FabSwingers.com forum: First Verification

By *assy Lassie OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Near Glasgow

Saw this on another forum and thought it was a good idea!

Anyone willing to help a fabber out.

Social/coffee meet for unverified profiles. No expectations other than newbie pays for coffee.

Say you are in and what area. Let's help genuine newbies get that illusive first veri.

I'm in Lanarkshire.

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By *iss stiletto loverWoman
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

Great idea!! Totally agree and also happy to help with this.

Im also in Lanarkshire

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By *ergie59Man
12 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Could it be you 2 ladies will be getting a lot of coffee soon 🙂

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By *tsme7Man
12 weeks ago

Ardrossan

Great idea as it seems a bit hard getting a chat going never mind getting verified

I’m in the North Ayrshire area

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Saw this on another forum and thought it was a good idea!

Anyone willing to help a fabber out.

Social/coffee meet for unverified profiles. No expectations other than newbie pays for coffee.

Say you are in and what area. Let's help genuine newbies get that illusive first veri.

I'm in Lanarkshire."

Good selfless & helpful post

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
12 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I have done this before. Been a good soul and helped a newbie out.

He was told it was purely a social meet. Ended up having to block him cos he kept pestering me for more.

I’ll save it for our pre social drinks event, my dear Sassy.x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"I have done this before. Been a good soul and helped a newbie out.

He was told it was purely a social meet. Ended up having to block him cos he kept pestering me for more.

I’ll save it for our pre social drinks event, my dear Sassy.x"

good job putting everybody off

LOL

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
12 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"I have done this before. Been a good soul and helped a newbie out.

He was told it was purely a social meet. Ended up having to block him cos he kept pestering me for more.

I’ll save it for our pre social drinks event, my dear Sassy.x

good job putting everybody off

LOL"

No trouble at all 😌

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By *ighlandercockMan
12 weeks ago

Dingwall

Happy to help.

Mostly highland area.

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
12 weeks ago

paisley

"Saw this on another forum and thought it was a good idea!

Anyone willing to help a fabber out.

Social/coffee meet for unverified profiles. No expectations other than newbie pays for coffee.

Say you are in and what area. Let's help genuine newbies get that illusive first veri.

I'm in Lanarkshire."

In. Glasgow ish

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By *estiswestMan
12 weeks ago

glasgow

Great idea

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By *imMcSilverMan
12 weeks ago

edinburgh & newcastle

Genuinely good idea, I may put up a coffee meet in the Central area.

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By *ellinever70Woman
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I'm not the helpful kind

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Prestwick if anyone can help

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By *rgoodnbadMan
12 weeks ago

greenock

It's just gonna be guys meeting other guys for a coffee. Then they'll face the dilemma of posting veris from men

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By *cottish_lad102Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

Happy to buy coffee and cake for ladies who fancy a social meet. Glasgow and West Scotland, happy to travel and available day-time.

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By *olloxsMan
12 weeks ago

edinburgh

Happy to do so here in Edinburgh

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By *scobar67Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

Glasgow

Which nice ladies are offering tea

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

"It's just gonna be guys meeting other guys for a coffee. Then they'll face the dilemma of posting veris from men

Not if they display the verification & it explains it was just a social?

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By *heekyxx2025Woman
12 weeks ago

Paisley

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By *heekyxx2025Woman
12 weeks ago

Paisley

"Glasgow

Which nice ladies are offering tea

You are verified ! Or are you thinking some nice lady is struggling to get verified 😳

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By *iss stiletto loverWoman
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Glasgow

Which nice ladies are offering tea

You are verified ! Or are you thinking some nice lady is struggling to get verified 😳"

I was just thinking the same! 🤔

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By *nake85Man
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I'm down for it, in Kilmarnock

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By *ico7777Man
12 weeks ago

Mossblown

Great idea. Im just outside Ayr.

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By *akedrob2025Man
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Totally agree,good idea, Dunfermline here

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

This is a really great idea and a king offer. The kindness should absolutely be respected by not pushing boundaries that are set out.

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By *ookieStackhouseWoman
12 weeks ago

ABERDEEN

Happy to offer this in Aberdeen/shire. I'm such a yap, always happy to get coffee and cake

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By *xpect.The.UnexpectedCouple
12 weeks ago

Ayr

What a great idea !!! We would be happy to help out. Based in south Ayrshire. 😘

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Sounds like a good way to get a free costa! I'm in - with a better accent than the scottish lassie in the maccy d's ad!

