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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find people change the more successful they get on here?...........

you know a few favourable meets turns mild mannered Sid into Superstud?

Or when a guy/girl couples up ..... are you one of his/her friends that becomes an ex friend?

what about those you have seen become more successful, does your attitude change from one of " I really like them" to "I used to like them" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find people change the more successful they get on here?...........

you know a few favourable meets turns mild mannered Sid into Superstud?

Or when a guy/girl couples up ..... are you one of his/her friends that becomes an ex friend?

what about those you have seen become more successful, does your attitude change from one of " I really like them" to "I used to like them" ?

"

am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has happened with me a few times to be honest now i dont verify anyone until iv met them a few times as most of my meets were just looking for that one verification to get them goin!

but on the plus side, i have the ones i do see the most often and stay in touch with are the ones i think the most of! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find people change the more successful they get on here?...........

you know a few favourable meets turns mild mannered Sid into Superstud?

Or when a guy/girl couples up ..... are you one of his/her friends that becomes an ex friend?

what about those you have seen become more successful, does your attitude change from one of " I really like them" to "I used to like them" ?

am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was "

are you getting many more shags tho hun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whoa am confused is there 2 o this thread goin?? i seen another one and mary n bejus had replied and mine n stus had vanished now its back to original ??? im confused!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find people change the more successful they get on here?...........

you know a few favourable meets turns mild mannered Sid into Superstud?

Or when a guy/girl couples up ..... are you one of his/her friends that becomes an ex friend?

what about those you have seen become more successful, does your attitude change from one of " I really like them" to "I used to like them" ?

am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was

are you getting many more shags tho hun? "

lol...they just pat me on the head n say "there there there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think i have changed since coming on here, but i think its i just have less patients for idiots.... and i think i know what i want more now.... maybe

maybe im just a bitch....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find people change the more successful they get on here?...........

you know a few favourable meets turns mild mannered Sid into Superstud?

Or when a guy/girl couples up ..... are you one of his/her friends that becomes an ex friend?

what about those you have seen become more successful, does your attitude change from one of " I really like them" to "I used to like them" ?

am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was

are you getting many more shags tho hun?

lol...they just pat me on the head n say "there there there" "

hope they let go and let you up for air occasionally

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Do you find people change the more successful they get on here?...........

you know a few favourable meets turns mild mannered Sid into Superstud?

Or when a guy/girl couples up ..... are you one of his/her friends that becomes an ex friend

what about those you have seen become more successful, does your attitude change from one of " I really like them" to "I used to like them" ?

"

Laine ur spot in with everything u have said in this post i have said many times im not here just to shag but to make friends .....

Have had the usual ppl all over u in the room looking to meet then as soon as u do ur tossed aside like a dirty rag while they look for there next conquest ......

But on the plus side have made many many friends on here and i treasure them ......

I always say Love the ppl who matter to u and Like the ppl who dont

Luv jacs

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laine with some the answer is yes..

I did...

so I wont comment on others.. it's their prerogative to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea ppl do change i found an saw

with some ppl on here..they can be ya

best friend then next min they move on 2

another best friend lol an they forget

there old arse cause they think they

got a new one..ive never changed with

anyone at least i dont think i have

ive got 5 gd friends on here an i dont

need 2 say who they r cause they know

who they r..an plz if anyone think ive

changed in anyway..plz say ill no be

offened honesty is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think i have changed in the last year , have become more the person i want to be but i dont think i have changed in a bad way xkx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

hopefully i'm the same person i was when i joined just a little more confident about who i actually am and what i want from the site

the sex is great but i just love the wee community we have and the friends i have made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your answers peeps.

It would seem that most feel change is good, within yourselves, it's finding the confidence and self assurance that makes you more able to see and say what you want from here.

Change in others can be a double edged sword though... let's hope we all keep and cherish our friends we make here xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definately am more choosey

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

ive not changed im still the wee quiet shy boy ive always been

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"ive not changed im still the wee quiet shy boy ive always been "

COUGH COUGH

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

I aint changed im still same old me say wot i want to say if you dont like it then tough.

And i still get all my shags when i want any dont i hedo babes hahahahahaah.

Alot of ppl tell me i say it as it is and in a way i do coz what ever comes into the grey matter at the time is normally what i type in the room.

