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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

...invites you to their house, gives you the postcode, & when you arrive & message them to tell them, they block you & turn their phone off?? I'm not knocking a random door at this time of night.

Bloody wasted journey :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they were watching from their windae and didn't like the look of you?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

or the motor wasnt worth robbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they were watching from their windae and didn't like the look of you? "
Bit harsh,but could be true.

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe they were watching from their windae and didn't like the look of you? "

No way they would have seen me, it was too dark. Hmm, I'm suspicious!!

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Now THAT is the definition of a timewaster lol. Sorry mate, that's the upmost of a shitty thing to happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they were watching from their windae and didn't like the look of you? Bit harsh,but could be true. "

I almost did it once but realised I was watching the wrong laddie

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

What a shitty thing to do

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

That's just wrong... Don't let it get you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they were watching from their windae and didn't like the look of you?

No way they would have seen me, it was too dark. Hmm, I'm suspicious!!"

Suspicious of what? Was it a verified profile with their verifies open? A man pretending to be a woman?

Anyway, no excuse at all for that. I know it's of no consolation but you will not be the first or last guy this will happen to. Just one if the knocks some of us experience in the pursuit of fun.

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

The profile had a couple of pics, I added as a friend, saw more pics, not just porn pics ripped off the web. They had 2 verifications, open to see.

I'm not gonna spit out the dummy & storm off the site, I've met genuine couples on here. But that is crappy behaviour if you ask me. I'm kinda peeved to be fair. A hug would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate drove from Glasgow to Ayr then the woman blanked him. He went to her door then she started the hovering. (she knew he was driving that far)

Two verifies is not a lot. They might have been fake verifies.

Any ladies up for meeting him and giving him a hug??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile had a couple of pics, I added as a friend, saw more pics, not just porn pics ripped off the web. They had 2 verifications, open to see.

I'm not gonna spit out the dummy & storm off the site, I've met genuine couples on here. But that is crappy behaviour if you ask me. I'm kinda peeved to be fair. A hug would be good."

Brings you cake and a big hug... Aw fuck it I'll sook ye too

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

Brings you cake and a big hug... Aw fuck it I'll sook ye too "

Awww cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple tonight spit the dummy with me because they contacted me then wanted me to drive over 50 miles to there place without showing a pic and having no verifications on there profile. I got a reply back that was as long as war and peace giving me abuse and calling me a silly little boy who should trust people and i was the time waster lol. But i wasnt driving that far to end up in the same situation lol

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I had a couple tonight spit the dummy with me because they contacted me then wanted me to drive over 50 miles to there place without showing a pic and having no verifications on there profile. I got a reply back that was as long as war and peace giving me abuse and calling me a silly little boy who should trust people and i was the time waster lol. But i wasnt driving that far to end up in the same situation lol"

For the record, that sounds to me like you made the right, sensible decision. Lots of lovely people on here, but there are some right headbangers too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you naming & shaming them ?

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope. I'm not going on the naughty step for pointing out a timewaster, it's highly unfair. If they wish to defend themselves, they can feel free to unblock me & message me though. I'm all ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you naming & shaming them ?"
Easy to say, the guys met decent, fun, no nonsense people, quite sure he knows when he's been royaly dicked about.

Theres been no naming or shaming, just an experience we can all glean knowledge from, which i personally would luv to see more of in forums, so please dont turn an honest thread yet again turn into something its not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Brings you cake and a big hug... Aw fuck it I'll sook ye too

Awww cheers! "
Here,,, mini cornetto,,very like the real thing ehh,,lol.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

That sucks.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Nope. I'm not going on the naughty step for pointing out a timewaster, it's highly unfair. If they wish to defend themselves, they can feel free to unblock me & message me though. I'm all ears."

Don't forget to report them to admin as a timewaster - if they make a habit of it or are fakes who get their kicks from messing people about it's the only way to discourage them from the site.

Just click on report on a message or by typing their user name then the no show/timewaster option is there.

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


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Don't forget to report them to admin as a timewaster - if they make a habit of it or are fakes who get their kicks from messing people about it's the only way to discourage them from the site.

Just click on report on a message or by typing their user name then the no show/timewaster option is there."

As you say its the only recourse really. The situation does make you feel a bit of a wally haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's terrible behaviour!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...invites you to their house, gives you the postcode, & when you arrive & message them to tell them, they block you & turn their phone off?? I'm not knocking a random door at this time of night.

Bloody wasted journey :/ "

Was there a healthy amount of pre-meet messages or did you jump at a random invite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's terrible. We could never do that to someone. Some people just have no thought for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me mate.

I drove all the way to Edinburgh one night and when I got there she'd turned her phone off. Deliberately it turned out, because she wanted to watch East Enders omnibus edition. lol

Some folk........

Needless to say, she got permanently blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do you meet at there home first

should do a social meet in a ie cafa

or a pub

meet half way point rather than go some were you dont even no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to me mate.

I drove all the way to Edinburgh one night and when I got there she'd turned her phone off. Deliberately it turned out, because she wanted to watch East Enders omnibus edition. lol

Some folk........

Needless to say, she got permanently blocked."

She chose Eastenders over a handsome hunk like you, needs her head examining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just not on hunni, shocking behaviour. Defo report them as timewasters and big huggz for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do you meet at there home first

should do a social meet in a ie cafa

or a pub

meet half way point rather than go some were you dont even no"

May I suggest it's coz they're horny and don't want a 'social' meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound judgement

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Maybe they were watching from their windae and didn't like the look of you? Bit harsh,but could be true.

I almost did it once but realised I was watching the wrong laddie "

PMSL. Now that sounds so like you shewants!!!! xxx

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"It's happened to me mate.

I drove all the way to Edinburgh one night and when I got there she'd turned her phone off. Deliberately it turned out, because she wanted to watch East Enders omnibus edition. lol

Some folk........

Needless to say, she got permanently blocked.

She chose Eastenders over a handsome hunk like you, needs her head examining. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do you meet at there home first

should do a social meet in a ie cafa

or a pub

meet half way point rather than go some were you dont even no"

Did that,,, hour long train trip to Broughty ferry, standing in the agreed pub,, gradually realising who you messaged never had phone on and you certainly could not go round the pub randomly asking each and every couple if they were on fab,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's properly bad form, and having met you in person I can hand on heart say their loss. I'm really sorry. I'd offer you a hug but I reckon you'd appreciate a beer far more from the likes of me :p

Onwards and upwards though, don't let one bad experience sully a site full of awesome opportunities.

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"That's properly bad form, and having met you in person I can hand on heart say their loss. I'm really sorry. I'd offer you a hug but I reckon you'd appreciate a beer far more from the likes of me :p

Onwards and upwards though, don't let one bad experience sully a site full of awesome opportunities."

I'll always take a hug mate. Welcome back btw Feel free to send a wee PM, I can't message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was not a nice thing too happen too you . I'd give you a hug if that's that you need

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By *uitar_antihero OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cheers. I'm feeling alright now but I'm always up for a hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well the offer their if you ever need it .

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

That's terrible ((hugs)) Xx

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