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Devine right of a whisperer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What gives a whisperer the devine right to speak to you as if you were a piece of sh*t and get away with it? It's all right the moderators saying just block him but all that does is encourage the whisperers to move on to someone else. Are these whispers regulated or monitored in any way? They should be and persistant nuisances should be permanently barred from the site. Why should decent fab members get booted from the chat for reacting the way they do when the whisperer walks away scot free? We know it's a swingers site but there is a limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi yeah that doesnt seem fair on genuine decent people , is there no way to contact the admins about this problem ? do they actually moniter the chat ? and if so how far can someone go before they get told that enough is enough , iv not had any real problems yet but would like to think that if something came up something would be done about it , so that everyone on the site can get on with things in the proper manner .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

if ur getting hassle in wispas then speak to a modirator who can get the wispas monitored my admin and they can then sort out the problems ur having xx

luv jacs

xxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"What gives a whisperer the devine right to speak to you as if you were a piece of sh*t and get away with it? It's all right the moderators saying just block him but all that does is encourage the whisperers to move on to someone else. Are these whispers regulated or monitored in any way? They should be and persistant nuisances should be permanently barred from the site. Why should decent fab members get booted from the chat for reacting the way they do when the whisperer walks away scot free? We know it's a swingers site but there is a limit. "

If everyone who they whispered to blocked them, there would be no one to talk to and they may get the message.

As mods can't see what the whispers say, they can't act on that, they can only act on what you or the other people on the recieving end of a whisper says.

If you react in an abusive way, enough to get booted out of chat, you are doing exactly the same as they are.

Don't let the obnoxious whisperers win, ignore, block and have fun in chat instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone is hassling you with whisperin,,then name and shame in the room...let everyone know what he/she said???.bet they soon stop and think youd get alot of back up from others in the room.

auds x

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By *dinburgh_duoCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"What gives a whisperer the devine right to speak to you as if you were a piece of sh*t and get away with it? It's all right the moderators saying just block him but all that does is encourage the whisperers to move on to someone else. Are these whispers regulated or monitored in any way? They should be and persistant nuisances should be permanently barred from the site. Why should decent fab members get booted from the chat for reacting the way they do when the whisperer walks away scot free? We know it's a swingers site but there is a limit.

If everyone who they whispered to blocked them, there would be no one to talk to and they may get the message.

As mods can't see what the whispers say, they can't act on that, they can only act on what you or the other people on the recieving end of a whisper says.

If you react in an abusive way, enough to get booted out of chat, you are doing exactly the same as they are.

Don't let the obnoxious whisperers win, ignore, block and have fun in chat instead.

"

Well said, there seems to be a misconception by some that mods can see whispers, best way of dealing with this in our opinion is to simply block them. If someone is disrespectful enough and rude enough to keep sending whispers after you've asked them not too, what do they expect?

x

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

unfortunately janda1 if we do that then its us who gets in trouble.

if they become persistent block and report them using bit beside their profile and admin will check the whisper logs and decide on a course of action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BLOCK THEM BLOCK THEM BLOCK THEM..

it is sadly true that they will move onto the next person... but if we all block them, they will hopefully improve ( doubt it tho, some are just whispering obsessed wankers.. literally)or get fed up, delete their profile..

but I will reitterate..

polite to ask to whisper..

if yu want directed, move to directing room.. ( YU HELP CREATE THIS ISSUE )

if they whisper and yu warn them in the room politely to ' please xxxx I am not interested, stop whispering or I will block ' I dont believe that is naming and shaming..

and if they continue..... block ....

and folks..... always remember ...... ' what goes around , comes around' so WE should all be nice to people and each other. We are all fellow swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately janda1 if we do that then its us who gets in trouble.

if they become persistent block and report them using bit beside their profile and admin will check the whisper logs and decide on a course of action"

all u need 2 say in chat is..blab blab can u plz stop wispering me an being rude..it lets a mod in the room know 2 keep an eye on them...ppl are gd at blocking any other time so i dont suppose another block would matter!!

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By *ocky669Man
over a year ago

Northumberland

reading this and a earlier thread from scottish heather about a tw*t that didnt turn up gives more reason for a name and shame board to be posted to get all these cracker jacks of this site cheers Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

name and shame dosn't work

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland


"reading this and a earlier thread from scottish heather about a tw*t that didnt turn up gives more reason for a name and shame board to be posted to get all these cracker jacks of this site cheers Paul"

Dont agree with name and shame either as its open to abuse and if you are on the wrong side of someones jealousy or frustration due to the fact that you didnt want to meet them and maybe a dozen other reasons then your name could be mud undeservedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name and shame dosn't work"
nope it wont work either

it be a lot of misleading people just ignore them thats all you can do they soon get fed up n move on or leave

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By *ocky669Man
over a year ago

Northumberland

ok i stand corrected just my thoughts

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