen, and you get to indulge in one of the most important aspects of swinging lol friendship and conversation wait thats 2 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"attending my first social on friday

And looks likley i will be going masel , to top it off i will be sober as i have to drive and be home fighting fit for the next day .

Treating it all in a kinda will get out of it what i put into it attitude

So will let ye know how it goes

It'll be fine Duo, ye hang around the bar with all the other guys, while the women dance their socks off. lol

Like Duo hubby and I will be going to our first social on Friday and I think I got it sussed!!

Talk to people - check I can do that I like talking the only problem will be letting anyone get a word in edgeways

Hanging around the bar - I can do that even if I cant see over the thing!!

Dancing - DANCING no one told me I would have to do that!!! You mean the shuffle around and sway type movement dont you?? If not Im stuffed. I cant dance I look like Im having some kind of fit if I have to dance!!

Shona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I can't dance I look like I'm having some kind of fit if I have to dance!!

Shona

x x x "

you are so gonna fit right in babe! that's my kinda dancing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh trust me Laine you DO NOT wanna see me or Steven dancing its really really really bad - ohh wait I just realised thats what the entertainment is isnt it??

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhhh trust me Laine you DO NOT wanna see me or Steven dancing its really really really bad - ohh wait I just realised thats what the entertainment is isnt it??

Shona

x x x "

Did I not mention?

Nahhh the entertainment will be seeing how many time I fall off my heels or trip over my dress hem when I take them off! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Falling off heels is what I do best you know and you cant steal my crown I wont let you hun

Mind you I will let you keep the tripping over your hem crown cos my dress is only knee length so all I got to worry about is falling over (and not with drink lol cos I wont be drinking at all) and losing my daughters bangles - isnt she a sweetie for letting "old mum" borrow her "cool" things??

Shona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Falling off heels is what I do best you know and you cant steal my crown I wont let you hun

Shona

x x x "

Shona any daughter of yours just has to be a sweetie xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh hun she wasnt very sweet the other day when she decided to tell me I was the oldest person she knew!!!! My father in law is 60

and she thinks Im older than him - methinks its time for more anti wrinkle cream and more hair dye

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thaks very much for alla the advice.I mite pluck up the courage to attend one soon.

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By *blahdeeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Thaks very much for alla the advice.I mite pluck up the courage to attend one soon."

Well I went down to the ayr social a couple of weeks ago as a newly single guy - gotta say, was very interesting and a giggle

Was made very welcome by everybody. Why not think about oor wee Highland fling up here on 10th April? See relevant thread for info ... Gary

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

funny how some folk still think there is a big bowl in the middle of the room at socials and its pick a key.

ITS A Social just like going to a normal pub with friends. and meeting new ones.

and if you are invited to the after bash ball well all the better - folk always need a barman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a bouncer

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as long as people go with the idea that socials are non playing events and a chance to get to actually talk and socialise then you'll be absolutely fine.....

like others have said it is not different to any friday/saturday night out in town..... go out... chat.. drink.. you'll be fine

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By *blahdeeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"as long as people go with the idea that socials are non playing events and a chance to get to actually talk and socialise then you'll be absolutely fine.....

like others have said it is not different to any friday/saturday night out in town..... go out... chat.. drink.. you'll be fine

Even finer if you drink ... chat ... drink ... drink some more! lol

You may even volunteer for some party games then! lol Honestly, they're really good fun

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

be very carefull alan them socials r scary places hang about the bar area till you get d*unk n then venture into the crowd it dont help drinkin but jeez when the wummin attack you feel braver lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be very carefull alan them socials r scary places hang about the bar area till you get d*unk n then venture into the crowd it dont help drinkin but jeez when the wummin attack you feel braver lol"

lol is this from experience???

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

noooooo tracy a wish hun this is from the viewpoint of the bar lol xxx

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