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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry to moan , it aint like me

But ........ I have had to undertake another mass cull of friends , they add you and wink then never reply to any messages !!

Honestly whats the point ?

And this is couples and single fems who by the way are the worst for it , single fellas get a hard time on here yet in our experience they are the most reliable for gettin back to you , even for a no thanks or cant make it .

So from here on in im gonna be a right picky bastard about our friends list , i have turned into the one thing i dislike and that is fussy and judgemental .

Anyone else find this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should always be picky about your friends list!!!!

if you arent proper friends with the people (or ppl you chat with frequently) why would accept their friends invite in the first place.

many ppl on here want a huge list of friend to either make them appear popular or to have a wide and varied pic collection.

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

rather stupidly i tended to accept invites fairly easily , due to being non judgemental and assuming the best in folks i treated an invite as someone shown an interest in a possible meet.

Lesson learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with tands on this one, you accept peoples invite then you dont hear from them why would you want to keep them on friends list, we clear out pretty regular and only keep the people we have met at socials or privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id regard myself as choosey and Non-judgemental. Folk add friends for different reasons (ie to view private pics), personally I add a friend because that person has become a friend.Great personality with a "twist" of humour goes along way with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"rather stupidly i tended to accept invites fairly easily , due to being non judgemental and assuming the best in folks i treated an invite as someone shown an interest in a possible meet.

Lesson learned "

Dirtyduo, I've sent you a friends invite, lol....

It seems that some single lasses just wanna look at your pics, then they avoid contacting you, so I just wield the headmans axe, and cut them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats why we are" billy no mates"we only have peeps that we have met on our friends list,,as thats just what they are,,,friends. xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with that Auds, you can afford to be selective judging by your pics.... the one with you baking that cake naked...wooohooooo, it's amazing where you can put cherries, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats why we are" billy no mates"we only have peeps that we have met on our friends list,,as thats just what they are,,,friends. xx

auds xx "

snap auds We only ever add folks we have actually met at socials etc.

mrs h xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Malc here - I sometime have enough interest from the first invite to accept, I peek at the pics and if I think mm then I message, if not then I delete, if no private pics defo delete lol. Shallow I know but hay ho.

I sometimes mail folk who send the request, if they dont reply to that mail then they are clearly only wanting to see my cock pics lol

Although when you first join I can remember thinking it was a contest to get as many friends as possible, after we got 5 I thought we'd made it pmsl

there no hard and fast rule but if its pissing u off then maybe a change of policy called for.

PS - r we friend durty lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

pmsl malc

Widnae say its shallow as many keep their pics on private and its the only way to get a noisey and see if there is an attraction

So that coupled wi the fact we have yapped in the chat room i will add ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol malc,,think wev all done the accept then delete bit lol

hate when folk ask for an invite then you look and they aint got no face pics???

we have so not fair really???

sorry wee rant back to the main post,,,what was it again??? lol

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our profile (for those of u who bother to read it lol) clearly states if u send us an invite we will look at your pics then delete before u see ours ..... cant say they werent warned!!!

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

hey hun we r very picky about our friends list and if ppl want 2 stay on ours they need 2 chat our they r gone cant stand ppl that want 2 b friends then naver say a word r they just pic colletors ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

friends lists are the profile users choice , we to do a periodic clean out and remove those who obviously just asked to join it to see pics...lol

as is mentioned before if we no longer chat they are removed too, allthough have notice we been removed from friends lists we still at least try to chat to.....hey ho ,life goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i clear mine every few months takin out the trash so to speak! if i aint spoke to them in ages then they not a friend really!! have even removed previous meets as friends if i havent had any contact with them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool, every friend on my friends list is familiar to me as soon as i click on them, folks nice enough to meet me, chat,message etc stay on my friends list,i dont give myself the headache of deleting ones who are pic collecting types because they simply dont get invited or accepted in the first place.

I generally never close doors on folks nice enough to mutually choose to be friends listed,if they have not ben in touch for x ,y , z time,fair enough.

T xx

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