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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well , been a while since I posted.

I am what you would class as TOP, this does not not mean I am mean ,bitchy or selfish so why do people think as TOP has to be any of those? SheesH ,normal is what I am !!!! I like to spank,whip & cane people ,cause that's what my sadistic side needs and I the ying to your yang !

Who really thinks a TOP has to mean,cruel and princess ???? ??

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"Well , been a while since I posted.

I am what you would class as TOP, this does not not mean I am mean ,bitchy or selfish so why do people think as TOP has to be any of those? SheesH ,normal is what I am !!!! I like to spank,whip & cane people ,cause that's what my sadistic side needs and I the ying to your yang !

Who really thinks a TOP has to mean,cruel and princess ???? ?? "

I think you mean DOMME?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well , been a while since I posted.

I am what you would class as TOP, this does not not mean I am mean ,bitchy or selfish so why do people think as TOP has to be any of those? SheesH ,normal is what I am !!!! I like to spank,whip & cane people ,cause that's what my sadistic side needs and I the ying to your yang !

Who really thinks a TOP has to mean,cruel and princess ???? ?? "
I would answer if I knew what your talking about lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

What does TOP mean??

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

In human sexuality, top, bottom and versatile are terms that describe roles during sexual intercourse, especially between two men. A top is a person who penetrates, a bottom is one who receives penetration, and a versatile engages in both activities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No . I donot class myself as a Domme , I class myself as a TOP . I am not a Mistress or Dominatrix . People donot seem to understand the difference on here ! I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain . I donot think anyone is beneath me . I am the ying to their yang Everyone needs an opposite surely ????

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Sadistic nature and pleases you to cause pain....

A sadist then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

YES ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always thought top and bottom was a gay thing

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

So your looking for masochists???

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"No . I donot class myself as a Domme , I class myself as a TOP . I am not a Mistress or Dominatrix . People donot seem to understand the difference on here ! I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain . I donot think anyone is beneath me . I am the ying to their yang Everyone needs an opposite surely ????"

Domme, as a contraction of Dominatrix? Had the connection escaped you?

As Foe says, Top & Bottom are primarily gay/bi male terms.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"i always thought top and bottom was a gay thing "

Id never heard of it and now I know why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No . I donot class myself as a Domme , I class myself as a TOP . I am not a Mistress or Dominatrix . People donot seem to understand the difference on here ! I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain . I donot think anyone is beneath me . I am the ying to their yang Everyone needs an opposite surely ????

Domme, as a contraction of Dominatrix? Had the connection escaped you?

As Foe says, Top & Bottom are primarily gay/bi male terms."

Aww, but I want to be classed as versatile...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

[Removed by poster at 13/06/13 22:01:46]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people think TOPS have to be men and gay ? I am who I am , not a bitch ,not a domme ,just someone who enjoys the delight of causing a bit of pain and whatever else comes my way .I have a sadistic side ( don't all women in one way or another ?) I like men to be men ,but if they have a masochistic side all the better Afterall all you guys really know who is the boss !!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Why do people think TOPS have to be men and gay ?"

Because a TOP is a person who engages in the penetrative role in sexual intercourse....

Your into sadomasochism....thats completely different....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always thought top and bottom was a gay thing "

This.

Is it not just a politer way of saying 'givers' and 'receivers'?! Lol

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"Why do people think TOPS have to be men and gay ? I am who I am , not a bitch ,not a domme ,just someone who enjoys the delight of causing a bit of pain and whatever else comes my way .I have a sadistic side ( don't all women in one way or another ?) I like men to be men ,but if they have a masochistic side all the better Afterall all you guys really know who is the boss !!! "

You just seem to want a different vocabulary from everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

WoW , don't you just love the little boxes people put you into ! I do also own a few strapons of various sizes so therefore if I want to I CAN penetrate !

Hate to say it but the internet really has managed to make people misunderstand so much !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain . "

Mum???

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Put it this way....

IF i was into what you are describing, id much prefer the box of sadomasochism than TOP.....

If you want to be a TOP, you be one...

But dont get annoyed when people dont understand what you mean...

Im going with what the internet tells me, that its a gay/bi male thing...Penned by gay/bi men....

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

I know some women with dominant side and tendencies that prefer to use top as their orientation, some just kinkster-it's a personal view of how you feel what describes you. Yes top and bottom are most commonly referred to in the gay and bi sense but it can and is used in other contexts too in the kink community.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain .

Mum??? "

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"WoW , don't you just love the little boxes people put you into ! I do also own a few strapons of various sizes so therefore if I want to I CAN penetrate !

Hate to say it but the internet really has managed to make people misunderstand so much ! "

Thank the Great God of Fab for the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top middle or bottom

Wowow

It a hot spot haha

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Also i should've said i know of some guys too, who are straight, that also refer to themselves as top rather than Dom or Master.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"i always thought top and bottom was a gay thing "

Me to

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Also i should've said i know of some guys too, who are straight, that also refer to themselves as top rather than Dom or Master."

Yeah.....Guys!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know wots goin on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This place is full of people who don't know what's going on ....or for that matter what's not going on ...cor blimey ! An' i'm not even english hahhah.

Just enjoy what you enjoy and stop putting people in boxes . It's tiresome !

I am what I am and I need no excuses - name that song !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this box have a glory hole perchance?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

We didnt put you in a box.....You did!!

And your right....some people really dont know what is/what isnt going on....

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West


"We didnt put you in a box.....You did!!

And your right....some people really dont know what is/what isnt going on.... "

Leave Bru out of this....!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"We didnt put you in a box.....You did!!

And your right....some people really dont know what is/what isnt going on....

Leave Bru out of this....! "

No

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Oh and for the record....Im not English either

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

To me Top/bottom is the same as Dom/Domme/Sub, with the exception of it being a one night stand. For example when you visit a club.

Maybe its open to missenterpretation.

XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone can be what they want to be - surely that's the joy of LIFE !!!!

Never known so many people who say

they're open-minded but really are not !

Fck I can hear Depeche Mode calling - so openminded ! Give them a go !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangest thread I have read in ages. I thought it was going to be about Taps aff! How wrong I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have a very nice sadistic side to my nature ,it pleases me to cause pain .

Mum??? "

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Fck I can hear Depeche Mode calling - so openminded ! Give them a go !!! "

thats a bit unfair, i really like depeche mode

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"This place is full of people who don't know what's going on ....or for that matter what's not going on ...cor blimey ! An' i'm not even english hahhah.

Just enjoy what you enjoy and stop putting people in boxes . It's tiresome !

I am what I am and I need no excuses - name that song !!!!! "

You were the one who defined yourself and put yourself into a box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs so glad I missed this last nite

And for the record I really didnt know wot was goin on

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Ffs i thot this thread was about bras and panties.....never heard of it in that context....must have lived a sheltered life

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"

You were the one who defined yourself and put yourself into a box. "

Was just about to reply saying the same thing.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Like Boxing Helena ?...that was a woman in a box wasnt it

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