FabSwingers.com forum: Real guys!

By *ivitart OP Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Had a meet with a really genuine lovely charming sweet guy that gave me such a great sexy time!! What surprises me is there actually guys like that on here! I have had to deal with so many numptys!! Why are there so many fakes and chancers

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't remember meeting you! lol.

On a serious note though, there are some like that but unfortunately the bad outweigh the good...it can be very frustrating when you (i lol) dont get replies to messages and constantly see women complaining about the the dickheads! Not easy to show you're not a dick on here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What surprises me is that you are actually surprised that they're are respectful guys on here. In all my time on here i've never had a "numpty" I've always had respectful, polite guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What surprises me is that you are actually surprised that they're are respectful guys on here. In all my time on here i've never had a "numpty" I've always had respectful, polite guys. "

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

There are a helluva lot of good, decent and respectful guys on here. Meeting/putting up wi numpties/twats is down to yourself and how you manage your meets.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've gathered the genuine/new guys struggle to get replies and the twats ruin it for everyone. Say no to twats lol!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"From what I've gathered the genuine/new guys struggle to get replies and the twats ruin it for everyone. Say no to twats lol!"

sorry but not true. Been on here 5 years and only ever encountered 2 timewasting twats in that time. Show respect and it will be given back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From what I've gathered the genuine/new guys struggle to get replies and the twats ruin it for everyone. Say no to twats lol!

sorry but not true. Been on here 5 years and only ever encountered 2 timewasting twats in that time. Show respect and it will be given back. "

that is good to here. Maybe I thought that because when people put stuff up about meets etc. It is usually about people time wasting. Glad its wrong though

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Came across a few numptys on here but the genuine decent guys well outweigh them all lol ..enjoy and have fun xxx

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By *ustlovesexMan
over a year ago

Wishaw

I'm sure there are a lot of genuine guys on here but it us spoiled for us by the timewasters, twats and downright weirdos.

We're not all like that.

I'm happy to treat women with respect, make sure they are comfy with the idea and turn up if I say I will.

There should maybe be a comments section on profiles where timewasters etc could be highlighted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come OAN the good guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a meet with a really genuine lovely charming sweet guy that gave me such a great sexy time!! What surprises me is there actually guys like that on here! I have had to deal with so many numptys!! Why are there so many fakes and chancers "
thats means am not real - touches himself to see if he is alive and kicking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure there are a lot of genuine guys on here but it us spoiled for us by the timewasters, twats and downright weirdos.

We're not all like that.

I'm happy to treat women with respect, make sure they are comfy with the idea and turn up if I say I will.

There should maybe be a comments section on profiles where timewasters etc could be highlighted.

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wont work been said many a times as its open to abuse

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Glad you enjoyed op, but as has been said I've met loads of good guys on here it's all about fine tuning your bullshit meter....and I don't think the "bad" guys make it harder for the good ones... Surely it's the other way round.. they surely make you look better Only you are responsible for how you get on no-one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same for guys meeting woman,manage your meets and get a feel for them (no pun intended lol) I've been very lucky on here and have met some fantastic ladies

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'm sure there are a lot of genuine guys on here but it us spoiled for us by the timewasters, twats and downright weirdos.

We're not all like that.

I'm happy to treat women with respect, make sure they are comfy with the idea and turn up if I say I will.

There should maybe be a comments section on profiles where timewasters etc could be highlighted.

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iv said many times before on here other guys dont spoil it for anyone because you make your own destiny on here and only you can make people notice you for all the right reasons no one else

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By *ivitart OP Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I normally meet couples of fems! I must have been unlucky with guys! Well I stand corrected and happy to be so, as there seems to be a lot of nice gents out there!

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By *unboytoyMan
over a year ago

scotland

All about actually getting the chance to prove it , alas a reply is all too much almost all of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not get along to one of the many socials?Great way to meet the really genuine and decent folks.A great night out!!!Simply a night of dancing,chatting,drinking if you like a drink!!!Just a great fun night out with like minded folks!!

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By *unboytoyMan
over a year ago

scotland

Always seem to be when I'm working , was all set for one in Stirling as well and broke my arm two days before as my luck would have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From what I've gathered the genuine/new guys struggle to get replies and the twats ruin it for everyone. Say no to twats lol!

sorry but not true. Been on here 5 years and only ever encountered 2 timewasting twats in that time. Show respect and it will be given back. "

Show respect and it will be given back? What a load of nonsense. Very naive.

