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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After numerous let downs we're more determined than ever to give this another shot at finding a genuine couple/bi fem for a horny meet despite being so frustrated and at our wits end by bending over backwards to arrange meets with people who have initially contacted us to meet...we know it wouldnt be easy to find genuine swingers looking for a good time like us but we sure didnt think it would prove to be such a struggle lol och well back to the bat cave to draw up another plan! Lol hopefully perseverance and a positive outlook will bear fruit sometime soon wish us luck! As we bloody need it lol happy swinging everyone! hopefully we can meet one or two of you fabswingers lol xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best! When you can get further afield, do let us know. Then we can say no to you as well. :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its sooooo not funny!!!!

Its only been couples who have let ua down too, we know exactly how you feel, especially if youve kids to sort out, abd ofcourse yourself to get ready, its timewasters and fakes who give the rest of us genuine folk a bad name.....oh dont get me started!!!!!! I better stop there!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the best! When you can get further afield, do let us know. Then we can say no to you as well. :p"
???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been there, so I know what it's like. It's annoying when it happens, but just try and concentrate on the better meets. Even if they are not in the forefront of your mind, the timewasters might blend into one another and be forgotten about, with time.

Nevertheless, I'd still rather deal with a timewaster, than deal with someone who did not treat me well in a meet, or afterwards. Sometimes timewasters, and no meets, are better than having meets that do not go well.

I am very sympathetic, so don't take this the wrong way, but there are worse things that can happen - although I know this is no consolation.

Maybe you could get their email address as well, so if you want to vent some anger you could mail them? (I used a different site last night and I really enjoyed slapping someone down privately, during a conversation, without any worries about being reported.)

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Just a little suggestion, have you tried a social?

You'll be able to meet lots of lovely people in one place and you may even find just what you're looking for

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"All the best! When you can get further afield, do let us know. Then we can say no to you as well. :p??? "

It's antihero's sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwww, we've all been there with the timewasters and you just have to do exactly as you are...move on!

Andy's right though, it may be worth going to a social or trying a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwww, we've all been there with the timewasters and you just have to do exactly as you are...move on!

Andy's right though, it may be worth going to a social or trying a club "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the best! When you can get further afield, do let us know. Then we can say no to you as well. :p???

It's antihero's sense of humour "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the best! When you can get further afield, do let us know. Then we can say no to you as well. :p???

It's antihero's sense of humour

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I'm a funny bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the best! When you can get further afield, do let us know. Then we can say no to you as well. :p???

It's antihero's sense of humour

I'm a funny bastard "

not to some

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"All the best! When you can get further afield, do let us know. Then we can say no to you as well. :p???

It's antihero's sense of humour

I'm a funny bastard

not to some "

He's only truly happy if you've got cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone loves me so its all good

anyway on a serious note meeting couples can be difficult, but when you find the right one for you it makes the effort worthwhile. Pay attention to warning signs like having been on the site for a looong time, not been verified, not ever updated the profile etc. Andy was right though, a social or club would work. its worked for me/us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been verified 23 hours ago so something's working.

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

So sorry to hear of your let downs recently, so much I explored your profile. I’m wondering if the fact you’re a bi-fem, looking for a bi-fem female to share with your Master, plus you’re also looking for a “sugar daddy” might have something to do with it? I could be wrong…

Given that the majority of site users do NOT use the forums, I cringe at advice given to go to a social... Half the profiles of forum 20-30 plus (Scottish users) are either hidden or they are not playing at present cause there loved up. So kind of begs the questions of what’s the point of going to a social? Unless you want be in the social “elite” of course. (Elite being, those who don’t play but like to think they are).

I am a cheeky bassa, I know it, but it’s just an observation. We don’t mean to offend, hopefully educate?

We are old school, we have something to swap, we don’t say it's Barbie n ken but it’s something. I’d suggest you-re-think your goals, maybe focus more on what it is exactly you’re looking for?

Focus on your goals and less trying to aim for the entertainment forum quest for success.

Good luck MT XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Given that the majority of site users do NOT use the forums, I cringe at advice given to go to a social... Half the profiles of forum 20-30 plus (Scottish users) are either hidden or they are not playing at present cause there loved up. So kind of begs the questions of what’s the point of going to a social? Unless you want be in the social “elite” of course. (Elite being, those who don’t play but like to think they are).

I am a cheeky bassa, I know it, but it’s just an observation. We don’t mean to offend, hopefully educate?

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Thats exactly what I was thinking, especially about cringing going to a social. Especially with the type of profile they have. But I knew if I said it, I'd get shouted down. Of course, that's not to take away anything from the organisers or whom these things work for.

Some of us just want fun meets: exchange pics and a few messages. Meet, strip off and get down to it.

Manictech, if you don't mind me saying, I salute you and your comments. It's like a breath of fresh air reading your informative and common sense approach. Lots of posts are just not taken seriously. Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a little suggestion, have you tried a social?

You'll be able to meet lots of lovely people in one place and you may even find just what you're looking for "

Yeah, your right, at least you know the folk thats go to socials are genuine!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"So sorry to hear of your let downs recently, so much I explored your profile. I’m wondering if the fact you’re a bi-fem, looking for a bi-fem female to share with your Master, plus you’re also looking for a “sugar daddy” might have something to do with it? I could be wrong…

Given that the majority of site users do NOT use the forums, I cringe at advice given to go to a social... Half the profiles of forum 20-30 plus (Scottish users) are either hidden or they are not playing at present cause there loved up. So kind of begs the questions of what’s the point of going to a social? Unless you want be in the social “elite” of course. (Elite being, those who don’t play but like to think they are).

I am a cheeky bassa, I know it, but it’s just an observation. We don’t mean to offend, hopefully educate?

We are old school, we have something to swap, we don’t say it's Barbie n ken but it’s something. I’d suggest you-re-think your goals, maybe focus more on what it is exactly you’re looking for?

Focus on your goals and less trying to aim for the entertainment forum quest for success.

Good luck MT XxX

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given that im one of those "social elites" i can say with ease what utter nonsense i have met .......and i do mean met lots of folks at socials but your missing the point of socials they are to make contacts with likeminded people not a shagathon of carkeys in bowls times change along wirh people you like your old school ways enjoy and embrace them but dont force this on everyone as.for people not meeting ohhhh im one of those also thats perhaps why lots have this on their profile more to do with the idiotic behaviour on fab just now. enjoy how you like as long as your happy thats what counts

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

To the op..... Good on you for keeping up the positive attitude, it isn't easy as a couple to find what you are looking for but I'm sure if you keep going you will find there are plenty good couples out there x

Oh and I go to socials ( wouldn't call myself elite though) and I find them a great way to meet folk that I do end up meeting privately so not everyone that goes to them or uses forums are all talk and no action..... Unlike what some people on here would like to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would suggest you go 2 the socials n meet them that way

or even to the clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had experience's with socials before and everyone just keeps themselves to themselves as it's usually the same people that go to every social and it's a bit cliquey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had experience's with socials before and everyone just keeps themselves to themselves as it's usually the same people that go to every social and it's a bit cliquey "

I wouldnt say 'cliquey' is off putting unless they just ignore the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should've come to the Edinburgh one a few months ago, definitely not cliquey and was a great way to put faces to a name, get verified and meet potential play toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no excuse for not turning up without calling to say.

We always say what we do, and do what we say. We are a reliable couple looking for a bit of fun on FAB.

B&C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seek and ye shall find

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