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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just curious to see wether its me or its actually happening . browsing profiles lately and they seem to be getting shorter and shorter especially the woman . you know the one sentence or maybe two or the infamous will update later (even though they been on 3 months ) , no pics of any description , basically very little effort put into it . i and a lot of other guys put a lot of effort in to profiles and i know there are a lot more guys but why should the standards be lower for women ? why is it some can totally get away with writing something along the lines of " new here , just looking for fun " and thats it . dont seem very fair to me at all . dont get me wrong there are some cracking couples and fem profiles that when read are very entertaining and honest . i seen one recently which was a single fems basically full of abuse for single guys , the very people they looking for , and its a one liner no pics etc etc does my head in grrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No difference in my eyes. A non descript profile is just that from guys, women or cpls.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

But it is their OWN profile so why let it bother you?

If you don't like a profile you can always move onto another one that you do like

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"But it is their OWN profile so why let it bother you?

If you don't like a profile you can always move onto another one that you do like "

Well said that man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get mail saying my profile is quite negative, but hey it's the standard of mail I have received in the past that has made it that way.

Despite it's being read as negative I still get mail from people who don't meet my requirements set out in my profile.

Sometimes I think why have anything written there, it's hardly read by many?

Perhaps those perceived as lazy are actually just exasperated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an ur point is?? i get mail from

guys saying my profiles abit

tuff an im up my own arse that

mite be tru but its only cause

no tunt on here is getting up it

as laine says its cause the standard of

mail I have received in the past from

guys that has made me like this xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its because so many dont give any value to the written part a profile any more.

For some (loads!!!) its all about the pics (faces optional)and the numbers game. So many will fuck anything and be fucked by anything and indeed some see it as a badge of honour because they can have a long list of verifications or lay claim that they are soooo popular because they have had loads of meets.

The net offers soo many options and numbers..that some reckon it matters not what effort they put into the spoken (or written) word..but more about just getting out there and getting some.

With so many singles and soo many saying 'all the right things' in chat etc..some believe the hype and think the fact they are willing is all thats required..

I do think what someone writes on a profile does matter and should be noted before chatting and can give an indication if that person would 'click' with you..only my opinion..

It should be quality..not quantity...but well each to their own!

vol

xx

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Sw Scotland

Being a single guy and in the vast majority on this site, to have any kind of success you need to put an extra bit of effort into your profile and private messages.

The same could be said with the effort that is put into private messages. Sometimes a sentence in length, and exactly what i'd expect to get ignored for OR not replied to if i were to send the same message to a couple or single female.

Bare in mind, in order to stand out from the other few hundred messages couples and females receive every time they log in ...it's GOT TO stand out from the rest!

Unfortunately it's just one of those things, c'est la vie.

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

I think that this happens a lot of the time because of the increase in documentaries and newspaper headlines about swinging and a lot of people make a profile on here 'just to have a nose' so aren't actually interested in making a decent profile.

xAx

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By *egs4uWoman
over a year ago

somewhere around

Ive been told my profile is too long and quite hostile

but for me its honest and open and tells anyone looking at it what im looking for and what im not lol

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One line profiles and one line messages don't do much for us (especially the "wanna f*ck" message).

A little bit about yourselves, and what your looking for ticks the boxes with us. But as other posters have said, just move on to the next profile.

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

lol a personaly dont even know wat ma profile says lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol a personaly dont even know wat ma profile says lol

"

get the missus to read ye the big words then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hmm fair enough thanks for the input . must just be me lol didnt mean it to soun d like a why does nobody read my profile thing , was just genuinly wondering about it . as for negative profiles etc hmm i dont think any profile is negative if its honest , with the exception of the one i mentioned which seriously was a big massive fuck off to almost everyone who read it . but thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

less than 5 words in a profile as well in mail it gets ignored

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By *JSpinMan
over a year ago

Sydney CBD

can i ask is my profile ok ?

, i always read profiles befoe pm ing ppl its there to be read an it gives a window of what u r like!

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