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By *lderChick65Woman
12 weeks ago

my town

Im in ayrshire

As an old fabber happy to help

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By *ostwanderer2024Man
12 weeks ago

Grimsby

I'd love this. I've got a cam verification but not a meet. In the fife/Edinburgh area.

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By *scobar67Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

"Glasgow

Which nice ladies are offering tea

You are verified ! Or are you thinking some nice lady is struggling to get verified 😳

I was just thinking the same! 🤔"

I've not met for ages though so was wanting a few recent verifications

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I tried to do it a long time ago now pre covid, most just seemed to want more after coffee so I quickly gave the idea up as at the time I couldn't offer more. It's a fantastic idea though

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

My partner offered this a couple years ago. And had a a couple socials from it.

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By *ingerChefKMan
12 weeks ago

edinburgh

I am in! I’m in Edinburgh and willing to travel

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By *asy_going_guy4uMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Definitely up for this. I stay in Hamilton but willing to travel and yes I'll pay 😃

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By *aucySue52Woman
12 weeks ago

glasgow

Would be up for it only if it was clear that it was just a social as per my profile

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By *aucySue52Woman
12 weeks ago

glasgow

Would be up for it only if it was clear that it was just a social as per my profile

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By *he feckersCouple
12 weeks ago

rosyth

Dunfermline and willing

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By *elsbells2011Couple
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Helen definitely up for a wee social date. Coffee and a chat could be good.

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By *cottish meatvegMan
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

Would someone be willing to help me get my first verification-Bellshill Motherwell Hamilton if at all possible x

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By *aoch_scot86Man
12 weeks ago

Bathgate

Falkirk 🤙 Starbucks ladies?

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By *ardwarek85Man
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Totally agree,good idea, Dunfermline here.

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By *scobar67Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

"Dunfermline and willing "

Glasgow and willing

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By *scobar67Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

"Helen definitely up for a wee social date. Coffee and a chat could be good. "

Coffee and chat sounds good

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By *oyo55Man
12 weeks ago

kilmarnock

Kilmarnock here if anyone can help

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
12 weeks ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

I’ve been doing this for years and most of the time it’s been a good experience and met some great people over the years

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By *unwithyouMan
12 weeks ago

downtown

This is a great idea.

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By *usicmaidWoman
12 weeks ago

fabbington

I would be willing renfrewshire and glasgow.

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By *nlyLiveOnce85Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Happy to buy someone a coffee and try dish out some decent chat for a verification 😂

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By *ollobolloMan
12 weeks ago

Cambuslang

Great idea. I’m verified on fabguys but not here. As we know how difficult to get on the fab ladder can be.

Even just a quick social to verify someone would help. Plus you could use that excuse to meet someone you’re kinda like. If it turns out they didn’t float your boat but were nice. You could verify. No harm, no foul

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By *oyboymotherwellMan
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

A think this would help my profile anyone in the Motherwell area

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By *exySinners2Couple
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We've done this in the past but won't do it for single men as it always ends up with them chancing their luck and pushing for more and it's really off putting

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By *oyboymotherwellMan
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

Yeah av seen that it’s hard for single males on here

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By *B84Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow / Ayrshire

That’s a great idea

I’ve met a few people over the years.

Unfortunately no one has took the time to leave a verification on my profile

Im not the kind of guy to pester people for one, as im sure someone will leave one eventually lol

If anyone fancies a coffee over the weekend, either in Glasgow or surrounding areas, I’m game

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By *inUpGirlWoman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Used to do this a few years back picked a coffee shop and threw a meet up and anyone who fancied it could pop by, sometimes we had 2 folk turn up sometimes 15 but was a great way for people to get a wee veri. X

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By *anarkshireguy400Man
12 weeks ago

glassford

I’m in. Hamilton area.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

In, happy to help in Montrose

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By *akamineMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

What a great idea. I’m in Glasgow and work in Motherwell, happy to grab a coffee and a chat with anyone.

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By *asterChefMasterMan
12 weeks ago

Glenrothes

I'm often up for a coffee, cake and gossip.

