FabSwingers.com forum: Recognising people

By *apleguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Livingston

I would never ever out any1 on this as we are all on it for different reasons. I have spoke to a few people that I have known and showed them who I am (only if we chat) some people tho that I have recognised on this has shocked me and turns me on a wee bit. Does this happen to any1 else? I wonder if any1 has any funny stories.

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By *astcoastmanMan
2 weeks ago

Portobello

Was a bit of a shock finding my parents on here.....

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By *apleguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Livingston

That’s enough internet for the day lol

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By *inkyDarkKnightMan
2 weeks ago

Gala

Yes I have came across a few people and couples I know.

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By *unlovingFiferMan
2 weeks ago

Cupar Fife

We are all on here for a reason dont see why it would matter if we recognised someone we knew as all consenting adults and what ever happens on or off fab stays between all involved

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By *ympho6969Woman
2 weeks ago

glasgow

I've recognised several people, and been recognised.

Some will reach out, some we figure out while chatting and sharing pics, and a couple I've figured out from in person conversations.

Discretion is key, so as long as it stays private, then there is no harm.

So far I've found

1 cousin (wish I didnt know this info)

5 men i work with (up from 4), there must be something in the air

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By *lasgowMan2026Man
2 weeks ago

Bishopton

Dont think it would bother me finding out someone I knew was on here. At the end of the day the reason I joined will not be disimilar to why they would have joined.

I would even gi as far to say I would reach out. Why not?

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By *ugbyBawsMan
2 weeks ago

Fife

Have recognised a few people on here from the real world, and have had chats with a couple of ladies about it through here.

But I would NEVER bring it up in person where another person could hear it.

Think the best policy is to at best give a knowing smirk and move on as I would hate for them to out me also.

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By *adhatters69Couple
2 weeks ago

Fife

It's inevitable that at some point you will bump into someone in the real world from fab or on fab from the real world. We've recently had a close friend be recognised in the real world and then been discussed amongst the fab community with things like their real name and job etc shared!! The scene is nothing without discretion but increasingly we are seeing that people will cherry pick who's circumstances deserve discretion.

What happened to live and let live? Very few of us mix fab life with real life and keep our involvement in the lifestyle from friends and family, all of us should know better than to out anyone on or off the scene 😔.

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By *ibesandVariety2.0Couple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Everyone is here for different reasons and I worry a lot about being “outed”.

But everything is legal. They are on here too. Have respect for people and let them do what they want.

I have recognised people I know on here and I just block them and move on. They are here for their reasons and I am mine. I like to think if we meet in a club it will be a case of smile and walk by.

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By *ifeIsShort69Couple
2 weeks ago

ayrshire

Ive seen family

On here but yknow what fuck it! Who cares were all here to fufill desires!

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By *eiaorganaWoman
2 weeks ago

Dundee

A guy who works in the same building me messages me periodically. I've never let on I know

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By *erfHerder74Man
2 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I’d love it if someone I knew was here, or even someone I pad by regularly

It increases the chances of bed play but it’s not always necessary

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By *im for all timesMan
2 weeks ago

West Linton

Can you share their profile 🤣🤣

It was a hot shock finding a Nun who I see in the community - she was new and she hadn’t filled out her profile. I asked her what she was into but she didn’t have any dirty habits 🤦🤦

I ask for a meet - not a prayer, she said she would be happy if we could not mention her name and that gossip was a sin. I agree Sister was my reply - which was not something I ever thought i would say on here

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By *n love with a notionCouple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We have had quite a lot of people who we know from work/ sports/ hobbies write to us- not knowing it us.

Looks like the circles we move in real life are full of fab people ha ha.

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By *lanenakedMan
2 weeks ago

near you .. but not too near

Had a woman from here obviously recognise me from some chat we must have had in the past come up to me in the pub and ask in front of my mates are you on fabswingers .. thankfully none of them heard as I was standing the closest and the music was super loud .. after a quick reply she just walked off .. so I don't engage with local women on here I don't want my friends and family finding out I'm on a sex site. That's the way I prefer it. If people try to dismiss it then that's an arrogant red flag. No there's no 'cheating' going on 🙄 .. it's called personal preference.

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By *uds1Couple
2 weeks ago

lanark

We had a guy from our local pub recognised us

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By *ayandjimCouple
2 weeks ago

scotland

Had some one message us and I went to school with them and saw another at dogging car park so drove away we always ask for face photo before we meet and on holiday a few times guys would say they saw us nude on beach when we went back to hotel but would chat and even see us again on beach or roof top nude and chat

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By *ab365XMan
2 weeks ago

Paisley

Found my work crush on here, ah, if only she knew! Xxx

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A guy recognised me years ago messaged me about it then became a pest so had to block

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Found my work crush on here, ah, if only she knew! Xxx"

Tell her what have you got to lose?

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Wouldn't be shocked those I know personally know me fully and know I'm on here and I don't have any issues with that. I'm me 100% of the time and know how to be an adult. I have a professional career and I have my personal and sexual life.

Fortunately I don't have masks or agendas.

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"A guy recognised me years ago messaged me about it then became a pest so had to block

Yeah same.. he recognised an uplift crotchless skirt shot I took based on our work carpet. He had a GF at the time and was a horrible person to her so definitely wasn't going to be a person I wanted to be disappointed by.

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By *lasgowpair76Couple
7 days ago

Near Glasgow

We have recognised a few folk on here from relatives to work colleagues but obviously always treat it with total discretion.

If the others engage in chat, winks or pic fabs then we will tell them who we are as it seems fair to give them the chance to move on or even block us if it freaks them out. If we don't have any engagement then we wouldn't message anyone just to randomly say we know who you are if that makes sense.

Either way it stays on here for us and we would never disclose it to anyone else.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
7 days ago

falkirk

Been recognised a couple of times. Always give the option to block or move on

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By *aydumfriesMan
7 days ago

heathhall

Yeah i started talking to a woman local to me, we didn't swap pics initially but when we did as we'd planned a social i realised it was my most recent ex....doh

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By *ike OxmallMan
7 days ago

in my bed, probably

I'm pretty sure I recognised a guy from my office in a video on here a few years ago, but I don't know him well enough to be sure. Given that I wasn't certain and I know him to look at but not really to speak to, I've never said anything

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