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"We try not to judge anyone's reasons for being on here and we do appreciate people being honest about their relationship status. What we do not like is someone who slags off their partner, which we have seen more than once. Or people who are clearly trying to squeeze in a quick fuck before going home for their tea. " That’s a nice reply and refreshing to hear outwith the judgemental who are always in a better place than the people they like to judge. | |||
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"We try not to judge anyone's reasons for being on here and we do appreciate people being honest about their relationship status. What we do not like is someone who slags off their partner, which we have seen more than once. Or people who are clearly trying to squeeze in a quick fuck before going home for their tea. " what about a quickie after their tea?  | |||
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"Will only meet guys in that situation They are more appreciative and also single guys tend to think there will be a “happy ever after” Married guys that love their wives but miss Intimacy know the score " Exactly this, separate rooms and no intimacy for more than 10 years | |||
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"I’ve always been open that I’m a married F/T carer with a wife that has a terminal, degenerative condition. I know it puts many couples and females off and I accept that. What I do find funny tho is the many who say NO married men ever but, at a club or GG / GB event, are not the least concerned about relationship status then" Ive said this many a time . If its that important to them to state it on a profile then at least do your homework otherwise it just makes them look like a fool. | |||
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"I'm in this same position would rather not be on here looking but unfortunately as you said it's the cards they have been dealt" Same with me. Knocked back many years ago when I suggested sex. No reason, no explanation and sleeping in a spare room. I just accepted it. It’s very common for men my age to feel down, unwanted, low self esteem and coerced. I just want to live my life a little bit. The only alternative is the men’s shed, but that may encourage alcoholism | |||
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"Are any couples ever into meeting married guys who are honest about being married but whose wife doesnt know hes on here?" No not our thing. If you’re not honest with the person you’re married to then how are we to expect that you’ll be honest with us ? | |||
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"Are any couples ever into meeting married guys who are honest about being married but whose wife doesnt know hes on here? No not our thing. If you’re not honest with the person you’re married to then how are we to expect that you’ll be honest with us ? " I respect that, but it’s not strictly the case. Some are open about it, and are not having sex with their partner. Many more are lying to both parties. | |||
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"Are any couples ever into meeting married guys who are honest about being married but whose wife doesnt know hes on here? No not our thing. If you’re not honest with the person you’re married to then how are we to expect that you’ll be honest with us ? I respect that, but it’s not strictly the case. Some are open about it, and are not having sex with their partner. Many more are lying to both parties." Your question was about people who are on here without their partners knowledge. Regardless your reasons for being on here, if it’s without your partner knowing then it comes down to trust and communication. Both are very important to us | |||
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"I think there are more people than you realise sleeping in seperate beds for many reasons. In my opinion its almost impossible to get everything from just one woman or man particularly where their health may have suffered and no longer able to be sexually active. This site appears to be very judgemental on those that love their wives or partners and wont leave them but still have needs that they want to fulfill. I understand that there are many people that want their cake and eat it, but there are many that are judged as cheating and simply want the best of all worlds which isn't necessarily the case. Too many on here take the moral high ground and judging others who lives they know nothing about and casting aspersions on a situation they have little understanding on...just my opinion 🤷♂️" Is it taking moral high ground over dishonesty? | |||
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"I think there are more people than you realise sleeping in seperate beds for many reasons. In my opinion its almost impossible to get everything from just one woman or man particularly where their health may have suffered and no longer able to be sexually active. This site appears to be very judgemental on those that love their wives or partners and wont leave them but still have needs that they want to fulfill. I understand that there are many people that want their cake and eat it, but there are many that are judged as cheating and simply want the best of all worlds which isn't necessarily the case. Too many on here take the moral high ground and judging others who lives they know nothing about and casting aspersions on a situation they have little understanding on...just my opinion 🤷♂️ Is it taking moral high ground over dishonesty? " Like I said, some are not honest about their status. But there are other aspects to people’s characters putting aside promiscuity | |||
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"I absolutely judge, and I don't feel bad for it. It's supposed to be through sickness and heath, 'til death do us part, not until she doesn't fuck me any more. The lack of respect in a person some people will tolerate for a shag baffles me. I wouldn't meet anyone I know is cheating, under any circumstance. " I think those vows are a bit old fashioned now a days with many couples doing thier own updated versions that do not include to promise to love,honour & obey through sickness & in health till death do us part. I think the reason for this is times have changed with partners seen as equals also things that are promised are often what was felt at the time but things do change as time passes . | |||
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"I absolutely judge, and I don't feel bad for it. It's supposed to be through sickness and heath, 'til death do us part, not until she doesn't fuck me any more. The lack of respect in a person some people will tolerate for a shag baffles me. I wouldn't meet anyone I know is cheating, under any circumstance. " Maybe you havent been in that position which I assume you haven't. Some people have endured years of loneliness and feeling unwanted and rejection, its not always a question of simply 'disrespect" because ahe doesnt fuck any more.... | |||
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"I think there are more people than you realise sleeping in seperate beds for many reasons. In my opinion its almost impossible to get everything from just one woman or man particularly where their health may have suffered and no longer able to be sexually active. This site appears to be very judgemental on those that love their wives or partners and wont leave them but still have needs that they want to fulfill. I understand that there are many people that want their cake and eat it, but there are many that are judged as cheating and simply want the best of all worlds which isn't necessarily the case. Too many on here take the moral high ground and judging others who lives they know nothing about and casting aspersions on a situation they have little understanding on...just my opinion 🤷♂️ Is it taking moral high ground over dishonesty? " Everyone has their reasons for being on here and shouldn't be judged by others for their choice of why that is... | |||
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