FabSwingers.com forum: Meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Social meet or straight for the fun???

What would u be more likely to do??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

social meet 1st

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Social first and if we hit it off then back to mine to hit it off some more xx

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

Social always first for us there is always plenty of time for fun if all goes well.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I much prefer a social meet. That way, it is more about the night out and whatever else happens happens and is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah we are the same jus so many diff reviews when I spk to ppl what they prefer

Think that's the best too meet up see how we all get on xx

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Lets just say people's pics can be deceiving .....time is precious.....so social meet.....then you can see if you wanna play or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to love the single guys saying " social meet first lol"

Like we have a choice lol its usually dictated by the meeter rather than the meetie lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

defo a social meet then fun after ..nothing better than doing a social meet knowing there is chemistry and teasing each other until meeting later for fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah pictures can someone told me they got a pic from a couple and then they went to meet and there pic must hav been 10 year old (really y so that)

I think u can tell with the mails or chat if uz r going to get on! Then if uz do y not go for a social

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"defo a social meet then fun after ..nothing better than doing a social meet knowing there is chemistry and teasing each other until meeting later for fun

Sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

social meet

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

If I'm on my own, definitely social meet first though wouldn't rule out play at that point if all was good.

As a couple brief social but straight on to fun if all happy, or just a social then arrange another date for play. Pretty easy going - see how it works out!

Vixen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight for the fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'm on my own, definitely social meet first though wouldn't rule out play at that point if all was good.

As a couple brief social but straight on to fun if all happy, or just a social then arrange another date for play. Pretty easy going - see how it works out!

Vixen x"

thank you!

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"Got to love the single guys saying " social meet first lol"

Like we have a choice lol its usually dictated by the meeter rather than the meetie lol

I don't think that is true in all cases and is rather unfair in some respects.

Do you mean that single guys will just take what they're given?

I'm picky and find those I've mixed with socially make much better play mates.

I would much prefer a drought of no meets then the ocasional great sex, than just taking any offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has got to be a social meet first as it is there you tend to find out more about the person and gives you a chance to see if the chemistry is there and if it is well lets just say the second time will be more enjoyable

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Have also known social meets to turn into sommat more....but social meet is a get ou Claus lol

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By *essicaDamonCouple
over a year ago

Livingston

Straight for the fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Straight for the fun

Haha very keen! Read ur profile very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dont know yet am the new one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social meet first,although there have been two very exceptional special guys that it's turned into fun...

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By *igeresslilly43Woman
over a year ago

west lothian

I always go for a social meet first. You can then gauge if you want to take it to the next level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 80% of the time has been social meets but there are times when I've just met for play straight away, most of the time that's worked out just fine but there have been the few occasions when I've regretted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a lotta coffee if yer having a pre- gangbang social meet..lol

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By *ustlovesexMan
over a year ago

Wishaw

I would go straight to the fun sometimes if I had been chatting to someone and they were exceptional.

I much prefer a social, even if it means fun right after.

I'm not a big fan of koala sex, meets, shoots and leaves.

It is much better to meet and make sure there is some kind if chemistry there.

It also gives a chance to relax in each others company and fires up the anticipation for later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your profile and you yourself are up front and honest and are in touch with someone who is likewise....a fun meet instantly is possible.

I see why solo women prefer social meets of course.

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

"If I'm on my own, definitely social meet first though wouldn't rule out play at that point if all was good.

As a couple brief social but straight on to fun if all happy, or just a social then arrange another date for play. Pretty easy going - see how it works out!

Vixen x

thank you! "

Why are you growling at me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood we're in and how much free time we have

And who we're meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah defo u got to hav some chemistry like my profile says we r not easy in my words not easily pleased

If there's a connection there then who knows what the meet may lead to!

Jus keen to get our first meet over with see what it's really like but with the ryt person/ppl offcourse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'm on my own, definitely social meet first though wouldn't rule out play at that point if all was good.

As a couple brief social but straight on to fun if all happy, or just a social then arrange another date for play. Pretty easy going - see how it works out!

Vixen x.

thank you!

Why are you growling at me?

sari

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope to meet you tomorrow at the camping gig

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I myt pass till next time jus not sure as dont know anyone and I'd b coming alone!

But defo up for meeting all uz guys soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats a lotta coffee if yer having a pre- gangbang social meet..lol"

Love it....5 mile queue at costas! (other coffee shops are available).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know anyone either - except cutie - your welcome to meet us before hand if you would really like to come - we don't bite and im meeting her for the first time other than a 1 second hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I myt pass till next time jus not sure as dont know anyone and I'd b coming alone!

But defo up for meeting all uz guys soon xx

I know a few of the reprobates, you'll be very well looked after, you've nothing to fear, but only you can decide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I am pretty much up for it meeting uz all....

Ill mail u

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

thank you!

Why are you growling at me?

I always look at that smillie as a horny devil

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

thought it was a grumpy growly thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both. By having a social you can get to know the person/s.

However sometimes when you chat to a person/s for a while you get to know them and you feel comfortable with moving straight to fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have done both. By having a social you can get to know the person/s.

However sometimes when you chat to a person/s for a while you get to know them and you feel comfortable with moving straight to fun."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have done both. By having a social you can get to know the person/s.

However sometimes when you chat to a person/s for a while you get to know them and you feel comfortable with moving straight to fun.

Totally, as the pic on my avatar illustrates.

Two couples, wanted two guys to join them, hotel booked, met for drinks at the bar,,,then loadsa fun!!

It can be that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us a social meet and get to know them and see if we all hit it off and click and have a laugh and flirt then off for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

socail meet, then fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social 1st and take it from there mmm

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

dont do the whole social meet thing or meet for sex thing either when was meeting it was go with the flow and see where it lead

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

"dont do the whole social meet thing or meet for sex thing either when was meeting it was go with the flow and see where it lead

This...

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