Couples, women and even guys that would like a few pointers of etiquette of the site..

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By *ngus111Man
12 weeks ago

Inverness

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Excellent idea. I’m in Lanarkshire but can drive. I have face pics available for anyone helping.

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By *oo_BeesCouple
12 weeks ago

Saltcoats

I will verify if you wank and cum for me ayrshire only

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Clydebank and yes newbie buys coffee

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By *oyo55Man
11 weeks ago

kilmarnock

Ayrshire area I’m up for a coffee and a chat

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By *oftTouch84Man
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm up form a social and verifying and being verified. I'm in Edinburgh, write me and see when we can meet.

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By *iventurerabzMan
11 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Hey everyone,

Been on here 6 months and still trying for that elusive first meet.

Time is limited due to personal circumstances and when I am free, no one else is.

Had a couple of "Almosts" but didn't work out, even with a bunch of flowers in the car for her

I have always been nothing but polite while messaging anyone. Sadly, for no apparent reason, one "friend" decided to block me which is rather frustrating.

Will keep trying but eventually, might just have to admit defeat

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Deal.

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By *astings94311Man
11 weeks ago

Prestwick

"What a great idea !!! We would be happy to help out. Based in south Ayrshire. 😘"

Book me in!

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By *iam_PMan
11 weeks ago

Motherwell

I’m would be in and in Lanarkshire area

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By *lassyGent95Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

I’d appreciate a drink/coffee date in Glasgow?

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Great idea! Glasgow way for me I will even stretch it and offer some cake with the tea or coffee

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By *dfsdMan
11 weeks ago

nskad

Definitely up for this!

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By *eautynGeekCouple
11 weeks ago

Dalry

"I have done this before. Been a good soul and helped a newbie out.

He was told it was purely a social meet. Ended up having to block him cos he kept pestering me for more.

I’ll save it for our pre social drinks event, my dear Sassy.x"

And look at us now bestie. Geek

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By *edJamieMan
11 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Im in kirkcaldy.fantastic idea

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By *edJamieMan
11 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

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By *agnar2323Man
11 weeks ago

Valhalla

Always happy to meet for coffee.lol

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By *laySexualWoman
11 weeks ago

fife

I would defo be up for this . Always looking for an excuse to evade the kids and just have some down time 🤣💋

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By *ifealphaMan
11 weeks ago

scotland

Defo up for this, I’m in Fife

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
11 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"I have done this before. Been a good soul and helped a newbie out.

He was told it was purely a social meet. Ended up having to block him cos he kept pestering me for more.

I’ll save it for our pre social drinks event, my dear Sassy.x

And look at us now bestie. Geek

I had a social with you after i knew you and your lovely lady. Defo besties 😁

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By *un meets nsaMan
11 weeks ago

stirlingshire

Yeah I'm up for this.

Stirlingshire for me.

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By *yan7777Man
11 weeks ago

Motherwell

Great idea. Happy to help. And no obligations! lol Lanarkshire

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By *cotty1131Man
11 weeks ago

falkirk

Anyone in Falkirk willing to help a lad out

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By *abidosieMan
11 weeks ago

Falkirk

What a great idea. I'm in. Have a few verifications but always good to meet new people and get some current veris. I'm in Falkirk, work in Edinburgh and Dan travel. Get in touch and coffee and cake are on me ☕ 🍰

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

anyone in ayrshire that can help?

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By *cottish30Man
11 weeks ago

aberdeen

Im in, Aberdeen

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By *atinagirlWoman
11 weeks ago

Over The Rainbow Next to the Pot of Gold

Good idea to help newbies out .. I’m Glasgow North area

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By *radesman.95Man
11 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

East ayrshire 30 ...

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By *mc1Man
11 weeks ago

BELFAST

I’m for Glasgow tomorrow I’ll call by

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By *moothassilk99Man
11 weeks ago

Perthshire

Great idea! I’m in Perthshire but regularly travel to Fife & Glasgow. Would love to buy someone a coffee!

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By *outhsidefunMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Great idea, and would happily take up offer…coffee and cake and then leave it at that. Simple but, it seems many guys struggle with the concept??

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By *ordermanreturnsMan
10 weeks ago

Llangollen

This is just a cunning plan for coffee shop owners to increase trade..!!!

