FabSwingers.com forum: House meets !!

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

After hearing of a few horror stories of people going str8 to peoples houses rather than doing a social meet first ie coffee or drink somewhere public ,how many of you out there take the risks and go to someones home without meeting socially first ?

I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol

so how many of you would take the risk ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After hearing of a few horror stories of people going str8 to peoples houses rather than doing a social meet first ie coffee or drink somewhere public ,how many of you out there take the risks and go to someones home without meeting socially first ?

I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol

so how many of you would take the risk ?"
cant speak as a single person but as a couple we have had no problems with meets at our home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being the Gentleman I'am I wouldn't go too a females house unless I had meet her for a social first just too see how we got on and to see if we where attracted to each other as picture's don't talk

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol

so how many of you would take the risk ?cant speak as a single person but as a couple we have had no problems with meets at our home."

Did the right thing and met socially once....catwalk dressed and absolutely georgeous she was....back to flat it was a pigstye...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I always do a social meet first and wouldn't take the risk of getting to someones home and maybe finding they aint what u or I aint what they expected making both parties feel awkward lol

so how many of you would take the risk ?cant speak as a single person but as a couple we have had no problems with meets at our home."
yeah if I was meeting as a couple it might not be so bad but as a single female id never do it .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Being the Gentleman I'am I wouldn't go too a females house unless I had meet her for a social first just too see how we got on and to see if we where attracted to each other as picture's don't talk

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just curious but why if your a gentleman couldnt you meet at their home being a gentleman is about your conduct not where you meet

I wouldnt meet at someones house as like to see if there is any chemistry there first

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We never do social meets first just the way we work and have gone to both couples and single blokes houses and have had no probs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being the Gentleman I'am I wouldn't go too a females house unless I had meet her for a social first just too see how we got on and to see if we where attracted to each other as picture's don't talk

just curious but why if your a gentleman couldnt you meet at their home being a gentleman is about your conduct not where you meet

I wouldnt meet at someones house as like to see if there is any chemistry there first

Good point will reframe that , being a decent guy

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well I accommodate and rarely have social meets first, never had any problems..... But it's always on the understanding that if there's no spark then there's no problem..... Saying that I takes me a while chatting before I meet so I'm usually pretty certain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt really bother us, if things aren't what you think they should be its easy to say thanx but no thanx. We have only had to do that once though as the biggest majority of people are fine

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

We have done both house meets and pub meets....depends on the people and the circumstances.....at the end of the day no matter where it is you can walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I don't either of us would would always have a social meet first anyways it's bloody far to ours.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

As a couple.....Not a problem...

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By *esignergeekMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've done it both ways - social meets first, or just heading straight to someone's house. Equally, I've had people come straight here a couple of times.

It's never caused any problems, but like others have said up there - I've always chatted enough beforehand to feel pretty comfortable about meeting, otherwise I wouldn't do it.

I think it only really went wrong once, and even then things were fine - it was just a case of chatting over a bottle of beer at their place and deciding not to go ahead with anything naughtier. Not as big a deal as you'd think it could be, and we ended up staying friends anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my time to meet talk and exchange messages I always have a social meet meet in a public place with the exception of one which I was 100% comfortable in meeting at his house after a fair amount of time communicating so thus turned out to be very successful . On saying that I would say there's no right or wrong way it's very much a personal call I'm sure like me your instincts will keep you right..

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.

I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.

So far, so good....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.

I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.

So far, so good....

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pmsl ya dafty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.

I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.

So far, so good....

Oh hun that's so funny whaaaaahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dnt do social meets just for the reason we dnt get much time to play due to kids and work so when get the time we wana use it wisely

lol .

So far so gm but i (fem) do message bk and forth alot to sed if we click and never been let down

Womens intuition usually right

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have done both.... meeting at home and meeting for a coffee / drink first...

The only real horror story for me was someone I met for a 3rd or 4th time.... just flipped and decided trying to strangle me was a good idea.... I'd met him socially twice... If someone's a loonball having a social meet won't always make that obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done a couple of meets where I went straight to the couple's house only to find that the "couple" was just a dreaming bloke. Even had the "She'll be back in a minute so let's just get started" line

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have also done both, I've had varied results in the past when I didn't do a special meet first, usually have a good sexy meet if I have a social first. Me & my favourite girl have had 2 really good social meets in the last wee while which we are hoping will lead to something very good :D

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Done a couple of meets where I went straight to the couple's house only to find that the "couple" was just a dreaming bloke. Even had the "She'll be back in a minute so let's just get started" line

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Its things like this I mean real horror stories we all know if we have good vibes about meeting someone then its more than likely to go swimmingly but u can never be 100% about that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Jacqui) did when I met my Master/ partner. We had talked for hours on the phone prior to this & I trusted him. I can honestly say it was the best meet/ encounter I have ever had. I am so glad I did do it as otherwise I would have missed out. But I do believe we would have got together anyway,,this way was just more mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.

I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.

So far, so good....

aye...im aware mister!!! 3 points....

The pepper spray stings like f**k and my eyeballs are currently resting on my chest....

I posted yer letters 2nd class...ye might have stamped them tight wad.....

...and the taser..although not as unpleasant as id feared has left huge burns on my shag pile.....

Same time next week???

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"I never go to a house meet without a fully charged taser, pepper spray, and an escape kit, in case she is a psycho, or a munter, or, worst case scenario, both.

I also update my last will and testament, & leave letters for my loved ones.

So far, so good....

aye...im aware mister!!! 3 points....

The pepper spray stings like f**k and my eyeballs are currently resting on my chest....

I posted yer letters 2nd class...ye might have stamped them tight wad.....

...and the taser..although not as unpleasant as id feared has left huge burns on my shag pile.....

Same time next week???

Yes, and remember the milk for my te this time.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Did it once, total disaster! Never again. S&Mx

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"We never do social meets first just the way we work and have gone to both couples and single blokes houses and have had no probs x"

Likewise couples and girls, if we get along as in hit it off banter wise then a drink is always on cards next time.

I'm here to fuck and have fun and can seperate the "act" for what it is.

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