FabSwingers.com forum: Squirting

By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I know lots of guys love it when a woman squirts, but personally, I hate when I do it, which thankfully, isn't that often. My question to my Fab friends is this, would you find it strange if a woman didn't want to meet you again because you made her squirt LOTS and she really freaked out about it? I seriously don't like it and won't put myself in a position where I know it is likely to happen again, so does that make me strange?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yes ur a weirdo lol

Kidding no one should be forcing you to meet if it's something you don't want.

Some guys are obsessed about making women squirt and feel it's a bit of an achievement if they do making it all about them rather than the womans pleasure .

Just tell him str8 NO

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Yes ur a weirdo lol

Kidding no one should be forcing you to meet if it's something you don't want.

Some guys are obsessed about making women squirt and feel it's a bit of an achievement if they do making it all about them rather than the womans pleasure .

Just tell him str8 NO"

Lol Thanks Jacs! Just one guy said he'd never heard anything like it, me refusing to meet again because of it. Looks like freedom of choice has gone out the window with freedom of speech in here!

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

I wouldn't worry about him making you squirt again, he probably doesn't know how he did it first time!

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I wouldn't worry about him making you squirt again, he probably doesn't know how he did it first time!

PMSL!!!

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cream here. I have never squirted, and attempts to try to "succeed" by overzealous swinging males lead to me being turned off.

Go with the flow, and tell him to stop if there is anything you don't wish. Don't let it put you off a future meet. It is your body - your rules

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Cream here. I have never squirted, and attempts to try to "succeed" by overzealous swinging males lead to me being turned off.

Go with the flow, and tell him to stop if there is anything you don't wish. Don't let it put you off a future meet. It is your body - your rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waters important!! Niagra falls with nowt falling? A trip to the hermitage with nowt for the salmon to jump n swim up?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

It amazes me how some guys think its their mission to make you squirt.... It doesn't happen with me often and it wouldn't bother me if it didn't happen again... I do think sometimes it's more about the guy wanting to make you rather than you enjoying it

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Waters important!! Niagra falls with nowt falling? A trip to the hermitage with nowt for the salmon to jump n swim up?

There's a time and a place for water falls, my body isn't it.

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"It amazes me how some guys think its their mission to make you squirt.... It doesn't happen with me often and it wouldn't bother me if it didn't happen again... I do think sometimes it's more about the guy wanting to make you rather than you enjoying it

I really don't enjoy it and it doesn't tend to put me off. Only once in a blue moon will it not bother me and that's because it's with my favourite man and it's all part of the whole fun with him.

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Waters important!! Niagra falls with nowt falling? A trip to the hermitage with nowt for the salmon to jump n swim up?

My point exactly about the "mission" of men.

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Bugger - * does tend to put me off!

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Waters important!! Niagra falls with nowt falling? A trip to the hermitage with nowt for the salmon to jump n swim up?

My point exactly about the "mission" of men. "

And some men are just like salmon, leaping against currents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Waters important!! Niagra falls with nowt falling? A trip to the hermitage with nowt for the salmon to jump n swim up?

My point exactly about the "mission" of men.

And some men are just like salmon, leaping against currents."
We're more like salmon in a fish farm, craving a river to swim in,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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So,,,being specific, is the bloke equivalent, you have him in hand so 2 speak, he's at the tickly bit, gasping and oh oh oh ing, yi seriously think he's gonna say, "annnnnnnd STOP"? lol

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

So,,,being specific, is the bloke equivalent, you have him in hand so 2 speak, he's at the tickly bit, gasping and oh oh oh ing, yi seriously think he's gonna say, "annnnnnnd STOP"? lol"

Ffs you're like a dog with a bone. Go find somewhere to bury it and preferably not here. I don't like squirting and men should respect that fact, not belittle me because of it.

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

There is a huge difference between coming and squirting. In the right hands, I have multiple cums; but I don't squirt. I can get wet with words and touch and therefore there is not the same equivalent when you talk about a bloke cuming in the same way as a female squirting - they are entirely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know lots of guys love it when a woman squirts, but personally, I hate when I do it, which thankfully, isn't that often. My question to my Fab friends is this, would you find it strange if a woman didn't want to meet you again because you made her squirt LOTS and she really freaked out about it? I seriously don't like it and won't put myself in a position where I know it is likely to happen again, so does that make me strange? "

No. Its obviously up to you how you wish to enjoy your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So,,,being specific, is the bloke equivalent, you have him in hand so 2 speak, he's at the tickly bit, gasping and oh oh oh ing, yi seriously think he's gonna say, "annnnnnnd STOP"? lol

