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By *oyo55 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

kilmarnock

Really struggling to find people too meet on here any help would be appreciated

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By *ergie59Man
5 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Try being in Aberdeen!

Dire!

You have clubs down your way, why not try that?

That’s what I’d do.

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By *essicaBadbitsWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It’s always a struggle these days for anyone. A lot of people love the chat but the actual physical meet mor so much. The amount of ghosting, profile blocked you or profile disappeared is unreal. You just have to stick at it unfortunately there is no magic line you can use. Just get out there as much as possible. If you’re serious about swinging do socials and attend events and clubs. The more known you are it helps.

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By *eetootsWoman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

I would recommend going to clubs and also socials organised through this, bare with it and put yourself out there 😀

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

do women struggle too as much as men to arrange a meet

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By *ingerChefKMan
5 weeks ago

edinburgh

Change your pics up a bit? More personality, less cock?

Generally clubs and socials, get out and meet folks they way. Make connections

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By *xDecadent_ColoursxxMan
5 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Really struggling to find people too meet on here any help would be appreciated "

I've been on-and-off this site, and in-and-out of the swinging scene for over ten years, and what everyone else is saying has always been the way. In all that time I can think of one person from this site that I've ended up meeting after communicating with them on here to begin with. All the others have been people I've met at a club, etc.

It's way more difficult as a single male.

Going to events, clubs, etc, is the best way to meet genuine people when you're a single guy on here.

"Chin up" and all that

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
5 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I would recommend going to clubs and also socials organised through this, bare with it and put yourself out there 😀"

Just don't put it out in crowded public places!

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By *rgoodnbadMan
5 weeks ago

greenock


"do women struggle too as much as men to arrange a meet "

Lol, no.

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By *oyo55 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

kilmarnock


"It’s always a struggle these days for anyone. A lot of people love the chat but the actual physical meet mor so much. The amount of ghosting, profile blocked you or profile disappeared is unreal. You just have to stick at it unfortunately there is no magic line you can use. Just get out there as much as possible. If you’re serious about swinging do socials and attend events and clubs. The more known you are it helps. "
ah ok thanks for the reply will look into them

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By *oyo55 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

kilmarnock


"I would recommend going to clubs and also socials organised through this, bare with it and put yourself out there 😀"
thanks for reply will look into them

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By *oyo55 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

kilmarnock

Thanks for reply’s will look into them

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By *assy LassieWoman
5 weeks ago

Near Glasgow

Your age is probably a barrier for a lot of people. Make sure you are messaging folk that will meet your age

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By *oyo55 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

kilmarnock


"Your age is probably a barrier for a lot of people. Make sure you are messaging folk that will meet your age"
yeah I always look out for that but can understand why cause I’m so young

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By *erfHerder74Man
5 weeks ago

Inverclyde

People can be fussy and more cautious if they have had a bad experience meeting

Your profile and pics look fine.

For me it’s about building a connection but local men seem to be looking for quickies with randoms and no bears

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By *aylor30Couple
5 weeks ago

East Lothian

We r really struggling too atm!

It’s like there’s been a black mark against our name or something 😂 we had quite a few chats going, winks coming in etc then nothing zilch no takers no reply’s!

We go to clubs as much as we can but having 8 kids between us sometimes makes it hard

Plus I suppose wat we r into doesn’t interest a lot of people either 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *scobar67Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow

Been on n off here for about 10 year and it's definitely harder to get meets these days

Even getting a reply is hard these days

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By *ife2010Couple
5 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy


"We r really struggling too atm!

It’s like there’s been a black mark against our name or something 😂 we had quite a few chats going, winks coming in etc then nothing zilch no takers no reply’s!

We go to clubs as much as we can but having 8 kids between us sometimes makes it hard

Plus I suppose wat we r into doesn’t interest a lot of people either 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️"

We’re struggling too, most couples want to meet with a bi female so that rules us out.

We did have a meet arranged with a single guy but he cancelled as he hadn’t had his tea…..

Need to sort out a Fife social so we can network.

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By *ark4841Man
5 weeks ago

ayrshire

Really looking for fwb this weekend if anyone interested in a good time weekend or something

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