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By *oupleInSync OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Falkirk

Perhaps a slightly controversial subject, or at least thought provoking...

Couples, what are your experiences in talking to single guys with a view to meeting them together, do you find the majority are actually very keen to have fun with a couple, or do you find a percentage only have that they're willing to meet couples as a means to "gaining access" to the female of an MF couple?

We ask as we've encountered a fair few recently who have messaged as if it's only Missy that exists.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
2 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Perhaps a slightly controversial subject, or at least thought provoking...

Couples, what are your experiences in talking to single guys with a view to meeting them together, do you find the majority are actually very keen to have fun with a couple, or do you find a percentage only have that they're willing to meet couples as a means to "gaining access" to the female of an MF couple?

We ask as we've encountered a fair few recently who have messaged as if it's only Missy that exists. "
Tbh I think they are keen to meet a couple but some want their cake & eat it and sometimes try and approach the female to meet alone.

Also like you said some message like they are speaking only to the female which I think is a bit disrespectful and will always tell them that if they do .

However there are many genuine guys out there too who are only looking to meet single females.

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By *URRABULLCouple
2 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

We have exactly the same issue with guys sending messages as if it's only the female that exists. Just delete and move on. X

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By *r and Mrs Sauv BlancCouple
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"We have exactly the same issue with guys sending messages as if it's only the female that exists. Just delete and move on. X"

To be fair, your picture gallery only shows the female, so maybe that’s why the messages come across in that way. Just a wee observation that’s all x

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By *oupleInSync OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Falkirk


"We have exactly the same issue with guys sending messages as if it's only the female that exists. Just delete and move on. X

To be fair, your picture gallery only shows the female, so maybe that’s why the messages come across in that way. Just a wee observation that’s all x"

With respect, the only photo visible to any site user is one of both of us with faces blurred. We also feel that reading the bio, although we think a lot of people sadly don't, we are quite explicit about this too. X

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By *omxxxxMan
2 weeks ago

irvine

If meeting a couple I want to

Meet the couple and whatever that couples dynamic is. Be it fully engaged or some version of cuckold

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By *eedee7Couple
2 weeks ago

Carnoustie

Yes we get that a lot, I was away a short break recently and most guys wouldnt speak to Mr at all. Also we mostly look for versatile guys, they are hard to find

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By *xoticromanceMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'm more than happy to speak to Mr, as I think it's very fair that Mr would want to vet whoever they are meeting or invite over to their house.

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
2 weeks ago

New Cumnock

We will meet single males we have gotten to know together and are respectful of our relationship.

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By *imjimsmithMan
2 weeks ago

broughty ferry

I’m in PDI now and first time as a single guy and there are couple who specifically just want single guys

Not interested in couples one bit

Clubs have single guy nights which takes out all the fafing and lack of communication that can sometimes happen.

What I’ve discovered in this lifestyle is there’s someone for everyone but sometimes you have to look hard to find it

PDI brings that all together and makes it easier back home in a smaller place it’s hard to find that couple

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By *punk AnansieWoman
2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"We have exactly the same issue with guys sending messages as if it's only the female that exists. Just delete and move on. X

To be fair, your picture gallery only shows the female, so maybe that’s why the messages come across in that way. Just a wee observation that’s all x

With respect, the only photo visible to any site user is one of both of us with faces blurred. We also feel that reading the bio, although we think a lot of people sadly don't, we are quite explicit about this too. X"

I think they were referencing the comment above theirs thats why they used quotations .

I think its a very valid point . If a couples profile only shows pics of the female half of the couple then it will most likely be guys thinking they're only speaking with the female half of the couple because going by pictures I seems like its the female thats the active participant of the site .

Also think if you're running a couples profile both sides of the couple should be visible and not only just the female. I get that some guys dont want to be visible but in terms of meeting as a couple I think if the womans visible so should the guy .

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Perhaps a slightly controversial subject, or at least thought provoking...

Couples, what are your experiences in talking to single guys with a view to meeting them together, do you find the majority are actually very keen to have fun with a couple, or do you find a percentage only have that they're willing to meet couples as a means to "gaining access" to the female of an MF couple?

We ask as we've encountered a fair few recently who have messaged as if it's only Missy that exists. "

If they're straight guys only looking to have sexual contact with the woman of a couple, I can understand it.

Assuming you're the male half of the couple, what are your concerns?

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By *andsCouple
2 weeks ago

Edin

Not entirely sure of your question. A single straight guy looking to meet a couple only wants to interact sexually with the woman so yes it is designed to get access to the female. Absolutely speak with both members of the couple and interact but with a view to meeting them it is the female they want to mainly meet.

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By *astnWestCouple
2 weeks ago

Nr Edinburgh/Inverclyde

We've had guys either just wanting female meet or they just chat get their rocks off meet arranged and don't turn up.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yeah we have a regular we meet for this reason

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By *bcplCouple
2 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

I’d say about 99% of the messages we get might start hi Mr and Mrs and then that’s about the only interaction you get with regards playing with a couple looking for guys.

We’re lucky and have met some regulars who appreciate I like photos and videos etc

Mr

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By *exy gentMan
7 days ago

Midlothian


"We've had guys either just wanting female meet or they just chat get their rocks off meet arranged and don't turn up."

To be honest, I genuinely don't think i could get my rocks off through chat, unless I knew something physical was to come of the chat

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By *SharedAdventureCouple
7 days ago

Edinburgh

In general we are looking to meet men. Its been quite hard work at times. Many like the idea but not the reality. Also finding 3 way attracton is very important to us. That makes an already small pool of potential, even more shallow!

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By *exy gentMan
7 days ago

Midlothian


"In general we are looking to meet men. Its been quite hard work at times. Many like the idea but not the reality. Also finding 3 way attracton is very

important to us. That makes an already small pool of potential, even more shallow!"

I've never been called hard work before, cup of tea and I'm all yours lol

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