That comment overlooks the fact of women (and it is always women) who are the moral police and enjoy being vicious and putting people down. Often commenting on things they don't want to do and doesn't affect them.

I've seen, for example, women making comments in the forums like 'these people will never feature in my life so I don't give a shite about anyone on here and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me'. Then the comment gets lots of agreement ticks, 'o yes family is important', but the people leaving ticks seem to overlook the 'shite and fuck'.

The bad don't ruin it for anyone. For me, it can be off putting, and caused me to have breaks from here, but I just think of the better ones and I recover quickly. Which is another reason why I don't take verifications at face value. I like to make up my own mind over people.

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By *ustlovesexMan
over a year ago

Wishaw

"I'm sure there are a lot of genuine guys on here but it us spoiled for us by the timewasters, twats and downright weirdos.

We're not all like that.

I'm happy to treat women with respect, make sure they are comfy with the idea and turn up if I say I will.

There should maybe be a comments section on profiles where timewasters etc could be highlighted.

iv said many times before on here other guys dont spoil it for anyone because you make your own destiny on here and only you can make people notice you for all the right reasons no one else

Sorry totally disagree.

Take a look at a lot of the womens profiles and they take the default position of assuming most if us are twats (which may be right lol)

Screeds and screeds of not this, not that, please guys no......

And about 3 lines about themselves.

Of course it influences them, and I can see why it does. The same thing happens in pubs and clubs. Women get fed up guys hitting on them and go shields up.

I do agree you have to find ways of getting yourself across but in a lot of cases you are starting from a negative position.

I recently met with a couple who were about to give it up after a succession of timewasters and twats.

A great couple that would have been loss to the site and they arent the first I've heard it from.

I've had great experiences from the site but it has been harder going than it need be at times thanks to the twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always treat people with respect you wont get very far if you dont

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'm sure there are a lot of genuine guys on here but it us spoiled for us by the timewasters, twats and downright weirdos.

We're not all like that.

I'm happy to treat women with respect, make sure they are comfy with the idea and turn up if I say I will.

There should maybe be a comments section on profiles where timewasters etc could be highlighted.

iv said many times before on here other guys dont spoil it for anyone because you make your own destiny on here and only you can make people notice you for all the right reasons no one else

Sorry totally disagree.

Take a look at a lot of the womens profiles and they take the default position of assuming most if us are twats (which may be right lol)

Screeds and screeds of not this, not that, please guys no......

And about 3 lines about themselves.

Of course it influences them, and I can see why it does. The same thing happens in pubs and clubs. Women get fed up guys hitting on them and go shields up.

I do agree you have to find ways of getting yourself across but in a lot of cases you are starting from a negative position.

I recently met with a couple who were about to give it up after a succession of timewasters and twats.

A great couple that would have been loss to the site and they arent the first I've heard it from.

I've had great experiences from the site but it has been harder going than it need be at times thanks to the twats.

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but then surly people with that kind of attitude on their profiles wouldnt intrest you anyway ?... If people portray a positive attitude then they will recieve that back

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Fake n timewaster here why aint ya dealt with me yet !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fake n timewaster here why aint ya dealt with me yet !!!!!!! "

I will next time I have my step with me big man!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely a lot of respectful genuine guys on here - we're not all numptys!! hope this guy has restored your faith in some of us

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Not all numpties are bad ....look at me ..i'm a numpty ...but a nice numpty ...well i think i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all numpties are bad ....look at me ..i'm a numpty ...but a nice numpty ...well i think i am

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thought i was the biggest one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an argument that is older than Fabswingers.

There are numpties and timewasters in both sexes and as stated you just need to tune yourself into finding which is which.

I must admit reading some profiles on here is like Moses trying to read the 10 Commandments with I will not meet this and you can fuck right off if your that. This also is written in the profiles of both sexes.

I'm sorry but swinging is supposed to be fun and all about enjoyment. Too many people have too many hang ups and are spoiling the fun.

What happened to the old days when you closed your eyes picked the keys out the basket and hoped for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its trying to figure out the numpty and creeps from the nice guys. My problem is the guys who say they are up for 3sums then chicken out at the last minute which is not a problem if they would just admit its their time and unsure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*first time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve been Lucky met gen guys and a quick no thanks to the chancers and there is many on here

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By *unboytoyMan
over a year ago

scotland

"Not all numpties are bad ....look at me ..i'm a numpty ...but a nice numpty ...well i think i am

High 5 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Show respect and it will be given back? What a load of nonsense. Very naive.

Must keep mouth shut.... Bite my tongue... So hard...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Must keep mouth shut.... Bite my tongue... So hard...