What you see and hear is what you get a wee gobby porky brennie pmsl but hey who cares lol and face boverd NAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i noticed from being on here as a single fem then as a couple a people decided i wasnt a friend anymore lol they're loss i suppose as playing a lot more now then i have ever played as a single and i know who my friends are now. i suppose you dont really know someone till your friendship is questioned. i also had a run in with a guy who had chatted to me for weeks and seen my pics and had pestered me to go on cam so i did finally go on cam and i never heard from him again lol must have scared him off. Hit my confidence a lot but you live and learn xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way its beach(babs) who typed this not mad(iain) lol just in case you thought mad had had a sex change lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i noticed from being on here as a single fem then as a couple a people decided i wasnt a friend anymore lol they're loss i suppose as playing a lot more now then i have ever played as a single and i know who my friends are now. i suppose you dont really know someone till your friendship is questioned. i also had a run in with a guy who had chatted to me for weeks and seen my pics and had pestered me to go on cam so i did finally go on cam and i never heard from him again lol must have scared him off. Hit my confidence a lot but you live and learn xx "

As a single female I've also experienced it from the other side, lots of lovely guys play with you, chat with you daily but as soon as they are coupled up they mail saying don't worry we'll still be friends, then delete their single account.. never to mail you again from the couples account!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not changed.

Still the same crap talking, can't shut him up areshole I was when I joined

My wife has changed a bit but in a really good way.

p.s. Oh, and I'm still the modest sex god I always was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I aint changed im still same old me say wot i want to say if you dont like it then tough.

And i still get all my shags when i want any dont i hedo babes hahahahahaah.

Alot of ppl tell me i say it as it is and in a way i do coz what ever comes into the grey matter at the time is normally what i type in the room.

What you see and hear is what you get a wee gobby porky brennie pmsl but hey who cares lol and face boverd NAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

bert dont u ever change !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we.d never change for nobody what you see is what you get always xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've changed.... I've become more shy and slowed down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was "

same old same old stu!! lol...cept a bit more tea turgid!!!! lol( check the dictionary fur turgid stu) lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was

same old same old stu!! lol...cept a bit more tea turgid!!!! lol( check the dictionary fur turgid stu) lol"

you been pumpin Stu full again fugy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in the short time ive been here and have got to know people, whether at a social or simply through the chat room ive realised that 99% of people DONT judge and as such i can be honest and up front about my likes/dislikes.

and for that.....i thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have noticed changes in people on here, and its not only the reserve of single people ....couples too.

But have also noticed peoples attitude towards singles who become couples....ie speaking freely to them as a single , then when they become a couple some people want nothing to do with them.

A far as we are concerned if we spoke to them as a single we will continue to speak to them as a couple...... why should it be any different ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in the short time ive been here and have got to know people, whether at a social or simply through the chat room ive realised that 99% of people DONT judge and as such i can be honest and up front about my likes/dislikes.

and for that.....i thank you all"

ur welcome xx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was

same old same old stu!! lol...cept a bit more tea turgid!!!! lol( check the dictionary fur turgid stu)lol

you been pumpin Stu full again fugy? "

aw boak laine !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any single guy deciding from the off, "im now a swinger",wants an amount of "success" as in, wants to, as we all do,to be busy with lovely choices who to meet on the scene etc.

Friends? Thats a bonus, if your fellow swinger becomes a friend, great.

Bit confused about the singles becoming couples thing. If they shift the goalposts from being a fun single fem,to being a couple who over night put up the "NO Single Males" sign,thats not a success change, thats a choice to change?

Not changed,we all set out as i say wanting,hoping for our wee bit success.

We all do dont we?

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to say I haven't changed but then again if I was the same person I was when we started then I'm not sure if that would be a good thing??

Every experience changes you, whether in life or swinging.

I've made mistakes, for sure, but always try and treat people the way I'd want to be treated. Only one real regret in fucking up a friendship but all in all most of my experiences have been positive.

The friendship thing is a good point, I've lost touch with lots of people who where good friends in life but as we moved onto different stages we lost touch - doesn't make me a bad person.

As a male within a couple who plays alone I always find the after playing contact hard to judge, too much and you can be a pest no contact and you can offend or maybe I think to much?

Just ma 2 bobs worth but very interesting post Laine xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mr M, I too have found that as my swinging friendships strengthened my 'vanilla' friendships waned, some friends I hardly see any more, I'm not sure if it's just naturally drifting apart or the swinging that's been the cause.

On a personal note you and Mrs T seem to have the balance of play right, you play as a couple, you each play apart, and you keep in touch with contacts.

An interesting and honest answer, adding another dimension to the OP Thanks for that. xxxx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

am hopefully just the same...mad old idiot i always was

same old same old stu!! lol...cept a bit more tea turgid!!!! lol( check the dictionary fur turgid stu) lol

you been pumpin Stu full again fugy? "

345 days to go....so am saying nothing

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