FabSwingers.com forum: non verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whats with the people been on months and there profile is all about how they are so horny and love playing ......but have no verifications lol

just wondering does anyone meet them or are they thrill seeking,

just wondering ...no problem with that thought it might be good topic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we stay back from profile who have been on for months as they could just be pic collectors or single blokes pretending to be a couple or female. Why have been on here so long and never got a genuine verification, seems odd.

i dont really like profiles who are just verified by phone or webcam, could still be timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have stopped putting verifications on profile...know who I have met, and they know they've met me...really not into adding "notches"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhh the old verification chestnut !!!!!

as a single male it can be damned if you do dammed if you dont.

put veri's up...been accused of "bragging" and ""bed hopping""

didnt put veris up...had replys of..." not interested, cant read your veri's""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm single guys can struggle to get verifications and i dont show all of mine (long story) had a reg play buddy but things arent that way anymore ,since then iv met for a coffee and a social . so technically iv not had a "meet" since . i was fortuunate in that when i first joined the site i ws verified pretty quick but i know there are loads of guys out there who arent out to waste time etc but just struggle to get the chance to meet someone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a few verifictions, from gen peeps we have met or played with, but i tend not to verify anyone unless we do know them well enough, as some folk on here just want to be verified, to make it look like they are genuine, when they are really not wantin to meet real people for fun,

just want perv there pics, and waste folks time, which had a few off, and it is a pain in the arse, and does put you off a bit

but it comes as part off swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can see tha point maybe just put a couple up but it is the old singlwe guy syndrome again ...how to show genuine with out looking to sleezy

what is one to do no right or wrong way

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"can see tha point maybe just put a couple up but it is the old singlwe guy syndrome again ...how to show genuine with out looking to sleezy

what is one to do no right or wrong way

Nope there isn't a right or wrong way it's down to everyone having their own choices as to what they do or don't want to show on their own profiles.

I for one don't verify or get verified on every meet because it is between me and the people I am meeting and no one else's business

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"ahhh the old verification chestnut !!!!!

as a single male it can be damned if you do dammed if you dont.

put veri's up...been accused of "bragging" and ""bed hopping""

didnt put veris up...had replys of..." not interested, cant read your veri's""

It's not just single guys who get hassled over this subject as a single fem that does meet people both socially and for play if someone takes time to do a verification I think its just rude of me not to put it up.

I have had guys who have been enthusiastic to meet after reading mine but also some who say well you have met so many people you must be a slag.

I would have thought that after joining a site of this nature peoples attitudes towards casual sex would be relaxed enough not to pigeon hole others. Guess sometimes you underestimate some folks.

Also I often meet newbies to the site or swinging itself for coffee and chat to calm their fears and also give a verification as being genuine since a lot of people won't even consider meeting them without one. For those who don't I'd just like to add you are missing out on meeting some great people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey we are all slags, my mrs is a slag and i only want to meet slags cause im dirty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ahhh the old verification chestnut !!!!!

as a single male it can be damned if you do dammed if you dont.

put veri's up...been accused of "bragging" and ""bed hopping""

didnt put veris up...had replys of..." not interested, cant read your veri's""

The same applies to single females. Nowadays I tend to show mainly social verifications and hide the more 'sexy' graphic ones, they can be shown if asked for.

Unless my meet is with a relative newbie and they have few verifications I really don't give them now, or it's to leave a social verification.

In the past I found people would ask for a meet based on who had given you verifications, or what was described in them, it was like being a member of who's who of fab for some as they shagged their way through who they thought the more popular.

I want to meet because of who I am not who I have had meets with, and to discover what is mutually enjoyable for us both not go through the lists of things I have done with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have stopped putting verifications on profile...know who I have met, and they know they've met me...really not into adding "notches""

agree with this approach in everyway. Once we get back into the meetings we wont have a list of verifications either. Also, a girl we know here only shows social meets on her profile and the naughty ones private which is a good way to do it. we are not fans of the endless list of in-detail verifications

the alarm bells only ring with us when we see profiles that arent photo verified and been here for ages, especially the ones with pictures in the public gallery... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a toughie innit!! i dont show mine if someone asks to see them i will show them just to prove im real and not a bloke in disguise!

i find ones with loads of verifications off puttin to be honest but thats the other persons choice!!

i have verified a few newbies but then discovered it was mainly so they could move on to the next target so now only verify after iv met a few times !

your damned if you do damned if you dont at times! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't put our verifications on our profile.

Our choice and we're very genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications, why have them? Simply to prove genuine.

Photo Verified ? Reassuring to some i guess, just hate the "mugshot" style you have to do them in, pic with "name & number",lol.

Cool, if folks think pruning and editing verifications works for them great.

Im not understanding the "moving onto next meet" thing, thats swinging, thats what occurs,you meet one fun person or set of people and along this fun journey you might meet more people, its what we do? Why we are here, is'nt it?

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but some people feel if they get the first verification it opens the floodgate to become the serial humper until they realise it doesnt happen that way then suddenly you become more interesting again!

i think it can be seen more from a female point of view!

i do grasp the concept of swingin thanks!! my point is not about that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes but some people feel if they get the first verification it opens the floodgate to become the serial humper until they realise it doesnt happen that way then suddenly you become more interesting again!

i think it can be seen more from a female point of view!

i do grasp the concept of swingin thanks!! my point is not about that! "

Exactly my point too, meet me for who I am, not who or what is in my verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheers i thought i maybe wasnt makin sense there!! xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We don't care about verifications or if anyone has them.

We decide for ourselves who to meet.

Our gut instinct has worked well for us up to now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it can be seen more from a female point of view!

i do grasp the concept of swingin thanks!! my point is not about that!

Exactly my point too, meet me for who I am, not who or what is in my verifications.

Ok, maybe the site itself can clarify the reasoning for verifications being available to each and every member of the site, im sure theres an honest and healthy reason its an option to use for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe am seein things too simply here but i think verifications there as a choice and to confirm?? what they meant to confirm im no really sure but i think it possibly cuts down on the number or professionals ie webcam girls etc plyin their trade?? could be wrong !! either way anyone can write someone is superlover when in fact they in n out quicker than SAS!! but on the plus side they show they are correct gender etc x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It isn't a compulsory option though.

Some people use them, some don't.

Some people place a huge importance on them, some don't.

It is called having a choice

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