FabSwingers.com forum: What’s that all about lol

bathgate

So this has happened to me a few times now. I’ve seen a status update from someone and it says something like looking for my holes filled or a certain kink or just what the person is looking for in a guy. I will send a message saying that im up for said thing or im that type of guy etc etc. The message will always be lighthearted and wrote in a fun way, never offensive or pushy or wrote multiple times with ??? At the end lol. Then I’ll check my sent messages and see it’s been read and deleted and I’ve been blocked. So as the title says Whats thst all about lol?

By *eiaorganaWoman
5 weeks ago

Dundee

It's because something about your profile, message or photo doesn't match what they are looking for.

You could think you match everything their profile asks for, and send a well written message, but if they're not attracted to you then it doesn't matter.

The block is usually used as a filter for people they are interested in, it just avoids further messages from people who don't match their preferences, it isn't personal.

Move on and try to find people that you do match with. These posts don't do single guys any favours, just makes it look like a whinge, and there are many of them.