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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge

on the back of another post got me thinking been a bug bear of mine for a while due to the bad press single men get.the reason i havent put about pretend single female profiles is they get no negative press or very little in comparison to single males.

scenario one:- married person gets disenamoured with his/her marriage going a little stale decides he/she needs more .............finds fab makes a single account and marks himself herself as single proceeds to make friends then woooo hooooo gets a meet has a wonderful time and keeps up the pretence and eventually is caught out.

scenario 2:-married person finds his marriage going stale trys to talk to partner about fixing it they aint intrested so first party decides to join fab still no knowledge on partners side proceed on scenario one woo hooo meet lol then caught

scenario 3:- married person finds marriage getting stale talks to partner then they agree one party aint intrested in sex other is they agree that party should join fab to fulfill their needs continue with scenario 1 but obviously they cant get caught. or they decided to part ways then get a functioning and honest single profile.

discuss and enjoy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Affs kola one whisky too many to even digest half of that tonight will try and answer tomorrow lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Never given "single" men/women hard time.....

So wont comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No right or wrong whatever works for dif people works. The world is full of dif kind of people who will do dif things and make dif choices. Its just upto ourselves which choice we choose and if we are. happy with it and not have any regrets about it

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Sod it.....

This is an ADULT site and people are free to do what they want(within reason)...married or not!

I dont care if someone is married and I sure as hell dont care if they get caught....

Their life.....Nothing to do with me

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"on the back of another post got me thinking been a bug bear of mine for a while due to the bad press single men get.the reason i havent put about pretend single female profiles is they get no negative press or very little in comparison to single males.

scenario one:- married person gets disenamoured with his/her marriage going a little stale decides he/she needs more .............finds fab makes a single account and marks himself herself as single proceeds to make friends then woooo hooooo gets a meet has a wonderful time and keeps up the pretence and eventually is caught out.

scenario 2:-married person finds his marriage going stale trys to talk to partner about fixing it they aint intrested so first party decides to join fab still no knowledge on partners side proceed on scenario one woo hooo meet lol then caught

scenario 3:- married person finds marriage getting stale talks to partner then they agree one party aint intrested in sex other is they agree that party should join fab to fulfill their needs continue with scenario 1 but obviously they cant get caught. or they decided to part ways then get a functioning and honest single profile.

discuss and enjoy

"

As I said in the previous post, it is not for me to bring down judgement on married men or women. They all have their reasons for doing what they do. It is always better if they say they are married/attached so that we, the opposite sex, can make an informed decision as to whether we should meet. There are risks for all parties involved one way or another and these should be weighed up. And here endeth my two pennyworth and I'm off to bed.

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Sod it.....

This is an ADULT site and people are free to do what they want(within reason)...married or not!

I dont care if someone is married and I sure as hell dont care if they get caught....

Their life.....Nothing to do with me

"
hee hee knew ya couldnt resist !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod it.....

This is an ADULT site and people are free to do what they want(within reason)...married or not!

I dont care if someone is married and I sure as hell dont care if they get caught....

Their life.....Nothing to do with me

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never given "single" men/women hard time.....

So wont comment "
But as a friend, i've had to pick up a few solo fems totally conned by crafty/devious married men on here,(pick up emotionally).

I dont persnnaly have that within me, to pretend im someone else and juggle it, for what? The chance of a shag?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

How emotionally involved do they get if only meeting for a shag??

OR are they part of the masses looking for something more than just sex?

I never repeat my "meets" so its never a problem for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How emotionally involved do they get if only meeting for a shag??

OR are they part of the masses looking for something more than just sex?

I never repeat my "meets" so its never a problem for me "
Solo fems i know!! Thats all you or anyone gets to know, what, theres indiscretion saying that?

Ohhhh a single fem, think i know who he means??

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Solo fems i know!! Thats all you or anyone gets to know, what, theres indiscretion saying that?

Ohhhh a single fem, think i know who he means?? "

WTF you on about????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod it.....

This is an ADULT site and people are free to do what they want(within reason)...married or not!

I dont care if someone is married and I sure as hell dont care if they get caught....

Their life.....Nothing to do with me

"

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By *iscottishMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We all know what we get into on sites like these, and people do lie but really at end of the day married/partnered or not what does it matter?

