FabSwingers.com forum: Safe or bare

By *woforfun2000 OP Couple
6 days ago

Angus just outskirts Dundee

Have noticed more people are now prepared to play bare what's others veiws

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
6 days ago

Ayrshire

Safe all the way!

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By *lbie6Man
6 days ago

glasgow

Safe unless in a relationship

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By *exy gentMan
6 days ago

Midlothian

Safe

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By *inkystateofmindMan
6 days ago

Edinburgh

Always safe

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By *hruster692000Man
6 days ago

arbroath

Safe unless in a relationship x

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By *exyscottishsinnersCouple
6 days ago

Central Scotland

We play safe with others but bare with each other but we are in a relationship x

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By *erlinmateMan
6 days ago

cumnock

Better safe than sorry.

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By *ingdomGent55Man
6 days ago

Fife

Safe, end of

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By *oupleInSyncCouple
6 days ago

Falkirk

Missy and I play bare with each other, but we are in a relationship. Safe with anyone outside our Polycule.

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By *ympho6969Woman
6 days ago

glasgow

A lot more than i would like. I play safe. Took 6 years with a regular fwd before we changed that and we have rules about it too.

I see a lot on here claim to always be safe, then ask for bare, or say they would do it if I would, or have recently done it.

Do your own thing, but honesty should be mandatory when it has the potential to affect my health.

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By *an-SoloMan
6 days ago

Scotland

Always safe

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By *r Do and Mrs DreamCouple
5 days ago

edinburgh

If only we cared about our diets as much as the bare / covered debate - our health would be massively improved. But alas, no, we just talk about our health being the most important thing we have, while simultaneously self harming our bodies with the sugar and processed food...

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By *omble 69Man
5 days ago

Symington

Safe

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By *layful-Tattooed-MilfWoman
5 days ago

west Lothian

My issue with the safe or bare is.each to their own

However if U are a huge advocate for safe then U should still be doing oral safe.meeting a potential dirty dick/pussy and only being safe when it comes to the fucking part isn't being safe.sti can be caught in the mouth and throat.so U lick that potential dirty dick/pussy and risk an sti in mouth or throat but wrap in up for sex

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By *ale guyMan
5 days ago

Alexandria

Safe always unless it's with a partner. Not that I have one at the moment.

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By *allscot007Man
5 days ago

Glasgow , London UK

Always safe 💯 with new playmates.

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By *orge71Man
5 days ago

Glasgow

Safe to start with with someone new

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By *ibesandVariety2.0Couple
5 days ago

Edinburgh

Always play safe with others but bare together. In terms of oral we are bare, I get the logic but we are tested regularly.

If anyone suggests playing full sex bare it’s a turn off and I’m out.

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By *erfHerder74Man
5 days ago

Inverclyde

Safe unless in a relationship

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By *unlovingFiferMan
4 days ago

Cupar Fife

"My issue with the safe or bare is.each to their own

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By *ibesandVariety2.0Couple
4 days ago

Edinburgh

I (mr) think the stigma of potential “dirty dick” is wrong too. “They’re riddled” is another one. Anyone can get an sti doesn’t mean they are dirty it’s an infection. As long as people are tested, play safe and it can be resolved.

The taste of condoms is minging, personally oral we won’t use protection but when it comes to penetrative sex we will and would never play with anyone who doesn’t. But that’s just us.

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By *ldisgold5753Couple
4 days ago

Motherwell

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By *ldisgold5753Couple
4 days ago

Motherwell

Always play safe when meeting fellow singers x

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By *en-21Man
4 days ago

edinburgh

Always safe

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By *din-subMan
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Safe is the only way.

I read a year ago or so that HIV is spreading like wildfire again, due to people not having safe sex.

There are also lots of STI’s and STD’s that show no symptoms, of no symptoms for a while.

So you could be spreading things without even realising.

Why would you even consider it?

If I see that someone practices bb, I wouldn’t ever meet them!

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By *ohca79Man
2 days ago

glasgow

I think it's all about mitigating risk, swinging is probably a slightly riskier type of hookup as you are engaging with people that, by the nature of the lifestyle are likely to be meeting multiple partners.

For me that means I take prep and I would always rubber up, whether I'm going to a meet through the site, hooking up on tinder or fucking a fwb.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
2 days ago

Aberdeen

Safe always, fab is a small place especially the smaller pool of potential people to meet with around your local area, it only takes one person to infect half the local fabbers.

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By *ibesandVariety2.0Couple
2 days ago

Edinburgh

"I think it's all about mitigating risk, swinging is probably a slightly riskier type of hookup as you are engaging with people that, by the nature of the lifestyle are likely to be meeting multiple partners.

For me that means I take prep and I would always rubber up, whether I'm going to a meet through the site, hooking up on tinder or fucking a fwb.

Whilst I agree that there is a high risk but how many people in the vanilla life will meet at a night club and have sex week in week out without protection. I think the scene is a lot safer as it’s no stigma attached and people (like us now) are talking about it.

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By *ohca79Man
2 days ago

glasgow

For me that means I take prep and I would always rubber up, whether I'm going to a meet through the site, hooking up on tinder or fucking a fwb.

I think its an understood risk, as people are meeting here in most cases with the explicit intention of sex and probably at a higher volume than "normal" life, but I agree that folk in the lifestyle are likely a bit more aware and onboard with their sexual health and open to discuss it without stigma.

There's probably an interesting study on statistics and risk that could be done on it.

What I like about this site is how it normalises discussion around expectations for testing, prep and condoms etc...

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By *eard and LegsCouple
2 days ago

Central belt

Always safe with others, but bare when it’s just the two of us

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By *plelikesfun123Couple
3 hours ago

Basildon

We think in this lifestyle whether you use condoms or not, you should be testing yourself regularly.

As earlier in the thread even oral has its risks, we have also seen many times at clubs and parties guys playing with themselves with their pre-cum on their fingers then playing with women, or moving from women to women with wanking in between. This is why we feel it's so important for people to test regularly.

We would always use condoms for penetration and we do understand the risks on oral and guys playing with their fingers, however we do like going bare only if they have a history of testing and can show recent tests. Its the history of tests that important as it shows they are concerned about their sexual health.

Its amazing the amount of people we have talked to who have never been tested and obviously can't show test results, this is irresponsible, even if they use condoms or as a many guys have told us "never been tested as only playing with clean couples", we see this as a huge red flags if people have never been at least tested for STI's, even with penetration with condoms.

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
2 hours ago

nowhere, next to neverbeenthere

"If only we cared about our diets as much as the bare / covered debate - our health would be massively improved. But alas, no, we just talk about our health being the most important thing we have, while simultaneously self harming our bodies with the sugar and processed food..."

Just fat shamed the whole thread🤣🤣

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
2 hours ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Always play safe and sadly because of previous relationships and seeming to constantly pick liars and cheats even in a relationship if I decide not to use anything I still go for regular check ups now for my own peace of mind. My little darlings always know when I’ve been “at it” by the little green card that appears in the car lol 😂 I leave it where I can see it to remember to phone for my results

Although I do have to take a trip to the clinic and get more condoms as my stash is all out of date

And I’m sick of buying them !! £18 a packet !!

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