Count to ten

and breathe.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must keep mouth shut.... Bite my tongue... So hard...

Count to ten

and breathe.......

1...2... Oh look, boaby... 3... What comes after that? (Attention span of a fish)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the morale is live and let swing. Whit's fir Ye il no go by Ye. Ax they say. I usually manage to get chatting to poeple on here quite freely and yes it doesn't instantly lead to meets but I wouldn't want to be rushed into anything I wasn't sure about either. I think the problem with a lot of guys is they are on here just for personal gratification its not a free for all and you wouldn't expect to walk up to somone in a bar and start fucking. Unless it was a bat in falkirk but that's a whole other story. Yes I love sex and yes everyone on here is intetested in sex but if you come on here looking for an instant shave you are sure to be disappointed it does happen but for the most part you should just try to get involved and be happy to chat to other folks. You might just find some of them interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man I'm full of shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man I'm full of shit."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never understand why guys are such dicks during meets, surely if you are attentive, polite, sensual and make sure the lady has a great time it only bodes well to getting another meet. I know as a man that I get a great massive rush having a woman cum and cum as well as seeing that she is also happy and comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put the blame on guys is a little unfair. I left the site few months ago due to the amount of women timewasters and fantasists with no intention of meeting.

Also trying to be different in opening messages doesn't really work all the time either I found.

I cam back on to keep I touch/play with decent people met last time around. It's like groundhog day otherwise chatting with people and I don't have an interest or time for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im glad you had a great time. Yes, there are genuine guys on here, me included. Wish you well & luck on your endeavours :D

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

your no bad yourself lol xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately decent guys like myself are all tarred with the idiot brush. People have reasons for not having dozens of feedback ratings, reasons for not posting facials pics, reasons for not meeting at the drop of a hat, and reasons for not wanting to sleep with the entire site.

Sometimes amongst the rubble in the mine you will find a diamond you just have to dig awful hard x

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Show respect and it will be given back? What a load of nonsense. Very naive.

Must keep mouth shut.... Bite my tongue... So hard...

I'm getting good at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only came across fake and time wasting women haha

Seems to be that I'm just too nice to folk so never get further than just a chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont steriotype single guys into being timewasters. just as many couples and females on here that are as bad. my block list is huge lol...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only came across fake and time wasting women haha

Seems to be that I'm just too nice to folk so never get further than just a chat!

They can't be THAT fake if they're letting you cum over them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What surprises me is that you are actually surprised that they're are respectful guys on here. In all my time on here i've never had a "numpty" I've always had respectful, polite guys. "

Never a truer word said go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex

well you are definitely reducing your chances of meeting genuine guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only came across fake and time wasting women haha

Seems to be that I'm just too nice to folk so never get further than just a chat!

They can't be THAT fake if they're letting you cum over them!

HAHA dirty mind there mate, was unintentional lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come OAN the good guys lol

'Mon the numpties. Get it up ya! bein a good guy is so over rated....Keep em mean treat em keen flick the bean live the dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come OAN the good guys lol

'Mon the numpties. Get it up ya! bein a good guy is so over rated....Keep em mean treat em keen flick the bean live the dream

Treat them mean keep them keen is it no?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Show respect and it will be given back? What a load of nonsense. Very naive.

my naiveity

is far outshone by your sanctimonious and condescending retort.

My reply was about MY personal time on here, treat ME with respect and I will do you the same courtesy.

At no point did I state I was speaking on behalf of other forum/site users. I am quite sure they are perfectly capable of voicing their own opinions.

I suggest in future that if you have an issue with what I say then you take it up with me personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You obviously haven't been looking in the right places then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dealing with numpties sounds like such a hard process..

delete or block, if its abusive retorts, report

all pretty simple

have to point out OP, not accepting single guys then exclaiming uve met one diamond amongst the rough..isnt effectively a fair comment..

now wheres my fake couple n single fem profile so I can mail u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In virtual terms, Real guys on here, if you were to create a real situation.

For example, two guys walking along the street and they walk by a swingers club and one said to the other, hey thats a swingers club fancy checkin it out sometime? The Real guy type would probably say, yes, sounds fun.

Yer fake timewaster would probably say, "what, real swingers, in there and i can go in there too?, No thanks".

Then his mate tells him few minutes later, ok well theres this site on the internet, fabswingers, you dont have to meet anyone, but you can have a rare old time lookin up profiles, and pictures, and message folk too.

That appeals to him, ohh he absolutely luvs that idea !!

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