Ffs you're like a dog with a bone. Go find somewhere to bury it and preferably not here. I don't like squirting and men should respect that fact, not belittle me because of it."
Sorry, never meant to seem belittling, so i will be serious for a mo, did you actually tell them this detail before meeting? Because,amongst our blokey failings are, we aint mind readers,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a huge difference between coming and squirting. In the right hands, I have multiple cums; but I don't squirt. I can get wet with words and touch and therefore there is not the same equivalent when you talk about a bloke cuming in the same way as a female squirting - they are entirely different"
Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when I make mrs squirt or even gush it makes it feel that iv done a good job lol

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

So,,,being specific, is the bloke equivalent, you have him in hand so 2 speak, he's at the tickly bit, gasping and oh oh oh ing, yi seriously think he's gonna say, "annnnnnnd STOP"? lol

Ffs you're like a dog with a bone. Go find somewhere to bury it and preferably not here. I don't like squirting and men should respect that fact, not belittle me because of it.Sorry, never meant to seem belittling, so i will be serious for a mo, did you actually tell them this detail before meeting? Because,amongst our blokey failings are, we aint mind readers,,lol

At the time I couldn't tell him, because I didn't know.. So whilst I agree you ain't mind readers, neither am I a fucking clairvoyant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So,,,being specific, is the bloke equivalent, you have him in hand so 2 speak, he's at the tickly bit, gasping and oh oh oh ing, yi seriously think he's gonna say, "annnnnnnd STOP"? lol

At the time I couldn't tell him, because I didn't know.. So whilst I agree you ain't mind readers, neither am I a fucking clairvoyant."
Brilliant,, even had a woman explaing how its not the same as a guy cumming, thats interesting for the simple fact if yer not a man how do you know/compare?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with a wee bit moisture between friends. But doesn't have to be dowpour al the time. Although the hosepipe ban is a bugger

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"At the time I couldn't tell him, because I didn't know.. So whilst I agree you ain't mind readers, neither am I a fucking clairvoyant.Brilliant,, even had a woman explaing how its not the same as a guy cumming, thats interesting for the simple fact if yer not a man how do you know/compare?

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a shit about a guy cumming as far as this post is concerned. My post is about guys who don't seem to respect a woman's right to say she is uncomfortable with a certain aspect of sex. It would be helpful if the point of a post could be maintained and not hijacked with something else."
Ok, its Your post? And you become judge and jury on the relivance of people commenting on Your post, and if you decide it lacks relivance,,, call it hi jacked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a man job to please a woman, It all about what she want's in bed A man can please him self just by reading playboy So in my book, it the woman who needs the touching, kissing, and holding the way she likes

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I couldn't give a shit about a guy cumming as far as this post is concerned. My post is about guys who don't seem to respect a woman's right to say she is uncomfortable with a certain aspect of sex. It would be helpful if the point of a post could be maintained and not hijacked with something else.Ok, its Your post? And you become judge and jury on the relivance of people commenting on Your post, and if you decide it lacks relivance,,, call it hi jacked?"

Quite right. It's my post and its about women squirting not men cumming. So if you wish to consider my remarks as acting as judge and jury, just call me m'lady.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Lady Dess suits you

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By *uddleanstrokeMan
over a year ago

Bristol / Crete / Glasgow

I suppose its more a question of going with the flow (so to speak). I remember wayback that when my then fb started i was so over the moon (nay addicted!) ... but sometimes it happens... sometimes it doesn't... since then many of my fb's have squirted (and enjoyed it, if sometimes embarrassed at the soaking bed or sofa)- but not all the time. I think some work too hard on magic assumptions re G-spot - forgetting that its also in the mind - and just enjoying each other. So whilst i love helping my fb's to squirt - it isn't in itself essential ... so don't know if that helps Goddess... its whatever yr relaxed with

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I suppose its more a question of going with the flow (so to speak). I remember wayback that when my then fb started i was so over the moon (nay addicted!) ... but sometimes it happens... sometimes it doesn't... since then many of my fb's have squirted (and enjoyed it, if sometimes embarrassed at the soaking bed or sofa)- but not all the time. I think some work too hard on magic assumptions re G-spot - forgetting that its also in the mind - and just enjoying each other. So whilst i love helping my fb's to squirt - it isn't in itself essential ... so don't know if that helps Goddess... its whatever yr relaxed with

Thank you for your positive and constructive comments. What a lot of men forget too is that just because a woman squirts, doesn't mean she has orgasmed. I'm not relaxed with squirting and it can and has totally destroyed the moment for me in the past. It takes a very special man to get me to forget that it's happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My penarth worth,

I don't get it with guys that set themselves standards such as:

Must spend x minutes/hours on foreplay.

