FabSwingers.com forum: What’s the one piece of advice

By *wingers4u OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Scotland

What is the one piece of advice you would give to new swingers. We will start… Set boundaries from the very beginning xx

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By *aspberryWoman
3 weeks ago

glasgow/belfast

If something is not for you say no respectfully

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By *andsCouple
3 weeks ago

Edin

When it stops being fun it’s time to go

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By *ergie59Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Stick to what suits your agenda

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

If you're a woman - don't be so hesitant when it comes to messaging men. 🩶

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By *oupleInSyncCouple
3 weeks ago

Falkirk

Talk about boundaries, preferences and fantasy's in the cold light of day, not during sex.

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By *oykoiWoman
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Read the fab rules (sorry but guys especially) they really are helpful

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By *espect11Man
3 weeks ago

Scotland

Never ignore your instincts or lower your standards

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By *ergie59Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Keep it honest

I’ve seen altered photos and photos from 10 years ago, just leads to time wasting

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By *estless NativesCouple
3 weeks ago

Central Scotland

Set your standards and respect other's

Set your rules and respect other's

Be honest, not everyone is attracted

Be kind, a polite no thanks is enough

Don't compromise on the above

Remember, Fab is a bolt on to everyday life and we are all on here with our own wishes, needs and desires.

Have Fun

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By *hogun300Man
3 weeks ago

Dundee

Be patient and dont push anyone. Dont be a dick.

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By *ayKellyMan
2 weeks ago

Kinross

"Be patient and dont push anyone. Dont be a dick. "

Someone needs to look in the mirror pot, kettle, black

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By *inkyKineticismMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Don't rock up wasted ... Especially if into things that are not readily available in the corner shop ... Can make for a very embarrasing rendezvous

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlothian

Always have a social meet. Just a coffee or a beer just to see if you’re really attracted and if you click. Often they don’t turn up anyway and saves you the time if they’re fuck wits.

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By *ayKellyMan
2 weeks ago

Kinross

Lady, I am always polite and never produce bad language in chat.

Only people who lack good education and grammar revert to foul language

If you want to criticise me then please message direct as forums are for friendship and not insults

I wish you a lovely day ahead

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By *n call cockMan
2 weeks ago

renfrew

Don’t do something d*unk that you wouldn’t do sober.

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By *oo_BeesCouple
2 weeks ago

Saltcoats

Read profiles before messaging

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By *igYin n CowGirlCouple
2 weeks ago

New Cumnock

I totally agree with the OP.

Also, communication, respect and consent is key - always.

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By *punk AnansieWoman
2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Develope a thick skin , rejection is par for the course in this world .. just because your good-looking, have a great body doesn't entitle you to sex . It's much harder to "pull" on here than you would think .Being abusive with rejection slims your chances down further ,Folk talk

Engage socially with the world of fab , go to socials , go to clubs .. you get out what you put in .

Let your personality show through that'll get you far more meets than dick pics.

Have a profile thats worth reading .Think of it as window dressing . You need to be able to stand out from the crowd . Tell us some of your likes /dislikes ,"looking to meet for fun times" .. " been here before, fill in later" .. tell us nothing .

A no reply is a polite 'no thank you'

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By *ayKellyMan
2 weeks ago

Kinross

Just simply be nice and be kind

And if any idiots cause you trouble, block them.

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By *uriousCouple14Couple
2 weeks ago

West Lothian

Things can escalate.. quickly..

Doesn't mean they need to continue.

Have a code with your partner.. and/or..don't care if you offend someone..

Your life and your relationship.

Put you first.

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By *exySinners2Couple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

don't eat yellow snow

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By *isqueRopeCouple
2 weeks ago

South Lanarkshire

Don’t keep driving past red flags, it just leads to getting hurt!

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