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

I don't really care if the men (or women for that matter) are married - it's up to them what they do and I'm not responsible for that.

However, it is my personal preference not to meet people who are playing away from home WITHOUT their partner's knowledge. I got caught up in a real mess when a wife caught her husband out and it was awful. I will not willingly put myself in that situation again.

I prefer the genuinely single.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I agree with _riendly foe and i have at socials been questioned on this attitude but as i say i agree entirely with _riendly foe but its up to each individual to make their own choice and decisions and try not to judge others

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Sod it.....

This is an ADULT site and people are free to do what they want(within reason)...married or not!

I dont care if someone is married and I sure as hell dont care if they get caught....

Their life.....Nothing to do with me

"

I agree.

I personally will not play/meet a Married women/men. I'am completely against those who choose to cheat on their partners as a women who has been cheated on I just HATE it!

However i'am not rude or preach to anyone. Their life, their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod it.....

This is an ADULT site and people are free to do what they want(within reason)...married or not!

I dont care if someone is married and I sure as hell dont care if they get caught....

Their life.....Nothing to do with me

I agree.

I personally will not play/meet a Married women/men. I'am completely against those who choose to cheat on their partners as a women who has been cheated on I just HATE it!

However i'am not rude or preach to anyone. Their life, their choice. "

Same here. My choice not to meet anyone married, have done in the past, won't again. But I won't give anyone a hard time over the choices they make

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've had too much vino to think properly about this .... I have met marrieds but to me it's still cheating and if they get caught then hell mend them.., I wouldn't hide things from the deceived party if they asked ... My 2 cents worth and probably wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod it.....

This is an ADULT site and people are free to do what they want(within reason)...married or not!

I dont care if someone is married and I sure as hell dont care if they get caught....

Their life.....Nothing to do with me

Oh u go girl lol. X X

"

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Their life.....Nothing to do with me

"

Unless of course your named in divorce procedings lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Their life.....Nothing to do with me

Unless of course your named in divorce procedings lol "

They need my name for that

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Their life.....Nothing to do with me

Unless of course your named in divorce procedings lol

They need my name for that "

Or just an address lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Their life.....Nothing to do with me

Unless of course your named in divorce procedings lol

They need my name for that

Or just an address lol "

Thats one thing I never give

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Their life.....Nothing to do with me

Unless of course your named in divorce procedings lol

They need my name for that

Or just an address lol

Thats one thing I never give "

You don't need to if there being followed lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Thats one thing I never give

You don't need to if there being followed lol "

Best warn CJ then

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"

Thats one thing I never give

You don't need to if there being followed lol

Best warn CJ then "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think married men especially are damned if they do and damned if they don't be honest. My wonder is if they keep stoomp how do people find out ? Also as its a swingers site why are people so against it. Not like you were hoping for a committed relationship from them. For me I'd rather not as I wouldn't want to be involved in potentially hurting the cheated on partner x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I couldnt care less tbh ..... if they are married and are on here it is their choice to do so, if they get caught they take the backlash simple really.

Not wanting to sound harsh but I have no interest in the state of peoples marriage/their reasons for cheating/why they are on a swinging site etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz............

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"on the back of another post got me thinking been a bug bear of mine for a while due to the bad press single men get.the reason i havent put about pretend single female profiles is they get no negative press or very little in comparison to single males.

scenario one:- married person gets disenamoured with his/her marriage going a little stale decides he/she needs more .............finds fab makes a single account and marks himself herself as single proceeds to make friends then woooo hooooo gets a meet has a wonderful time and keeps up the pretence and eventually is caught out.

scenario 2:-married person finds his marriage going stale trys to talk to partner about fixing it they aint intrested so first party decides to join fab still no knowledge on partners side proceed on scenario one woo hooo meet lol then caught

scenario 3:- married person finds marriage getting stale talks to partner then they agree one party aint intrested in sex other is they agree that party should join fab to fulfill their needs continue with scenario 1 but obviously they cant get caught. or they decided to part ways then get a functioning and honest single profile.

discuss and enjoy

"

can i ask a question.

how come scenario 1 gets a woooo hooooo,

and scenario 2 only gets a woo hooo,

then poor scenario 3 doesnt even get a woo or a hoo,untill he returns to scenario 1

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"on the back of another post got me thinking been a bug bear of mine for a while due to the bad press single men get.the reason i havent put about pretend single female profiles is they get no negative press or very little in comparison to single males.

