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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having broken free after being married to a miserable, tight, gambling manhoor for 22 years I now find myself in the 'dating' game!!! Of course I'm loving the freedom but I need to know the rules of 'the dinner date' - am I expected to sing for my supper if they pay? Do I pay or offer to pay or go halfers?

And don't rip the pish - I'm new to this lol!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Having broken free after being married to a miserable, tight, gambling manhoor for 22 years I now find myself in the 'dating' game!!! Of course I'm loving the freedom but I need to know the rules of 'the dinner date' - am I expected to sing for my supper if they pay? Do I pay or offer to pay or go halfers?

And don't rip the pish - I'm new to this lol!!! "
dunno if you've noticed or not but this aint a dating site lol ...why not ask on the one your on lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Pay for my own chippy....

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


".......- am I expected to sing for my supper if they pay? Do I pay or offer to pay or go halfers? "

No. Offer to go Dutch by all means but don't make a fuss if he insists - it's a macho thing first time out.


"And don't rip the pish - I'm new to this lol!!! "

Despite my well deserved reputation for pish-ripping, I wouldn't dream of it.

Good luck, have a great time and don't feel the need for anything more than a peck on the cheek after the meal.

If he's at all serious, he'll be OK with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not on here for 'dating' lol - just trying to get the point across that I'm newly single and not used to being asked on 'dates' rather than meets!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Chippy sounds about right for me lol!!! Smoked sausage supper on the last train home!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not on here for 'dating' lol - just trying to get the point across that I'm newly single and not used to being asked on 'dates' rather than meets!! "
i wont be paying for the other half

split it down the middle 50/50

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Chippy sounds about right for me lol!!! Smoked sausage supper on the last train home!!! "

Just don't leave yourself so short you have to hide in the lavvy when the ticket man comes round

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm not on here for 'dating' lol - just trying to get the point across that I'm newly single and not used to being asked on 'dates' rather than meets!! "
well if im meeting anyone from here id always offer to pay my way some guys accept some don't and that's nice but always offer anyway I think is the best thing to do and not be presumptious that they will pay the whole bill x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh god I'd never presume!! Just wondered if they expected me to pay in different ways

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Oh god I'd never presume!! Just wondered if they expected me to pay in different ways "
If you make it clear it lunch or dinner and nothing more then they wont expect anything in return except in the hope that maybe you will like them enough to maybe want fun lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ideal. Think I'll do that followed by 'I'll go halfers!' - unless of course he is red hot gorgeous in which case he'll be invited back for his coffee lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think its always best to go Dutch. Pay your fair share to start with......then fleece the bugger later LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go have some fun, offer to go half's and enjoy yourself.

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By *owboy BebopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Having broken free after being married to a miserable, tight, gambling manhoor for 22 years I now find myself in the 'dating' game!!! Of course I'm loving the freedom but I need to know the rules of 'the dinner date' - am I expected to sing for my supper if they pay? Do I pay or offer to pay or go halfers?

And don't rip the pish - I'm new to this lol!!! "

We were married ? ......Sounds as though we must have been.....!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im old fashioned....

If guy suggest dinner.....he pays...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol!!! I'm a new modern woman and I'll pay my share in currency not in kind!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not on here for 'dating' lol - just trying to get the point across that I'm newly single and not used to being asked on 'dates' rather than meets!! i wont be paying for the other half

split it down the middle 50/50

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We would agree but then we are from Paisley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer to split 50/50 if not and there is a second date pick up the tab on alternate dates kind of works OK

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By *rgiesformeMan
over a year ago

North Glasgow

OMG ah must be old fashioned, if a ask a woman to dinner "ah pay"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion ( red )If he was a gent he wouldn't expect you to pay nor expect anything in return.

The paying is your prerogative but if he expects payment as such make a sharp exit regardless.

my personal opinion and I would never take it for granted there was something at the end of it.

It's called being a gent and showing respect.

but if it does work out enjoy.

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona

Gent pays with no expectations, offering going dutch is polite though.

Avoid Hermans though overpriced fish supper

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a cheap date cos I prefer the blue lagoon!!

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Im old fashioned....

If guy suggest dinner.....he pays...

"
same here.what happen to the gentlemen?didint even know that ppl go halfs this days.the same goes if i ask my friend out i pay..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's respectful and of the gentleman variety then go for it and enjoy.You'll not be expected to "sing for your supper".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I buy my own. Unless its with my best mate - then we take turns to pay. Example if we go movies, one buys the food, the other buys the tickets for the movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman should never pay for anything when out with a guy sorry I'm old school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy asks a female out for dinner then i'd think he'd expect to pay, but it's always polite to offer!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I'm not on here for 'dating' lol - just trying to get the point across that I'm newly single and not used to being asked on 'dates' rather than meets!! well if im meeting anyone from here id always offer to pay my way some guys accept some don't and that's nice but always offer anyway I think is the best thing to do and not be presumptious that they will pay the whole bill x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im providing the taxi service over the weekend what more do you want?lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the number of meets on your profile we'd say you have had a lot of meals out

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"From the number of meets on your profile we'd say you have had a lot of meals out"

Your assuming she has dinner dates with all her meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy asks a female out for dinner then i'd think he'd expect to pay, but it's always polite to offer!"
i would hope both were doing nothing else that nite,,, and both thought dining out was a good idea...therefore share costs. But just because he asks...he pays ?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Should always go halfs imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Em - just for clarity - I don't have dinner with any of my meets - usually because I am the main course

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