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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what is it with some really ignorant users, who when you actually take the time to write a decent message and not just a hello there.. fancy a fuck etc

dont even have the manners even for just a little polite, "no thanks" reply?

some people are just downright ignorant,

manners cost nothing. yeah its each persons choice who they chat to or meet etc, but, it only takes a couple of second to say NO THANK YOU.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

You have to realise that some get hundreds of messages every day. The rule of thumb is, no reply = no thank you. It's not rude if someone doesn't reply, especially if you don't fit their criteria, haven't read the profile etc.

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By *iscottishMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's best not to think to much into it mate,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammed if you do dammed if you dont. But once in a while your lucks in.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Pssssttttt if you read my profile and I don't reply you will find my thanks but not thanks on there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 meets in 5 weeks and nobody that replies is ...ignorant...marvelous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn....deal with it yourself. If your so insecure you NEED a reply from everyone you say hello to then you need professional help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain't life a bitch. And I bet all them ppl that send out all that junk mail are just as pissed of wot with everyone putting their shit right in the bin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to reply...but some single guys take that as a sign to try and start up a conversation....so now we tend just to delete unsolicited messages from single guys as they are not what we are on here to meet...

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Op feel free to come and reply no thanks to my 302 messages for me..... I'm too busy enjoying myself to worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were to take the time to read the dos and donts of Fab you would know that because of the high numbers of massages some people receive a no reply is simply to be regarded as a no thanks. So perhaps the ignorance is yours for not reading.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We used to reply...but some single guys take that as a sign to try and start up a conversation....so now we tend just to delete unsolicited messages from single guys as they are not what we are on here to meet..."

That sounds very sensible. Maybe Fab needs an unwritten rule that no response in (say) 48 hours means NO!

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

Op what you fail to see is did the ones that you mailed ask you to mail them, so its their prerogative to choose to reply or in your case not too, if they don't shit happens just get on with life and deal with it.

Not saying that you haven't but !!! so many single men don't read profiles they just mail and most fabbers get fed up with their ignorance and a No Thanks aint worth the typing back.

Not intended to offend you but been on this site since week two of it opening and heard and seen alot of goings on lol xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is it with some really ignorant users, who when you actually take the time to write a decent message and not just a hello there.. fancy a fuck etc

dont even have the manners even for just a little polite, "no thanks" reply?

some people are just downright ignorant,

manners cost nothing. yeah its each persons choice who they chat to or meet etc, but, it only takes a couple of second to say NO THANK YOU. "

My point exactly in the post...The worst!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to reply...but some single guys take that as a sign to try and start up a conversation....so now we tend just to delete unsolicited messages from single guys as they are not what we are on here to meet...

That sounds very sensible. Maybe Fab needs an unwritten rule that no response in (say) 48 hours means NO!

There are filters in place you know!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is it with some really ignorant users, who when you actually take the time to write a decent message and not just a hello there.. fancy a fuck etc

dont even have the manners even for just a little polite, "no thanks" reply?

some people are just downright ignorant,

manners cost nothing. yeah its each persons choice who they chat to or meet etc, but, it only takes a couple of second to say NO THANK YOU. "

You are the ignorant one.

Please look up the definition of ignorance!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We used to reply...but some single guys take that as a sign to try and start up a conversation....so now we tend just to delete unsolicited messages from single guys as they are not what we are on here to meet...

That sounds very sensible. Maybe Fab needs an unwritten rule that no response in (say) 48 hours means NO!

There are filters in place you know!

"

I'm sure filters ARE in place but I fail to see the relevance of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is it with some really ignorant users, who when you actually take the time to write a decent message and not just a hello there.. fancy a fuck etc

dont even have the manners even for just a little polite, "no thanks" reply?

some people are just downright ignorant,

manners cost nothing. yeah its each persons choice who they chat to or meet etc, but, it only takes a couple of second to say NO THANK YOU. "
why you moan about it

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's all part of the game. Some reply, most don't. Deal with it, move on.

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home


"We used to reply...but some single guys take that as a sign to try and start up a conversation....so now we tend just to delete unsolicited messages from single guys as they are not what we are on here to meet..."

As above

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

As ive said several times before i bet all you who moan about getting no replies dont reply to every piece of junk mail you get at home !! Its no diffrent on here .

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I will message back, even to say No Thanx, IF and ONLY IF all the preferences match.....

If they dont.....it simply gets ignored/Deleted....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is it with some really ignorant users, who when you actually take the time to write a decent message and not just a hello there.. fancy a fuck etc

dont even have the manners even for just a little polite, "no thanks" reply?

some people are just downright ignorant,

manners cost nothing. yeah its each persons choice who they chat to or meet etc, but, it only takes a couple of second to say NO THANK YOU. "

I think it depends on the people your messaging... I've had a 'No Thanks' Or 'Too young' and I'm happy but I agree some just delete and then block lol Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know the feeling...alot of people don't like one liners so when you consider the time and effort it takes to write a decent message to everyone for them not to reply it can be rather frustrating and seemingly pointless...so many time wasters on here that your inclined to keep it short and sweet especially if you work full time or have kids etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to reply...but some single guys take that as a sign to try and start up a conversation....so now we tend just to delete unsolicited messages from single guys as they are not what we are on here to meet...

That sounds very sensible. Maybe Fab needs an unwritten rule that no response in (say) 48 hours means NO!

"

There are written rules never mind unwritten. The following is copied and pasted from the FAQ

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to almost everybody if they fall within my age range. Only exception is if you're asking me a direct question about something but not trying to engage me in conversation - I'm old and crabbit and just generally cannae be arsed wi idiots or the illiterate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to reply...but some single guys take that as a sign to try and start up a conversation....so now we tend just to delete unsolicited messages from single guys as they are not what we are on here to meet...

That sounds very sensible. Maybe

Fab needs an unwritten rule that

no response in (say) 48 hours

means NO!.Aye just fabwise i hope...dont apply it to my ppi claims please..lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ever notice

the op has not even had the decent to reply back to any of the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would be here all night if we had to reply to everyone who messages us and its crazy how some people after receiving a no thanx decide to send abusive messages.........not to mention the people who cut and paste their well worded long message which took time to create. Everyone has a right to reply or NOT as the case may be.

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