Must work the G spot A spot, U spot

Must sook the clit till its red raw.

Must make her cum x times

Must make her squirt x times.

Surely its about what the lady wants.

I guess its like working the cock - one sook lick or wank to many and the one oclock gun fires. So it is with women - one to many and the floodgates open.

Sure guys will sense there lover about to explode and move attention elsewhere..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good communication is the key to good sex. Don't be scared to say no or yes to what u dislike/like.

I love making a woman squirt I think im quite good at it, had ppl telling me they cant do it then I've made them do it n it makes me feel like a sex god haha.

If a woman says she doesn't like something though I respect it, there's things I don't like so I expect the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a heavy squirter and knowing what exactly makes me squirt , I choose if I am going to let it happen or not .

I squirt when deep throating cock so tend not to deep throat when attending parties etc as it is extremely heavy and often ends up as the nights party piece .

Explain your concerns , and discuss not allowing (whatever it is that makes you squirt ) it to happen as you dislike.

If he isnt prepared to come and go then hes obviously not worth it .

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By *uddleanstrokeMan
over a year ago

Bristol / Crete / Glasgow

"What a lot of men forget too is that just because a woman squirts, doesn't mean she has orgasmed. I'm not relaxed with squirting and it can and has totally destroyed the moment for me in the past. It takes a very special man to get me to forget that it's happened."

yes ... but I also find that after orgasm everything can be far TOO sensitive (for a while). ... i used to think that the "not being relaxed about squirting" was linked to the thought of all the washing of bed linen lol ... (he says having spent the day on laundry duties!)

as Tiffany says its about moving attention around until its all totally unbearable

.. but then i love to feel her "about to explode" .. and move to tease her elsewhere lol ...

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Just something I can't do......as yet, lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had guys that we were interested in joining us for a meet but then they've made a big thing about making a woman squirt which is always a big turn off as the guys seem to think is some sort of party trick.

Lou will stop herself from squirting at a meet unless she feels really really comfy around the company we're in,but we tend to keep that pleasure for between ourselves.

-S-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started reading this thread and got bored...if you squirt you squirt...if you dont you dont...simple

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By *lasguy1972Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Surely its respect and choice if anyone says gonna no dae that then you don't. It's hardly rocket science. It'd manners and respect for each other

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By *lasguy1972Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Surely its respect and choice if anyone says gonna no dae that then you don't. It's hardly rocket science. It'd manners and respect for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seen the attractions to be honest and wots with some ppl who have to take a shower curtain with them, wtf

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I started reading this thread and got bored...if you squirt you squirt...if you dont you dont...simple"

Yes, but the point is, if the lady doesn't like it and doesn't want it, don't keep trying like you're on a mission

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I started reading this thread and got bored...if you squirt you squirt...if you dont you dont...simple

Yes, but the point is, if the lady doesn't like it and doesn't want it, don't keep trying like you're on a mission

Exactly

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I started reading this thread and got bored...if you squirt you squirt...if you dont you dont...simple

Yes, but the point is, if the lady doesn't like it and doesn't want it, don't keep trying like you're on a mission

And if the lady left because of it and doesn't want to risk a repeat, then the guy should accept that and not throw his toys out of the pram because I've refused to meet again.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I started reading this thread and got bored...if you squirt you squirt...if you dont you dont...simple

Yes, but the point is, if the lady doesn't like it and doesn't want it, don't keep trying like you're on a mission

And if the lady left because of it and doesn't want to risk a repeat, then the guy should accept that and not throw his toys out of the pram because I've refused to meet again. "

It is ALWAYS up to the individual to choose who they want to meet. We all have various reasons why we would or wouldn't meet but I think this is a perfectly valid reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have squirted, probably never will xx it would put me off being with a women who did too :-/ xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never have squirted, probably never will xx it would put me off being with a women who did too :-/ xx"
Why would I put you off ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I squirt and its a nightmare sometimes - some guys treat it like winning a prize at the fair

And I'd sure as hell not like a lady to squirt on my face

But at the end of the day who you meet is your choice and if someone isn't taking no for an answer then I would just block them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never have squirted, probably never will xx it would put me off being with a women who did too :-/ xxWhy would I put you off ? Xx"

