FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters

By *ohn831 OP Man
6 days ago

Glasgow

Hi everyone. Generally speaking. The fab community is such a great community filled with amazing people. But how do we go about dealing with time wasters? People who arrange meets and then don’t show, ghost and then block you?

I’m a firm believer that no one is under any obligation to meet with or interact with anyone in any way if they chose not to… and I totally understand that you might have a change of heart or have found a better option - but common decency goes a long way.

How do we go about policing our own community?

By *ympho6969Woman
6 days ago

glasgow

Unfortunately there isn't a negative veri option here.

Sometimes I wish there was. I'm all for people changing their mind, I've done it myself but I have the balls to tell them well ahead of the meet.

I can't stand those who don't bother and make you look like a fool or cancel on you as you arrive.

I just try to move on and hope I find that regular fwb that I click with

By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

Is this a general question, OP or have you personally and repeatedly experienced so called timewasters and ghosters?

By *uzanne and RickyCouple
5 days ago

Midlothian

The main reason we stopped meeting. It was endless. Went through a spell where every guy we’d arranged to meet cancelled, even social meets. Pity.