FabSwingers.com forum: Read then ignore????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry I had to post this as it is seriously beginning to annoy me lol, why do people engage in a conversation with you, asking the usual questions e.g where in Falkirk you from, what you looking for, what age were you when you met jimmy saville, that sort of thing, then when you answer them they don't reply, having read your message but just can't be arsed??? Anybody else have feelings on this? And has anybody actually met jimmy saville??? Lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Your answer didnt interest them....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I doubt that is the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes my hubby checks mail but doesn't reply so replies wait till I go on. Maybe if its a couple can be similar reason.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I just can't be arsed

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I doubt that is the reason

Really?

So you know why then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be something to your answer they don't like, What other reason could there be ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lot of comedians in here i see!!! I am talking about when you are having a conversation with someone, and they are asking where you live for example then when you answer, nothing, then you ask them if they got it and they start talking again? I just find it rude that's all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of comedians in here i see!!! I am talking about when you are having a conversation with someone, and they are asking where you live for example then when you answer, nothing, then you ask them if they got it and they start talking again? I just find it rude that's all lol"
They are not being rude I have friends that don't answer as they mite have had 30 or 40 messages between the time of our message so some times mine get lost. It happens Remember women can get a 100message in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try to reply to fist messages and wouldnt just ignore anyone unless they get rude or crude but If having messages ignored annoys you then you likely need to get a thicker skin if you're going to stay on Fab.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

How long do you give them to answer?

And why ask if they got it when you can simply check that yourself?

And as I said earlier, they may not have liked your answer!!

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

Maybe they don't want Saville's sloppy seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if your on the edge of yer seat eagerly waiting a reply to something as trivial as...." hi where are you from "? Maybe busy yourself with a few other messages or put the kettle on....plus people sense a type of over enthusiasm...and quickly will clinically stop bothering to reply for that reason alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are thousands of men and only hundreds of women. when i get a read without an immediate delete i take it as a nearly - trouble is the competition is probably pretty fierce on here - even if people do complain about the timewasters.

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

To the OP -if you are still on chat terms with the people, have you asked them why no response.

Also if you simple said where you live, did your message invite a response by asking a question.

If you simply made a statement, then you cant blame anyone if they read it as that - a statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just can't be arsed

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what brings that on cutie? Hi hows u ? Hi hows you? Hi so hows you? Howz u? lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I just can't be arsed

what brings that on cutie? Hi hows u ? Hi hows you? Hi so hows you? Howz u? lol"

You forgot "hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be wrong but the mere mention of saville mabes why

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

"Sometimes my hubby checks mail but doesn't reply so replies wait till I go on. Maybe if its a couple can be similar reason."

Yep. Same here.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Sometimes my hubby checks mail but doesn't reply so replies wait till I go on. Maybe if its a couple can be similar reason.

Yep. Same here. "

And here. And to be honest, everyone has a life outside of fab which usually takes precedence. Am afraid I'm occasionally guilty of "delayed reply" but do answer all messages at some point. Sx

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

I'm a serial deleter so sometimes forget I've not responsed. I do get a helluva lot of messages though an since I can't afford a pa, I tend to just delete these days. Only change is if someone clearly put some thought into their message I will always reply thanks but no. Some can be quite rude when you say no though. Thankfully most people are fine

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