FabSwingers.com forum: How do I get started on here

By *edheadrailing OP Man
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Been on here for a few weeks and not quite getting there on here to try anyone and anything I can if anyone got any tips?

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By *punk AnansieWoman
7 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

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By *punk AnansieWoman
7 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"Been on here for a few weeks and not quite getting there on here to try anyone and anything I can if anyone got any tips?"

I think your lack of profile might have something to do with it , you have no picture nor any text really . You profiles like a shop window and you need something to draw people in with .

You age unfortunately for you will hinder you aswell . The bracket for your age group is a pretty small one .

You've only been here 3 weeks aswell which along with your age and duration screams newbie and possibly too vanilla .

Keep going add some stuff to your profile and try and put yourself out there. If treating it as a chance to "pull" you'd probably have more chance on a night out than on here .

Dont get too dishearted but will take a while . When you think of the amount of male users thats online you need to stand out from the crowd .

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By *ollyRoxxxWoman
7 weeks ago

Wishaw

"Been on here for a few weeks and not quite getting there on here to try anyone and anything I can if anyone got any tips?

I think your lack of profile might have something to do with it , you have no picture nor any text really . You profiles like a shop window and you need something to draw people in with .

You age unfortunately for you will hinder you aswell . The bracket for your age group is a pretty small one .

You've only been here 3 weeks aswell which along with your age and duration screams newbie and possibly too vanilla .

Keep going add some stuff to your profile and try and put yourself out there. If treating it as a chance to "pull" you'd probably have more chance on a night out than on here .

Dont get too dishearted but will take a while . When you think of the amount of male users thats online you need to stand out from the crowd ."

I have nothing to add, except I love that you are 'Spunk Anansie' 💜 well done!! 🤘🏻🤘🏻

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By *eiaorganaWoman
7 weeks ago

Dundee

"Been on here for a few weeks and not quite getting there on here to try anyone and anything I can if anyone got any tips?

I think your lack of profile might have something to do with it , you have no picture nor any text really . You profiles like a shop window and you need something to draw people in with .

You age unfortunately for you will hinder you aswell . The bracket for your age group is a pretty small one .

You've only been here 3 weeks aswell which along with your age and duration screams newbie and possibly too vanilla .

Keep going add some stuff to your profile and try and put yourself out there. If treating it as a chance to "pull" you'd probably have more chance on a night out than on here .

Dont get too dishearted but will take a while . When you think of the amount of male users thats online you need to stand out from the crowd ."

All of this, plus if you are serious about the lifestyle then getting along to socials and clubs will give you a boost and get those important first verifications

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By *ylonfan38Man
7 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

I can only concur. Greatest name I've seen in here lol

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By *aughtyByNature82Man
7 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

Spunk Anansie’s done me there that brilliant

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By *lasgowMan2026Man
7 weeks ago

Bishopton

Would always say be authentic and don't chase. Quickest way to ruin a conversation is trying to move quickly to a meet.

I don't use public pictures but always include a clear face pic in messages. If someone likes me then great, if not, its no drama.

You will be surprised how often you get interactions when you don't hunt for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Also keen for tips for those finding their feet

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Get to clubs,although sex isn't guaranteed ita still good to go to gwt yourself seen. Use chat rooms and forums go to organised social events they will get you verified.

As for naughty meets you need patience and lots of it some guys wait years for a sexual meet

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Also keen for tips for those finding their feet"

Your pics look good but the lack only bio is not. Maybe fill that out and put a bit about yourself, your interests and what you’re looking for. Effort goes a long way.

MissJuicy is right, get yourself to a club. Yeah it can cost but it’s worth it. You’ll meet people and it’s the best way to socialise. Maybe try a social and get busy on the forums. This isn’t a sex site it’s swinging. It’s a lifestyle. People aren’t always looking for just sex they want a person. Be a person and make chat, build your brand.

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By *cotsRugbyBuffMan
5 weeks ago

Secret

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By *hattome12Man
5 weeks ago

Grangemouth

Need plenty of patience and don't be a helmet

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