No longer wil the post in the Scottish forums be "which is the best pub to meet swingers in Glasgow /Edinburgh..?"

It'll be which is the most popular cafe that swingers frequent"

Could be interesting if folk reported back whether they met in a main chain or independent..

Or which is their preferred coffee venue..

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By *ordermanreturnsMan
10 weeks ago

Llangollen

But fair do's good idea..joke apart above

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By *erfHerder74Man
10 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I’d be happy to meet someone local to verify

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
10 weeks ago

perth

Think I might get shares in starbucks snd costa

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By *r.s.Man
10 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Im in! Aberdeenshire here

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By *ingerChefKMan
10 weeks ago

edinburgh

Long shot. But if anyone if free this morning for a coffee, I’m up for this.

If not today, next week I’m off Monday and Tuesday. So if anyone wants to plan a veri meet, msg me

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By *yantico86Man
10 weeks ago

drumchapel

I’m in

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By *aoch_scot86Man
1 week ago

Bathgate

Did anyone get any luck with this?

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I'd definitely be up for this as a newbie.

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By *andL2026Couple
1 week ago

moray/Inverness

We are up for helping people in moray get their first verification if we are free and understand it’s just a social.

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By *iss stiletto loverWoman
1 week ago

Motherwell

"Did anyone get any luck with this?"

It was a waste of time from my perspective. Twice guys cancelled me last minute and another I clearly wasn't their cup of tea as I offered and they politely declined 🤣🤣

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By *ddieZenMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

I've got one verification but looking for first from a meet up.

In.

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By *licker77Man
1 week ago

Stirling

I’m always happy to have a social. Coffee, chat and if they need verified - I’ll know I’ve given an honest opinion and account.

Central scotland - Stirling and Falkirk areas

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By *ddieZenMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

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By *ddieZenMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

"Did anyone get any luck with this?

It was a waste of time from my perspective. Twice guys cancelled me last minute and another I clearly wasn't their cup of tea as I offered and they politely declined 🤣🤣"

That's their loss. I don't know why someone would cancel meeting for a cuppa if it helps then get verified.

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By *agnar2323Man
1 week ago

Valhalla

"Did anyone get any luck with this?

It was a waste of time from my perspective. Twice guys cancelled me last minute and another I clearly wasn't their cup of tea as I offered and they politely declined 🤣🤣"

Obviously it was theyre loss.xx

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By *ev1793Man
1 week ago

Glenrothes

"Did anyone get any luck with this?

It was a waste of time from my perspective. Twice guys cancelled me last minute and another I clearly wasn't their cup of tea as I offered and they politely declined 🤣🤣"

Can't understand that, especially if its just a coffee to get verification

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I'm in Ayrshire and more that willing to have a coffee and a chat

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By *ev1793Man
1 week ago

Glenrothes

I'm Fife and would love a coffee and a chat, so that can get verified

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By *ympho6969Woman
1 week ago

glasgow

"Did anyone get any luck with this?

It was a waste of time from my perspective. Twice guys cancelled me last minute and another I clearly wasn't their cup of tea as I offered and they politely declined 🤣🤣

Can't understand that, especially if its just a coffee to get verification "

I tried setting up a group social last weekend. This would have been a very easy way for new profiles to get verified. I made no age limits or preference limits.

11 people responded. 1 turned up...

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By *ev1793Man
1 week ago

Glenrothes

"Did anyone get any luck with this?

It was a waste of time from my perspective. Twice guys cancelled me last minute and another I clearly wasn't their cup of tea as I offered and they politely declined 🤣🤣

Can't understand that, especially if its just a coffee to get verification

I tried setting up a group social last weekend. This would have been a very easy way for new profiles to get verified. I made no age limits or preference limits.

11 people responded. 1 turned up..."

Thats really poor

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By *lasgowg53Man
7 days ago

glasgow

Am free for coffee most nights

Or weekends

Glasgow area

Willing to travel xx

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
7 days ago

Aberdeen

Good idea but remember unverified people cant verify others till they have been verified themselves... two unverified people cant verify eachother

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By *oodguy831Man
7 days ago

bathagte

In West Lothian and that would be great it’s such a catch 22, a verification would help me out no end so who fancy’s a coffee

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