scenario one:- married person gets disenamoured with his/her marriage going a little stale decides he/she needs more .............finds fab makes a single account and marks himself herself as single proceeds to make friends then woooo hooooo gets a meet has a wonderful time and keeps up the pretence and eventually is caught out.

scenario 2:-married person finds his marriage going stale trys to talk to partner about fixing it they aint intrested so first party decides to join fab still no knowledge on partners side proceed on scenario one woo hooo meet lol then caught

scenario 3:- married person finds marriage getting stale talks to partner then they agree one party aint intrested in sex other is they agree that party should join fab to fulfill their needs continue with scenario 1 but obviously they cant get caught. or they decided to part ways then get a functioning and honest single profile.

discuss and enjoy

can i ask a question.

how come scenario 1 gets a woooo hooooo,

and scenario 2 only gets a woo hooo,

then poor scenario 3 doesnt even get a woo or a hoo,untill he returns to scenario 1 "
who said honesty was fun pmsl

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"on the back of another post got me thinking been a bug bear of mine for a while due to the bad press single men get.the reason i havent put about pretend single female profiles is they get no negative press or very little in comparison to single males.

scenario one:- married person gets disenamoured with his/her marriage going a little stale decides he/she needs more .............finds fab makes a single account and marks himself herself as single proceeds to make friends then woooo hooooo gets a meet has a wonderful time and keeps up the pretence and eventually is caught out.

scenario 2:-married person finds his marriage going stale trys to talk to partner about fixing it they aint intrested so first party decides to join fab still no knowledge on partners side proceed on scenario one woo hooo meet lol then caught

scenario 3:- married person finds marriage getting stale talks to partner then they agree one party aint intrested in sex other is they agree that party should join fab to fulfill their needs continue with scenario 1 but obviously they cant get caught. or they decided to part ways then get a functioning and honest single profile.

discuss and enjoy

can i ask a question.

how come scenario 1 gets a woooo hooooo,

and scenario 2 only gets a woo hooo,

then poor scenario 3 doesnt even get a woo or a hoo,untill he returns to scenario 1 who said honesty was fun pmsl "

even when he moves to scenario 1,i'm thinking the scenario 3 guys woo hoo days are behind him.

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"on the back of another post got me thinking been a bug bear of mine for a while due to the bad press single men get.the reason i havent put about pretend single female profiles is they get no negative press or very little in comparison to single males.

scenario one:- married person gets disenamoured with his/her marriage going a little stale decides he/she needs more .............finds fab makes a single account and marks himself herself as single proceeds to make friends then woooo hooooo gets a meet has a wonderful time and keeps up the pretence and eventually is caught out.

scenario 2:-married person finds his marriage going stale trys to talk to partner about fixing it they aint intrested so first party decides to join fab still no knowledge on partners side proceed on scenario one woo hooo meet lol then caught

scenario 3:- married person finds marriage getting stale talks to partner then they agree one party aint intrested in sex other is they agree that party should join fab to fulfill their needs continue with scenario 1 but obviously they cant get caught. or they decided to part ways then get a functioning and honest single profile.

discuss and enjoy

can i ask a question.

how come scenario 1 gets a woooo hooooo,

and scenario 2 only gets a woo hooo,

then poor scenario 3 doesnt even get a woo or a hoo,untill he returns to scenario 1 who said honesty was fun pmsl

even when he moves to scenario 1,i'm thinking the scenario 3 guys woo hoo days are behind him. "
hey with the right mental state the wooooo hoooooo days are always present

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz............

"
sorry keeping you awake

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I couldnt care less tbh ..... if they are married and are on here it is their choice to do so, if they get caught they take the backlash simple really.

Not wanting to sound harsh but I have no interest in the state of peoples marriage/their reasons for cheating/why they are on a swinging site etc...."

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge

interesting replies, only one person actually noticed though that the point of the post was how married people (mostly men) impacts on true single mens profiles. so many nasty posts and comments and profile preferences that i have seen over my years on fab against the dreaded single male when a good portion of the time its actually a married man posing as a single male. im using male as everyone wants a single female so no one gives a toss if they are doing anything as long as they're doing it with them this isnt meant as an argumentative post was just curious to see what people took from it happy swinging

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