FabSwingers.com forum: Is it Possible for single guy to get anywhere on here?

By *he real Nessie OP Man
4 weeks ago

inverness

Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
4 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates"
of course its possible.

There are loads of lovely gentlemen who are successful on here.

Only you will know how you approach people on here.

Make your profile stand out with a decent bio & photos .

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By *eoffrey 888Man
4 weeks ago

Carlow

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates"

If you have a pussy your on the ball for sure but otherwise it’s not easy

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By *candiumWoman
4 weeks ago

oban

Correct the spelling in your profile. Sorry to be a pedant but it would put me off.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Make your profile stand out with a decent bio & photos."

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Sometimes a little introspection is required...and that ⬆️ would be the first place to start. 🩶

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By *ochy 5-0Man
4 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Socialise is probably the best way forward.

A woman on here is a needle in a haystack of men.

Some men are very successful, even prolific, the vast majority are not.

I’m no expert, have met a couple of nice ladies. I’m fussy and stick to what suits me, and don’t try to be someone I’m not. But we’re all different.

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By *he real Nessie OP Man
4 weeks ago

inverness

Doh !

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By *andystick72Man
4 weeks ago

kinky Street

Yep

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By *lasgowSeesawMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates"

Just tell people you know me, then you'll get hit on

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By *ochy 5-0Man
4 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates

Just tell people you know me, then you'll get hit on

Is that hit (love hit) on or hit on (skelpped)

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By *irJonCoxMan
4 weeks ago

Ayr

In my opinion. Have a good profile and pictures. Be polite, witty and down to earth and respectful in all chats. After all that a a slice of luck may be needed. All the best!

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By *WNMan
4 weeks ago

Usually Dundee and around

My suggestions would be, don't whine about how hard it is to meet...

Get to a local social and get some good veris both ways...

Then just start chats and look for connections

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By *ab365XMan
4 weeks ago

Paisley

Just go to a club event, end of story.

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've met a few over the years, so I'd say it certainly happens!

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By *eiaorganaWoman
4 weeks ago

Dundee

With the amount of fantasists and time wasters on here now, you'd be better off getting along to an organised social or club to get your face out there and get those initial verifications. That will give you a step up.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
4 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Really wouldn’t put much effort in on here at all.

You have to do so much on here to make yourself stand out as a real person.

As others have said get along to a few socials and some club events. There’s one for every taste.

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By *erfHerder74Man
4 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I have met men as playmates but not for a few years now.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates"

You’ve never msg me

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By *elpieMan
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

As other have said, a decent bio goes a long way. Not being overly sexual off the bat (there are people behind profiles, not just objects).

My best recommendation would be to go to local socials, it's the best way to meet people who are active in the scene, genuine, and shows you're genuine also. It's also good to meet people, especially single women, in a neutral public place where it's safer for them.

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By *ncomplicated GuyMan
4 weeks ago

bathagte

It’s hard but you need to be patient is tough but just find being up front and genuine helps plus don’t waste anyone’s time, I’m straight to the point and upfront with what I am looking for and chat to as we all people, judging the tone is always difficult but I found just being myself has worked and meet a couple of great women, but it is tough no doubt

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By *2teleMan
4 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates"

1 reply in 20 is actually doing alright on here

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By *irJonCoxMan
4 weeks ago

Ayr

1 in 20 is pretty good going

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By *eebee9Couple
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates"

If you have put the most amount of effort into your profile as you think is appropriate. You will most likely get an appropriate amount and quality of a response.

Theres plenty of very good male profiles on here, and they have good levels of success.

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By *r Do and Mrs DreamCouple
4 weeks ago

edinburgh

Grey joggers = instant no here

1 photo = lazy = no

Male profiles that are minimal effort have high chance of being time waster

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By *arklotus619Man
4 weeks ago

Livingston

Be respectful is number 1,

Read the profile and incorporate that into your first message to show you have read it, even if there a bit at the bottom of the profile saying say this word in your message

If it's a couples account when talking dont just focus on the female side of the account, include the male side as well,

Have a good profile for them to read

And once again be respectful even in rejection

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By *WNMan
4 weeks ago

Usually Dundee and around

Of course it's possible.

Going to some socials or clubs helps.

But otherwise build up rapport through chat/forums and read profiles.

Works for me.

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By *uperboabyMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

It is mate, just need to keep it simple and by patient with a lady.

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By *nake85Man
3 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

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By *heQuietSensualistMan
2 days ago

Dundee

Christ! It is hard to get any kind of connection as a single man; I find no one really talks to an unverified man

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By *HotScotsCouple
2 days ago

Scotland

You’ve only got one pic.. I would start there

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By *eeejMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

Send multiple dick pix they'll crack soon enough

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By *ewDamen89Man
23 hours ago

ibrox

My inbox stays flooded.......

With dudes

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By *ewDamen89Man
23 hours ago

ibrox

"Send multiple dick pix they'll crack soon enough "

Hahahaha

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By *ohca79Man
17 hours ago

glasgow

"Send multiple dick pix they'll crack soon enough

Hahahaha

Instructions unclear, have sent more dick pix to be sure

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By *earded RogueMan
16 hours ago

EDINBURGH

absolutley

spent a little of single years on here and had plenty of meets .

went to socials . clubs and even fell in love . ( the one that got away )

had a couples profile with fwb and the volume of messages is overwhelming . never mind a single lady !!

your a tiny fish in huge pond and woman control the fishing . they can pick and choose at their leisure .and who can blame them .

reality is that most you wouldn't look twice at in the street but on here they have an inflated ego as a lot of guys on here would fuck a cut in a tramps forehead .

but if you want it you need to stand out and get active and busy . be patient .

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By *argaidMan
13 hours ago

glasgow

Never once through the site. Socials are the way to go.

Even if you get a reply then odds are you'll be ghosted after a message or two. Chat used to be a good way to get known and be in a good place to chat at a social but the Scottish room is usually near-empty and a total sausage-fest these days.

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By *eeejMan
13 hours ago

Glasgow

"Send multiple dick pix they'll crack soon enough

Hahahaha

Instructions unclear, have sent more dick pix to be sure"

😆😆

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By *andystick72Man
12 hours ago

kinky Street

I do good on here and in the club

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By *unlovingFiferMan
12 hours ago

Cupar Fife

You just have to keep at it keep trying and hope you get lucky im very aware most are out my league 😂

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By *dtfMan
12 hours ago

Edinburgh

nope

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By *lasgowSeesawMan
12 hours ago

Glasgow

"Try to be original funny cheeky , in contact messages, lucky to get reply 1outta every 20 messages

Has any single guy successfully made playmates"

To be honest, I've been on here well over 10 years and I've never had a fun meet

So it is so hard for single guys

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By *eopoldBloomMan
7 hours ago

Glasgow

I mainly play with a FWB so not really me. But I do get a regular stream of women complementing my cock - I'm a little under 8" so not massive but even so that seems to help

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By *estiswestMan
6 hours ago

glasgow

It does happen yes even if the stats are against it

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