Because the first women I'd ever been with in swinging squirted on my face and it defo was pee, i was boaking........so that has really put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never have squirted, probably never will xx it would put me off being with a women who did too :-/ xxWhy would I put you off ? Xx

Because the first women I'd ever been with in swinging squirted on my face and it defo was pee, i was boaking........so that has really put me off

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if it tasted like pee then it was pee and not squirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anything that makes a woman feel less than in control is something she should avoid. So, no, I for one don't think you are weird x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's likely more a popular misconception,that a female squirting is akin to orgasm.

therefore the male feels he is pleasuring the female.

rather than the male purposely setting out to satisfy,and boost his own ego.

All sexual acts,should be between consenting adults,consenting,anything out with this is totally unacceptable.

I should probably just have said,most males misguidedly, think all females like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never have squirted, probably never will xx it would put me off being with a women who did too :-/ xxWhy would I put you off ? Xx

Because the first women I'd ever been with in swinging squirted on my face and it defo was pee, i was boaking........so that has really put me off

if it tasted like pee then it was pee and not squirt

I didn't taste it, the smell was enough........heave, i immediately left and ran to the loo haha xx

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Because the first women I'd ever been with in swinging squirted on my face and it defo was pee, i was boaking........so that has really put me off

Send her round to pimp palace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop taking the piss man

he was being serious

pmsl

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

I'm learning lots from this thread.

A relatively common discussion (when compared to this one) initiated by women is "how do I squirt?" So you can perhaps understand why men think it is what women want and a sign of their enjoyment.

An earlier post said that he probably didn't know how he did it anyway. It would certainly be the case with me

However...

It is absolutely your choice to meet anyone and that should be respected whatever the reason, in fact you don't have to give a reason.

From the guys point of view he sees it as being sacked for being too good at his job. Now, we have established that this is not the case, but that his is perception.

In my opinion a guys job is to give the lady the best experience you can and that is by understanding and respecting likes and boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the first women I'd ever been with in swinging squirted on my face and it defo was pee, i was boaking........so that has really put me off

Send her round to pimp palace

Don't think you'd even do her pp

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By *cottishsexgoddess OP Woman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I'm learning lots from this thread.

A relatively common discussion (when compared to this one) initiated by women is "how do I squirt?" So you can perhaps understand why men think it is what women want and a sign of their enjoyment.

An earlier post said that he probably didn't know how he did it anyway. It would certainly be the case with me

However...

It is absolutely your choice to meet anyone and that should be respected whatever the reason, in fact you don't have to give a reason.

From the guys point of view he sees it as being sacked for being too good at his job. Now, we have established that this is not the case, but that his is perception.

In my opinion a guys job is to give the lady the best experience you can and that is by understanding and respecting likes and boundaries. "

Thank you.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

As with everything it requires conversation and understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP, life is what you make it and it's entirely up to you to do what you want the heck you want to do and who with. Nobody has the right to tell you otherwise or shame you into something or a situation you are uncomfortable with.

According to Real Sex Lives in a Sexualised Society on radio 4 Summer Nights last night only 6% of women "Gush" It's available on iPlayer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started reading this thread and got bored...if you squirt you squirt...if you dont you dont...simple

Yes, but the point is, if the lady doesn't like it and doesn't want it, don't keep trying like you're on a mission

And if the lady left because of it and doesn't want to risk a repeat, then the guy should accept that and not throw his toys out of the pram because I've refused to meet again. "

Name and shame. Haha. Did he make it a mission to make you squirt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used 2 squirt often and loved it he he BUT I fell and hurt my back nothing to series but the muscle relaxers I am on relaxes you so much one of the side affects is not being able to orgasm boohoo. I would settle for a trickle right now never mind a wet bed lol hasn't stopped me from trying tho mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know OP. I don't have that problem as I only squirt with C, and it can be a huge amount. Well it feels like a huge amount.

When we first got together and it happened I was pretty embarrassed. We talked, he liked it, I enjoy it with him now and all is great.

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By *idKnightMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Seems to me like everything sexually it's a matter of what's comfortable for all involved...

Surely the goal is for everyone to enjoy themselves - if something makes you feel awkward or whatever than it should be perfectly fine to simply not do that... right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As some else on here once said......there is a thin line between a squirt and an uncontrolled pee...

Just saying ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its somethnig I tend to avoid at mine. Ok if its at a ladies house she can do what she wishes but it can put out my flame of horn.

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